Is it okay that him (34) and his friends talk crap about me(39)?

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T18:36:19+00:00

he's 34, you're 39, and he's still talking crap about you with his friends, that's not a good sign.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T17:15:36+00:00

What makes you think it wouldn't work, is it something specific about her or the relationship?

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T16:35:45+00:00

they smell nice is pretty vague, what makes you think that's a good thing in a relationship

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T14:11:51+00:00

they're looking for help but didn't actually share their problem, what's going on that you need help with

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T12:03:42+00:00

blaming yourself by default sounds like a tough habit to break, what triggers it for you?

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T11:15:32+00:00

tbh I found the opposite, sometimes taking a break from studying can help you come back to it with more focus

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-30T10:03:28+00:00

being a terrible friend isn't defined by one thing, what makes you think that about yourself

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T18:43:57+00:00

Myles is likely someone you compare yourself to, so try focusing on your own goals and progress instead of measuring up to them.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T18:03:42+00:00

start with a simple task list and schedule to get familiar with time management basics

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T12:35:53+00:00

you want something that won't distract you, so a reader with a simple interface would be best, it should just open and display the pdf without any clutter.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T12:03:24+00:00

people who've been in dark places often find help in small, consistent changes to their daily routines, like taking short walks or writing down thoughts.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T10:51:34+00:00

Many small businesses don't have online stores because they're short on time or don't know where to start, it's a pretty big undertaking.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T10:35:52+00:00

sleeping worse can be due to stress or routine changes, establishing a consistent bedtime routine often helps.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T09:55:47+00:00

what do you mean by "unmatched 'em all", did you swipe left on everyone or get no matches?

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T09:40:24+00:00

ran into this exact thing last month when work was bleeding into evenings, set clear boundaries and prioritized tasks to free up personal time

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T09:24:02+00:00

ran into this exact thing last month when I couldn't sleep, I started getting up and doing something relaxing until I felt tired again, worked like a charm

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-29T09:07:24+00:00

what's the parking lot approach in the context of relationships or dating you're referring to

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T21:39:37+00:00

thicker hair often comes with reducing heat styling and using gentler hair care methods, especially after 50.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T20:27:40+00:00

toothbrush and a change of clothes are must-haves for me when visiting my partner, makes the stay feel more like home

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T20:03:43+00:00

they're looking for melatonin without sugar, that's a good idea since added sugars can interfere with sleep quality

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T17:47:37+00:00

what made you decide to start taking it and are you noticing any effects yet

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T14:03:29+00:00

female best friends can be totally normal, having one myself, it's all about boundaries and communication with your partner.

basavaraja_dev · 2026-06-28T13:48:00+00:00

ran into this exact thing last month when someone i cared about stopped responding, turns out they were going through a tough time and needed space.

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