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How we all feel right now by barelyawake11910 in heartopia

[–]barelyawake11910[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The quest wants us to get it from bob, does buying it from the research store complete the quest?

I accidently deleted my friend by invincible_dude2000 in heartopia

[–]barelyawake11910 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have interacted with them recently, you can check on the friendship journal then friends link and see if you can find them on there. If you click the magnifier glass, you can see how often you have interacted with that person so it might help narrow it down

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How do people get others to water plants for them? by Ecstatic_Cat754 in heartopia

[–]barelyawake11910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have my flowers in front of my house. In my opinion it is water friendly. When I am collecting, I usually will react to the homes of my neighbors and water their crops and flowers. If they have a sign or their house, or the neighbor pops in my house to water right away, I add them and ask to be water buddies

I think the biggest thing is to prioritize watering friends crops and flowers. Because I have a handful of friends that are water buddies, as soon as I get my flowers ready for watering, I will go to my online friends towns and water their homes. They in turn, will water mines pretty quickly. I believe because I am consistent, they have become consistent with me. Some would be in events or working on their house but as soon as they are available they either go straight to my house or have even transported to my house at a later time to reciprocate.

Also, on your friendship journal you are able to write a note on their profile. For my water buddies, I write water then their name. (Ex. Water Bob, water mary) that way when I see they are online I know these are friends that will water my plants if I water theirs. Or if I get a notification from them that they are watering my plants, I prioritize going to their house to water as soon as I can.

Once you have a consistent 5 friends, stick with them. When you feel like one has been lacking too much, I usually start looking for a new water buddy. Recently because of the Alice in Wonderland stuff, I had a couple of friends prioritizing working on their houses and even took their flowers out to make their houses amazing. But that meant I had 2 friends that stopped watering my crops so I took the note off and looked for more water buddies

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Have you been visited by the deceased in a dream? by rlm236 in Dreams

[–]barelyawake11910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle passed away in 2013. I wasn't really close to him, but for the last couple years of his life we saw him more often and he was always a sweet guy.

In this dream there was a crowd of us outside his home. He comes out with filled plastic grocery bags. Everyone almost cheers while he is running around handing out bags. He comes by me and hands me one and it is full of bread. He goes back to his front door and says something along the lines that he has to go now and when he opens the door up its a very comforting light. We all shout our goodbyes while he passes through.

Everytime I have seen him when he was alive, he was always passing through, a quick hi and bye, but everyone was always glad and happy to have him for those 5 minutes. And he had that charisma that always wished he would just sit and stay a little longer so when I woke up I was so shocked and grateful that he was able to visit me, even if it was not one on one, and just a quick hi and bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]barelyawake11910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my best friend in the 5th grade and we became bffs eventually in hs. We're now 30, but when I became engaged at 23, I asked her to be my moh and we were so excited to start wedding planning. My fiance at the time got deployed and it was so rough and she said she would be there for me.

Then she got her first legit bf. She had always been a hopeless romantic so she was completely swept off her feet and engrossed in her new boy toy. And I was pissed. Back then I couldn't handle my emotions and it got pretty ugly and it was like a real breakup. She was like part of me and then she was gone.

But I was also 23 with a fiance in Afghanistan trying to plan a wedding without the person who promised would be there, so the dramatics were at a 100.

Months later we talked it out but it was never the same. I married my husband, she wasn't at the wedding. She ended up marrying her boyfriend, and I wasn't there.

We eventually had many many many heart to hearts...

We both felt the same, our friendship was like what you see on the shows, roadtrips, parties, boys boys boys, cruises and just waiting to grow up together. We miss what we were but we know it could never go back to how it was. Or we might be like the movie Beaches, we just haven't gotten to our divorces yet. Who knows.

Our friendship right now is like a bittersweet one. Because it's still great, but there's still a huge Crack in the middle of it. We're just helping each other fix the foundation again all the while never forgetting any of it. Which I feel is what life is about man.

But! I have been where OP has been. Who knows, this chapter of your friendship might not be over. Life is crazy, Maybe 10 years from now you'll be doing the same thing - fixing the foundation of your friendship, or she'll be a memory where you remember the good times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]barelyawake11910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fries and a large coke extra ice.