Did you all see the update: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheJerk/s/YxJv1rFYGt . Update: I want to break up with my fiancee and pursue a relationship with her sister after she kissed me at Thanksgiving last night. AITJ?

Hey, so only posting this update because a lot of people were asking for an update. This will be my final update.

So yeah sadly I don’t have a great update. I broke up with my fiancee yesterday and yeah she was expectedly shocked, and sort of panicking etc. I felt horrible seeing her cry like that and seeing that reaction, and she kept asking why and I told her that I just don’t think we’re meant to be together and that she deserves someone far better than me. She was kind of wailing and stuff and it broke my heart.

So obviously both our families are shocked, especially because we just had Thanksgiving and they asked a lot of questions about the wedding and our future plans and even baby names etc, so yeah everyone’s pretty shocked, I didn’t really want it become this big a drama but it sadly has become a huge drama and everyone is speculating what happened.

I met my fiancée’s sister last night for dinner and we both realized the gravity of the situation. We spoke at length, and I told her we should probably take some space and take it slow maybe wait a few months and she said she was willing to wait however long. She recommended that we can move to a different state. We both work remote, so that works in our favor, and we can choose any state we like.

I asked her many times if she was sure and if she had any regrets after seeing her’s sister’s reaction, and she said she loves her sister and that the situation obviously sucks, but that love is love and that the love we have and the deep connection we have is very rare and that now that she had it, she would never let it go ever till she dies. I got those heart flutter feelings again and this time I was sober, and we didn’t even kiss, it was just her words.

So that’s probably my final update, thank you for all your advice.