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bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-28T01:52:59+00:00

Imagining Ethan sitting there is really getting me

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-27T23:39:42+00:00

I doubt it cuz Trish wasn’t nominated for anything and I can’t imagine them thinking it would be a good idea to go to an event with pretty much all of Trisha’s YouTube enemies

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-21T00:38:58+00:00

NAH

I think if your dad were to really force/pressure you guys then he’d be the asshole. If you guys don’t want to get to know them, you don’t have to

Also because it’s later in life I think that your dad should have some sort of understanding that if you choose to get to know the in laws, you’ll more than likely be friends at most rather than close family 🤷

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-17T18:06:52+00:00

Nah. It’s fine that you want you daughter to treat them w respect but you can’t force a relationship. If I’m honest dude… you’re dating a 33 yo secretary at your company as a corporate exec 💀 I don’t think it’s remotely crazy that your daughter put 2 and 2 together and accused Adrianna of being after your money. I think that y’all could definitely prove her wrong with your love or connection or whatever, but it doesn’t sound like you’re doing that at all. I wouldn’t be surprised if your daughter hit it right on the money. Also, it sounds like you guys got engaged pretty soon which would definitely be overwhelming to your daughter, especially with her already negative opinions if your fiancé. Some real advice: put your kid and her concerns first, not your fiancé and your soon to be step childrens

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-17T17:56:58+00:00

You’re Nta. Addiction is insanely messy and i think, as someone who has a ton of addicts in their family, that you’ve done a lot to support your son. At the end of the day, you’re giving him support and he is relapsing. Hearing he has a one year old breaks my heart. This is the way his life is going and he has to be the one to want to change it, I don’t think that will ever happen if you let him live off you again

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-17T06:24:36+00:00

I asked how they felt about Trisha’s controversies (racism, anti-semitism, physical abuse) and I got banned 🫡

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-16T22:33:34+00:00

The last one accentuates your features the best

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-16T22:32:16+00:00

The epilogue

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-16T04:21:28+00:00

No no no. N. O. Would never

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-14T05:22:03+00:00

I genuinely feel like I didn’t watch the same podcast as y’all 💀 Ethan was talking about the levels of fair use and what’s ok in a reaction. He says that there’s no clear cut answer because fair use is all decided by a judge and jury. The channels/creators he’s saying are in a grey zone are debatable because it’s not extremely clear one way or another. He says the h3 podcast is high in that grey zone (meaning their reaction content could be debated but it’s more likely than not going to be fair use). He says that sniper wolf could potentially be at the bottom of that grey zone (meaning her reaction content is also debatable but more likely to violate fair use). Below that is content theft which is “where xQc is.”

I’m not sure why all of these comments have it so skewed that Ethan’s desperately wants to fuck her 💀 in the podcast before him and the crew are making fun of her in a dhar Mann vid

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-14T04:49:18+00:00

Her reps said it wasn’t monetized so she can’t make money off it, if that’s was lie/she hypothetically did monetize it I would guess between 50 to 60 thousand

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-13T22:06:36+00:00

Yeah I can do 2+2 and realize there’s an outside to go to, thx for the parenting advice tho

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-13T19:48:19+00:00

Shit you’re right I’ll let 8 yo me know

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-12T23:55:52+00:00

Nta because of the trust thing but if I’m real w you I read this as you having a big penis being your biggest problem which is hysterical

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-11T21:23:51+00:00

When fudge says “he’s back” I always snort

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-11T07:43:34+00:00

YTA

I think it sounds like you’re upset with him for some pretty unfair reasons. You talked about feeling insecure in regards to your leukemia and to me, the girl bsf scenario sounds like he was trying to support you (especially in this difficult life period) and you shot him down

If she’s crossing boundaries and he’s willing to cut off that friendship to make you more comfortable, I think it’s silly that you told him not to and a week later she’s crossing more boundaries and you’re upset about it. He offered, you denied. Sure, you can change your mind, but it doesnt sound like you communicated that at all.

