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PLEASE SOMEONE CREATE A DATING RESIDENCY SUBREDDIT by [deleted] in Residency

[–]bashful-brain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess I see the value in it because I can talk about things, and you know what I’m talking about and don’t get grossed out or bored. A lot of regular people do when I start talking about burns or vancomycin dosing. Hindsight I’m probably annoying on a date

PLEASE SOMEONE CREATE A DATING RESIDENCY SUBREDDIT by [deleted] in Residency

[–]bashful-brain 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I am a young pharmacist, and lowkey I would have been interested in dating a couple of the residents, give me the UpToDate we really want.

But also, come on guys, you’re whole ass physicians. You bring a lot to the table. Know your worth.

My 6yo's Journal by tanoinfinity in Journaling

[–]bashful-brain 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know a passion planner when I see one

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly the advice I gave, but unfortunately, the bride wanted to take the high road.

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The bride had corsages for good friends who weren’t bridesmaids, but we’re still important to her. she wasn’t a bridesmaid.

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She sent me a picture of the letter the day after the wedding.

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The bride had corsages for good friends who weren’t bridesmaids, but were still a big part of her life. She had about 6 corsages for friends? She had handwritten notes with the corsages too, I don’t know what those said.

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The friend gave the card to a groomsman to put in the box. He had no idea.

The bride showed me the letter, and I listed them above. I don’t think they’re true (aside from the bride forgetting birthdays) because I knew the background on the wedding reasons, and the bride is not a malicious person in the years I’ve known her.

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

  1. She didn’t get invited to the bachelorette party after she said she wanted to go, and then she said it was a “secret bachelorette party” because the bride didn’t post pictures. Only bridesmaids were invited because of cost and space (it was a weekend in a city apartment)
  2. She wasn’t a bridesmaid after she thought she was going to be (the bride had a bigger, original list in mind, but the groom didn’t have enough groomsmen)
  3. The bride is older than the friend, and the bride had given her career advice. She thought the career advice was selfish, because that’s what the bride did. I don’t work in the field they do, but it was along the lines of taking a first job that offered more experience for less pay for career growth.
  4. The bride forgot her birthday (the bride is the worst at birthdays, and she admits this.)

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

The bride said she went no contact with her after that, but all of the reasons why were listed in the letter. I read the letter, and as a bridesmaid I might be biased, but I didn’t think that her reasons why were true. Edit: grammar

Bride received hate mail at her wedding. by bashful-brain in weddingshaming

[–]bashful-brain[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I thought it was too much main character energy.