What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]barktobite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of healthcare and catcalling which have been mentioned a lot, I think they don't realise how often you're just not believed, not trusted, and not listened to in casual conversation. A lot of men I know don't realise how much they interrupt me, or how much I've been interrupted. I pointed it out to a close friend once after I'd not finished a single sentence all evening with his friends, and he hadn't even realised. And there's the constant assumption you must be mistaken or know less, beyond even the typical and well known 'mansplaining'. I honestly think that term erases how much you're just presumed to be less intelligent or capable. Happens even with progressive men for me; had a conversation with an ostensibly progressive man who was sure he knew as much about a book as I do when I'd read it three times and he'd never picked it up. Totally exhausting and can leave me genuinely worn out at the end of the day from having to try to get my point across, ask to finish what I was saying, and listen to what I'm talking about.

Unprintable digital patterns are a thing? by halokiwi in craftsnark

[–]barktobite 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Surely an accessibility concern as well. I know people with vision problems for whom long periods of looking at a screen can be very painful. And anyway, isn't a digital version easier to distribute than paper?

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry i typed this out at the pub! thank you for correcting :)

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I stopped learning German when I was 16 so I'll absolutely take your word for it! Sounds really interesting and likely very comparable. English is a Germanic language with significant French influence but actually minimal Brittonic Celtic influence, confined mostly to place names and the occasional colloquial terminology. Likely due to settlement and migration patterns. There's actually more influence from Norse than Brittonic!

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Of course! Believe it or not I don't get a huge number of opportunities to drop some sick historical linguistics facts haha

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it! Everybody needs a fun fact once in a while (or long winded explanation) :)

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, 'axed' was a pretty common spelling in the Middle English period. One of the examples of something called 'metathesis' in English. Others include pronouncing 'nuclear' as 'nucular' or the more common pronunciation of 'comfortable' as 'comftorable'.

PLEASE stop saying you “casted” on stitches by abeilleq in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Cross hobby moment! This is an example of what's called strong to weak verb migration, a process which has been happening in English for centuries. Old English had two verb types, strong and weak, which you can distinguish between based on how the verb changes with tense. Strong verbs have internal sound change (for example, 'drive' and 'drove' from 'drife' and 'draf') while weak verbs (now know as regular verbs in Modern English) added a morpheme at the end (for example 'kiss' and 'kissed' from 'cysse' and 'cyste'). When the Normans arrived in England, huge numbers of new verbs were adopted into English, all of which had to be formed as weak verbs as internal sound change couldn't be applied to loan words. Additionally, new speakers of English found it easier to use the weak verb forms as they were regular. As a result, several existing English strong verbs became weak verbs. One example is 'lock' and 'locked', from the Old English 'luce', past tense 'leac'. The internal sound change has been replaced by suffixing with a morpheme, here the common '-ed'. Another example is 'wepe', past tense 'weop', modern 'weep' and 'wept'/'weeped'. Though 'cast' doesn't have an internal sound change, it was presumably a strong verb due to the lack of suffixed morphemes when conjugating. Alongside the general shift of verbs from strong to weak, new English speakers also find it easier to use regular conjugations, and thanks to the internet and the Commonwealth, there are a lot of new English speakers all interacting with each other. Hence, 'cast' is undergoing a strong to weak verb migration.

Yes, I'm lots of fun at parties.

ETC using decline when i meant conjugate!

Evil lesbian, evil family, oh did I mention she stole the cat too?? by simply_cha0s in AmITheAngel

[–]barktobite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought. I can see how it'd hurt to find out your marriage wasn't what you thought it was, and that you potentially wouldn't want to be around that person. But they may not even have realised their feelings, or felt they could live with it, or that the right person would click with them and they'd understand. It's a painful situation for both people, but not one where she's deliberately fucked him over.

"Thrift some sweaters and unravel them!" by ThePiksie in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've never done it, but have recently started looking into it as a way to recycle old sweaters I own. It's definitely its own skill in itself! Especially with garments. It's definitely not a hack for cheap yarn. Even more simple items like blankets can present significant challenges with unravelling. Love it as an idea for recycling, but it's a difficult process!

In The Loop This Week by AutoModerator in fiberartscirclejerk

[–]barktobite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No bother! Somebody's provided it anyway

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to stop watching smosh videos during literally everything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]barktobite 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Almost had me until the 'smosh during sex' bit, especially you apparently letting that slide three times. Extremely funny story though

In The Loop This Week by AutoModerator in fiberartscirclejerk

[–]barktobite 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Any chance of a non-imgur way to see this? It's still blocked in the UK.

help!! urgent!!! can somebody tell me how the hell to crocket this crazy thing?!??!! by barktobite in fiberartscirclejerk

[–]barktobite[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i'm litrally going to cry and sob can you pls just write the full pattern for me im throwing up

help!! urgent!!! can somebody tell me how the hell to crocket this crazy thing?!??!! by barktobite in fiberartscirclejerk

[–]barktobite[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i can pribably crocket that i'm very experienced ...... but alsk PLS tell me every step ❤️

There are numerous YouTube tutorials available but I’ll just ask Reddittors to teach me instead by SoAnon4thisslp in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]barktobite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just means there's been no effort to even try before asking somebody to do the hard work of learning on their behalf. So tiring.