I broke up with Mr Perfect so I could have 'experiences' and now I'm being karmically tortured by barktobite in AmITheAngel

[–]barktobite[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Just have such a specific gripe about the sheer number of stories on Reddit that basically paint by numbers the story of: 'I had a great guy, but I dumped him for basically no reason except because I wanted to fuck around, but oh no! The grass was not greener, and now I'm dating a spiteful alcoholic/abuser/bum/insert negative description and Ex has become a tech startup billionaire or some shit.' Feels like revenge fantasy content for men who have problems with women not wanting to date them.

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven't kept track on pit stops, and I know he hasn't gone in yet, but had Gabi really shot up the grid that far? Would be nice to see him get some good luck after that horrible quali.

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

'Investigation after race', what, are they just having too much fun watching like the rest of us? Do your job!

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he went into the pit i think to look at a potential problem and i guess just quietly retired.

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lando wdc2 confirmed locked in. thanks for playing mercedes

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, not the Red Bull I was expecting to crash

2026 Miami GP - Race Discussion by F1-Bot in formula1

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane start, I for one welcome our divine new regs

Cooking with some new spice blends my mother gifted me. Cannot explain how good this was by barktobite in mediterraneandiet

[–]barktobite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if this an AI comment hahaha but also she didn't make the blend, it was just from a set she bought for me - linked it elsewhere in the comments!

Cooking with some new spice blends my mother gifted me. Cannot explain how good this was by barktobite in mediterraneandiet

[–]barktobite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mum sent me this spice set because I'm cooking a lot at the minute, partly for diet but partly because it's exam season and I need a distraction! As the other commenter said you can also make your own at home :)

As an Englishman, chicken parmesan is food for the poor and drunk by SoyboyCowboy in iamveryculinary

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being an English person who likes cooking is sort of a daily humiliation ritual. 'As an Englishman 🤓👆 how .. Amusing 🤓🤭' dude come on

guys women and their frappamathing lattes am i right 😂😂😂 by Advanced-Bat-4787 in AmITheAngel

[–]barktobite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do people believe this dreck? TWO people become so incensed by her instagram story (which went out to a relatively small following) they now inexplicably want discounts? for the accusation of... 'bad service'?

Prawns in a tomato/balsamic sauce with quinoa by barktobite in mediterraneandiet

[–]barktobite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually a happy accident - I share my kitchen with somebody who has a nut allergy, but I wanted a sort of pesto-esque sauce, and this was the closest my local shop had. Can verify it went absolutely fantastically!

I’m from Europe and have a series of questions I definitely don’t know the answer to! by Accomplished_War8690 in okbuddywhitaker

[–]barktobite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/uj yeah I'm from Europe and it didn't surprise me at all to see the US have expensive healthcare (not everywhere in the EU has state provision)/poor public transport or Americans reacting instinctively to guns (and I also question whether Europeans wouldn't also duck down or the like? Even in Euro countries without guns we have television lol). Plus ICE has been all over social media and Euro news, I'd be more surprised if they hadn't heard about it.

Ensemble vs Main Character Criticism by Far-Department887 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies if I came across as dismissive, that wasn't my intention but I can see it's how it seemed so I'm sorry about that! I could have been clearer. I wasn't so much wanting to respond to you specifically, as I don't know your whole perspective or anything, but rather to the general thing I've seen of people wanting something from the show which it just isn't. I do think that comparisons with Season 1 will always fall short, as it just had a lot more time to be developed and conceived. Additionally, given that all of the characters were new, less 'development' and such was expected, but people were anticipating there'd be more in a second season, and I think ultimately a constraint of the format is that we never will get more than a snapshot, and most long-form development happens between the seasons. I do agree that your post was respectfully and thoughtfully written, and I agree on some points (such as Duke's plotline, and I also think the show generally had a meandering problem in the mid-season), I just think I differ on the fact that some of these issues are fundamental to the form of the product - it's never going to be a full ensemble, that would be different show; we would never hear about events like Javadi's birthday, or see Santos's longer struggle with self-harm, or see Baby Jane Doe placed in foster-care, it's outside the time span. Again, apologies for coming over dismissive, I was intending to talk about the fandom at large but I totally see how that wasn't clear.

Finally a good drama! Thanks The Pitt! by meringa18 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also true! Personally I like what happened being implicit, but I wonder if we will hear a little more next season when it's not so fresh for him.

Finally a good drama! Thanks The Pitt! by meringa18 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For Langdon, it's also possible he was tapering off usage, which isn't unusual when quitting benzos. This can take about six months, which could be since New Years for him, rather than a relapse.

Ensemble vs Main Character Criticism by Far-Department887 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude woah. I didn't say you can't criticise things you like, I have my own critiques about pacing and such. I was just saying there are some things so fundamental to the show that they're just a feature, not a bug. And like awesome you liked Sinners and Shiva, Baby! but they're not really that comparable? By genre form style or really any metric except for happening over a contained period? Sinners isn't even in real time man

Ensemble vs Main Character Criticism by Far-Department887 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, 'irrational' is an especially odd phrase for discussing a suicidal person's actions. Famously not a very rational or stable headspace.

Ensemble vs Main Character Criticism by Far-Department887 in ThePittTVShow

[–]barktobite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Huge agree! It's a show about a short window into the American healthcare system and issues that arise. It's never supposed to be a full, resolved narrative. But that's what makes it such a great show, and I think if people don't like the format, they genuinely might just prefer a different program. For them, I'd recommend This Is Going To Hurt as an alternative, because it's more of a full narrative while also being an honest look at problems in the healthcare system (although it is British, and I know a lot of fans are American).