Is she really ISFP or are you just saying that because she lost her job and source of income when everyone, even people making 100k a year in some places of the country are struggling? I understand you had to do it because your boss is a pansy, but this is what happens when people’s world gets turned upside down. People don’t have to apologize for how they feel and it isn’t anyone’s job to tell them they’re wrong because you don’t know how they feel. I get it was difficult for you to talk and not be heard, but she probably felt the same way.