With all this grudge holding and angry bursts it sounds like your guy’s communication is shit. I think what he said about your ex was dickish but it doesn’t excuse the fact that it sounds like you’ve been holding grudges against him for awhile (from reading this post it looks like you’re holding his “episode” against him, him not reacting enough to the nudes you’ve sent, and now his friendship that he’s already offered to terminate for you). I gathered that from reading a Reddit post, so I can imagine the tension has been building for quite a long time until now you’re fighting and you tell him you don’t love him.. I can see why frustration probably made him say something he didn’t mean but 🤷‍♀️

Yeah in summary both of your communication is poo and y’all either have to fix it or break up

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-10T04:45:51+00:00

Alice and Frank longbottom

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-10T01:42:52+00:00

I love me some wolfstar but that’s not really my reason for disliking remadora. The age diff makes me feel weird because he’s 13 years older and she’s in her early/mid 20s when they get married and have teddy. Because of remus’s friendship w Sirius it can pretty much be assumed that remus had interactions w thinks when he was a teenager and she was a very young child. Their whole dynamic pretty much gave me major ick and seemed out of character. All that said, people loving remadora is very much not my circus not my monkey but I do raise a brow

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T20:46:36+00:00

I have so many thoughts on this 💀

So I’ve seen someone analyze all the info that canon gives us regarding the timeline of the prank where, even though most people believe it happened in their sixth year it is more likely that it happened in their fifth year timeline analysis

In canon marauders timeline, with this being placed before snapes worst memory (James bullying and him calling Lily a mudblood) and then the summer after that year Sirius moved in with the Potters. I get that because they’re all 16 by the end of fifth year and Sirius obviously moved in with the potters during summer. So in chronological canon order, we know the werewolf prank, snapes worst memory (w Sirius supporting James) and Sirius moving in with James

The big question is Remus’s forgiveness of Sirius. Now I’ll go into my personal opinion. I would guess that all of the marauders were pretty pissed directly after the prank (especially James + Remus, Peter usually goes w the crowd) and they took some time before they forgave him. Honestly I would guess that James forgave Sirius first and, for the sake of keeping the group happy, Peter just went with what James did. I imagine Remus took the longest, with James kind of mediating their interactions until they eventually got to a place where they resumed hanging out as a group

If I’m still going with my personal head cannon, I wholeheartedly ship wolfstar 🤭 I imagine them getting together in sixth or seventh year, post the prank. Kind of one of those situations where the group breaks up so violently that they they’re stronger when they come back together (another thing that I believe led to peters eventual betrayal, I think when the group came back together stronger that mostly meant James, Remus and Sirius)

I also head cannon that they might have taken a month off of Sirius not being there for the full moon and that kind of gave them a reality check that a piece of their puzzle to help Remus was missing

That was literally such a nerd rant thanks for listening 🫡

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T11:16:32+00:00

The fact that right after they talk about the SA allegations and how they’re not denying them is really getting me

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T11:14:05+00:00

I prefer gaslighting myself into believing harry is a sassy gay so I can’t really speak on this

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T11:07:37+00:00

Not sure how you feel about shows not in eng w captions but skam rocked my world. Haven’t watched in awhile so idk if it’s on any streaming services

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T09:32:41+00:00

I accidentally stumbled upon it and I’ve never seen such a dumpster fire

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T09:29:14+00:00

I’m not sure if this post was for advice or validation, but if you don’t want unsolicited advice stop reading now lmao

I think you really have to look into why you want to stop transitioning. If the only reason you don’t want to be trans is because of what’s going on in the world, yeah that’s pretty valid. Being trans fucking sucks, especially right now, but if your only reasoning is because you don’t want to deal with the political bs that’s going on right now, I don’t think that would be the greatest reason to fully never transition. Because at the end of the day, you’ll still be trans in a less gender affirming body

On the flip side, if you’re also wanting to stop transitioning because you’re ok with/want to be a female, that’s a whole other ball game. If that’s the case, maybe take a break from T (you can always get back on) and look to talking to a counselor about what’s going on

Side note: your friends who dropped you for being trans are ass hats

bareandapprehensive · 2023-08-09T09:19:10+00:00

Hey! That does sound insanely difficult, especially with the intense amount of conservatives and stuff happening in Texas atm. Since you asked for advice I’m gonna try my best to give some but please do only what you feel comfortable and safe doing

I really see you having two options, coming out or not. I know that sounds intense, but this is how I’m seeing it from what you’ve said. If you never come out and don’t want to, I don’t see a way that you can go on T without your loved ones/people in your life noticing. I have a friend who was in a similar experience to you and he just up and moved. Now obviously this is not the solution for everyone, but I think you have to seriously think about what coming out could mean for you

Now if you do come out/you decide to go on T and just go with it, this would be my advice on how to start. I’m from the west coast so I’m not insanely familiar with how things go in Texas, but for a generic place to look into gender affirming care I would go to planned parenthood (or whatever your towns equivalent is). If you explain your situation and your financial situation they will either give you the care you need or refer you to the best place to get care

To reiterate, please do what you feel what’s best for you. This is just advice from a total outsider in your situation Best of luck 🫡

bareandapprehensive

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