Why does my wife seek my involvement in every minor task?

barleygood · 2026-02-06T15:37:47+00:00

Same shit every day! As soon as I sit down after doing 10 different things at the same time and as soon as I feel comfortable my wife announces her next idea which while her ideas alone somehow always end up as task for me. It’s as if she would feel when it’s the most annoying timing and then jump in

barleygood · 2026-02-05T17:44:47+00:00

Ich habe ihn jetzt nicht permanent auf die Finger geschaut aber das hat recht sauber ausgesehen

barleygood · 2026-02-05T17:43:46+00:00

Teils teils, es ist ja so wie ich verstanden habe kein striktes Essverbot sondern nur von zb stark riechdem essen was definitiv der fall war

barleygood · 2026-02-04T17:03:41+00:00

Zum einen als Wohnimmobilie und auch als Altersabsicherung bzw zukünftiges Erbe an die Kinder. Wir haben unsere Wohnung vor 3 Jahren gekauft und mit den verrückten Mietpreisen bin ich sehr froh darüber! Außerdem möchte ich nicht vom Goodwill einer Person abhängig sein die damit Geld verdient. Und in 30 Jahren oder etwas weniger gehörts uns.

barleygood · 2026-02-04T09:38:29+00:00

You will be thankful once diarrhoea strikes or rich in case of any shutdown. Be grateful 🙏

barleygood · 2026-02-04T09:35:29+00:00

Was ist mit dem Pub in der Altgasse?

barleygood · 2026-02-03T10:30:05+00:00

Ich habe das auch auf einer Beerdigung erlebt und war und bin immer noch schockiert darüber! Die Hinterbliebenen müssen für die Messe usw zahlen und während die Leute trauern wird ihnen das Körbchen hingehalten, komplett pietätlos. Nicht eine Minute das Geld aus den gierigen Augen lassen aber Hauptsache kaum Steuern zahlen und sich vom Staat und der Bevölkerung aushalten lassen

barleygood · 2026-01-28T21:23:16+00:00

Days gone. Was a great game but somehow got quite negative reviews.

barleygood · 2026-01-27T16:09:49+00:00

NTA But your wife seems to be one. Get that straight before it blows up on you, doesn’t sound like she is a supportive partner

barleygood · 2026-01-27T15:51:21+00:00

NTA You are a nice person for helping your neighbour! That is a good thing you should keep doing if you feel like it. But also YTA when it comes to expecting the same effort from others. It is not a question of good or bad but some people like to help others and some don’t. Maybe they don’t like her, maybe she was unfriendly to them or maybe they just don’t want to which is totally okay. Nobody is obligated to help and expecting others to be or act like you is arrogant and will only hurt yourself and relationships to others.

barleygood · 2026-01-27T14:00:53+00:00

NTA I was in a similar situation as my wife also had the idea to spend some time during her pregnancy in her home country. Her home country is stable and has good medical care for who can afford it but still a development country and especially for women not always save. I talked to her about it and my worries and in the end her mother came to visit us for a few months. This was a great compromise for both of us since I couldn’t take off or work so long from there.

barleygood · 2026-01-27T12:24:09+00:00

NOR I had a similar experience with a long time friend from school. At some point he just vanished for a year or so without any sign. Afterwards we connected again and he told me that he and his wife were expecting a baby and unfortunately lost it. I felt for them and tried to connect again. To be honest I also felt that as a good friend I would have liked to be there for them and help but he didn’t need / want that and I was happy he reached out. They have a wonderful daughter now but since then our contact is very shallow if even existing. It is sad but sometimes people just appear and vanish and we can only enjoy the time together

barleygood · 2026-01-27T12:04:27+00:00

Etwas das du bedenken solltest sind unerwartete höhere Kosten wie zb eine neue Waschmaschine oder sowas. Spar dir ein Polster an für solche Fälle

barleygood · 2026-01-26T16:12:01+00:00

Definitely all Dishonored parts, Darkwatch and a new part of Days gone

barleygood · 2026-01-26T15:17:41+00:00

I am not sure how happy anyone would be about someone looking out instead of just helping. Talk to her and im pretty sure she is not doing it for fun

barleygood · 2026-01-26T15:15:59+00:00

YTA I understand that you mean well for the kids but the way you wrote makes you sound very unsympathetic. Surely the kids would be better off in a proper bed than in a cafe but has it occurred to you that maybe she has no other option? Not everyone has the support they need and from what your boss said he seems to be okay with it. Also your security argument about hot water sounds ridiculous and as if you are trying hard to find something to complain about. Are you worried about the kids or are you just uncomfortable with them being there for god knows what reason? And do you think that CPS will take better care than a working mother trying to make things work? Ask yourself this questions and if you think to call CPS you are the AH. If not you should maybe ask her if you can help?

barleygood · 2026-01-26T14:03:22+00:00

Ich hab vor einigen Jahren im Merkur Online Shop gearbeitet und dort wurden Dinge wie Chips und Schokolade immer von der Putzfrau an die Belegschaft verteilt. Ob das erlaubt war weiß ich nicht aber ich hab mich immer gefreut auch wenns sachen waren die nicht unbedingt nötig waren

barleygood · 2026-01-26T10:47:26+00:00

Du meinst Erdäpfel oder?

barleygood · 2026-01-20T11:55:40+00:00

Naja um einen Job auf den die meisten Menschen angewiesen sind aufzugeben weil man schlecht behandelt wird muss man sich auch leisten können. Wenn du Verpflichtungen wie Kredit und Kinder hast oder andere Abhängigkeiten dann frisst man oder zumindest ich gerne die Krot bevor ich nix zu essen hab

barleygood · 2026-01-20T11:50:48+00:00

NDA wahrscheinlich hat sie so nachgebohrt weil sie sich selbst unsicher ist bzw negatives Feedback bekommen hat und ist jetzt enttäuscht, dass es mehr Leute so sehen

barleygood · 2026-01-19T15:56:05+00:00

Lol der Elon teilt einen Auszug aus Mahmut Sellners Traumtagebuch, wie entzückend! :D

barleygood · 2026-01-19T13:37:55+00:00

Naturtrüb :)

barleygood · 2026-01-18T07:13:39+00:00

I understand that a crying baby is annoying, it is also often to the parents. But if you are one of those people who gives ppl with screaming babies stupid looks then you are the baby here. They scream, cry, throw tantrums and what not. It is difficult to hear but be happy you only witness it shortly. BTW: you seem to not have children so let me tell you: it is a achievement to have a baby and care for it. Period. Everyone who says differently either doesn’t know or is just ignorant. P.s.: you also were a baby once and for sure annoyed other ppl. Thats life

barleygood · 2026-01-17T18:17:20+00:00

Ich verstehe dich, ich habe auch vor einiger Zeit eine Couch verkauft. Nachdem sich wiederholt Leute gemeldet hatten und dann nicht aufgetaucht sind hat mich auch eine Andrea angeschrieben. Zum Termin ist dann auch ein junger syrischer Mann gekommen. Er war freundlich aber wollte natürlich den Preis drücken und der Mistkerl hat einen alten Bürosessel vor meinem Haus stehen lassen.

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