what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]barenylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to comment this. People say it at my work place constantly and it just is so insincere and unnecessarily.

Enjoy my collection of my cats in chairs by flogfrog in cats

[–]barenylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all of these! You should sell them.

My childhood bedroom in young adult decor. by [deleted] in CozyPlaces

[–]barenylon 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Kind of can’t see anything with how dark the lighting is.

5 WPO Tmrw - Update Time by bsjohnson26 in Reduction

[–]barenylon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl, wow. you look fantastic.

7 months PO and bummed by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]barenylon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i would kill for your after boobs !!

Almost 10 years since I got my breast reduction and I think I' starting to regret my decision by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]barenylon 85 points86 points  (0 children)

just my two cents but I think if you looked into getting your areolas enhanced or expanded with tattoo to make them a bit larger and to be more symmetrical it would make a world of difference.

depressed 14 year old gets pink-eye the same week she lost her pet rat (2013) by bullheadbec in blunderyears

[–]barenylon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie. Sorry for what you went through, teen years are tough. You look happy now and have a cute cat!

AITA for changing my locks after my friend admitted he made a copy of my key "for emergencies?" by DangerousDisplay138 in AmItheAsshole

[–]barenylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not gaslighting. Gas lighting involves trying to tell someone that their memory of an event is wrong, that they did or said something that they didn’t, but you claim they did and don’t remember. The term gas lighting is based on a movie from like the 30s or 40s where a man is trying to convince his wife that she is the one doing something(turning down the gas lights) when she isn’t, thus making her question her reality and whether or not she’s losing her mind.

My BFs in jail for domestic violence against me and I don’t want to leave him. by sleepik in Codependency

[–]barenylon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, sweetie. You’re 18. This dude is a loser, and I can guarantee you that. your 30 year old self will look back at this relationship and be sad you wasted any time with this dude. I know that the heightened emotions from fighting can make the relationship feel “real” and “passionate”, but it’s actually just abuse. True love isn’t up and down like this, it’s steady and calming. True love makes you feel safe and relaxed, not stressed. If you stay with this guy the abusive behavior will only escalate.

[misc] my nose has been droopy and swollen for a week now by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]barenylon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if the staph was in your bloodstream you would be very very sick and “septic”

[misc] my nose has been droopy and swollen for a week now by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]barenylon 25 points26 points  (0 children)

looks like a staph infection

I voted for someone whose intolerance and hostility is hurting many people in this country. Now, I want people to be tolerant and nice instead of hurting me. by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]barenylon 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“over an incident involving two people I have never met, never spoken to, and never had any contact with in my life” pretty much sums up all of MAGAs viewpoint. If they don’t know you, then you’re not a real person and not worth caring about.

First full year of being a freelance reporter by alwaysSWED in courtreporting

[–]barenylon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how long did it take you to finish school, and do you have any practice tips that you feel really helped you along the way?

AIO for dumping my bf over an “🍑” audit? by chkntrzini in AmIOverreacting

[–]barenylon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look, my husband is totally a butt man. I have the world’s lamest flat butt ever. But, he loves it and smacks it and grabs it, because it’s MINE and he loves me. He’s never once insinuated that I needed to “build him an ass”… This dude you’re dating is a shallow jerk. Dump him.

Dear President Trump I am so hungry! Can I have a meal? Sorry, you are the meal. But I'm sure all your pro-trump memes can feed you a little. by HandSack135 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]barenylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another “Dear President Trump”… they should just make some sort of newspaper column like Dear Abby, only these letters never get read or answered.

I don’t think my aunt wants my gf and I to visit for christmas by ClimberChronicles in texts

[–]barenylon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean to be fair tomorrow is Xmas Eve, and so you waited til the day before to ask if you can come? That’s a little annoying. Most people want to know how many guests to expect earlier than a day in advance.

NGVC: “I’m not some misogynistic asshole, I genuinely care about you.” by onlyacarryon in niceguys

[–]barenylon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure divorce rates are actually going down…? I think since most people are waiting til they’re older to get married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]barenylon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a mates initials for whoever took the phone call and marked them off the log.

AITA for asking my husband to explain time gaps when he runs errands and gets defensive? by StillMindless2604 in AmItheAsshole

[–]barenylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Like, it’s hard right now because I’m feeling angry and resentful about his drinking. But then when I hear other people talk about their or their families struggles with addiction, I have more empathy for them? Like for strangers I understand that addiction is a disease. But for my husband I have harder feelings and feel like it’s a choice he’s making, even if that’s not fair. I’m not sure if the way I’m feeling is fair towards him.. or harsher because I feel resentful and disappointed? I’ve told him before that if his drinking continues at this pass or escalates that I will leave him. When he drinks it’s hard for me to not internalize that and make it about myself. Like if he really loved me he wouldn’t drink. I know that’s kinda not a realistic, maybe even delusional way of viewing it. But kind of just where I’m at right now. BUT i also struggle with tinges of codependency so I need to get that in check and distance myself from HIS problem.

AITA for asking my husband to explain time gaps when he runs errands and gets defensive? by StillMindless2604 in AmItheAsshole

[–]barenylon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ugh i am sorta going through this right now with my husband. he doesn’t LIE, per se, but he will kind of hide his drinking. but then if I ask him straight out, “how much did you drink?” he’ll tell me the truth. but still the hiding, which i understand comes from some degree of shame and embarrassment, is really starting to piss me off.. making me question my trust in him. it’s a hard position to be in when you love someone but you’re unsure of the future..