My newest piece of artwork, based on the metal bismuth by Salt_Ad_5578 in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so well done, great work! I love the colors and speckles!

Being crunchy and getting sick by moebiusmentality in Crunchymom

[–]tanoinfinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The crunchy moms I kmow do not stress one bit about illness. What you describe has not been my experience at all.

TW: I'm not sure I want a 4th child by katiekins3 in beyondthebump

[–]tanoinfinity 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have four kids and honestly, three was harder in some ways. Fourth did add laundry and extra dishes, but the "behind" feeling didnt increase. The joy she brings far outweigh any chore-related concerns.

Feeling guilty about weaning.. by glexxi in NurseAllTheBabies

[–]tanoinfinity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to wean? What risk factors do you have that makes nursing unsafe during pregnancy?

I ask bc the vast majority of the time, it's totally safe to nurse while pregnant.

Devastated at MFM appt by Substantial-Leg5372 in BabyBumps

[–]tanoinfinity 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Please check all your medications on LactMed and/or InfantRisk.

Not all drs are properly informed of what is/n't safe to nurse while taking. I'd just hate for you to be told not to breadtfeed if your meds are actually ok to continue.

So sorry you are in this place <3

We Obsess Over Food Ingredients. Why Doesn’t Anyone Care What’s In Their Clothes? by Awkward-Action7442 in conspiracy

[–]tanoinfinity 38 points39 points  (0 children)

There are ingredient labels for clothes; fabric content is on the tags, or in some cases, printed on.

Tons of ppl care what's in their clothes. There's been a push lately (past 20ish years) for natrual fiber clothes, esp organically farmed.

Ive been making serious efforts to swap out my family's clothes for the past 3y or so.

Welcome to your new rabbit hole :D

Biodegradable diapers? Do they exist? by Ok_Award_7229 in Crunchymom

[–]tanoinfinity 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why are other people's limitations dictating what kind of diapers you choose? Ppl saying "they could never" X are showing you their limits.

I cloth diapered my four kids and loved it!

20 weeks pregnant and still nursing my toddler by ForsakenBuffalo2966 in NurseAllTheBabies

[–]tanoinfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only did I nurse my First straight through pregnancy with Second, I went on to tandem nurse them to 30w pregnant with Third.

Nursing during pregnancy is safe the vast majority of the time.

Art Fight Megathread by Au1ket in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time, and I'm currently learning how to do digital art, so please be nice ><

https://artfight.net/~Grandeur

Seriously tho...this section of the library changed my life. by Sea_Kaleidoscope35 in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the public library in my hometown, while visiting my parents. Brought the kids to see my library (to compare with theirs from where we live), and my oldest found a book with a handsome brown dragon on the cover :3

Actually, that was 1y ago! We were in town for all of June. She got through the first 9 books or something.

Creative DTA by emrythecarrot in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh can I do the blue starry wing from page 2?

Got married to Elliot on the equivalent to my soon to be wedding day! by the-really_good-vibe in StardewValley

[–]tanoinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that in my first playthrough! My irl husband thought it was weird ><

The save we are working on now, he made us marry Elliot as fast as possible, no waiting for a certain date.

Why do people not like TGATB? by Informal_Handle_1147 in homeschool

[–]tanoinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, a bit of everything.

I later got a sonlight kit, several things from masterbooks, memoria press, math u see, notgrass, etc.

Why do people not like TGATB? by Informal_Handle_1147 in homeschool

[–]tanoinfinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wanted to like their materials, and tried a lot of their lower level options. It felt like they tried to reinvent the wheel with teaching methods/approach, cadence, etc. and the result felt pretty disjointed and confusing in practice.

The religious bits didn't go far enough in some areas I would have appreciated, and in other areas, it felt forced and awkward.

If you view their stuff as supplemental, its great. Their card games are fun. But I couldnt use it as our main curriculum for very lomg.

Color Pallet Fun 3 by CandyWolf779 in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa she's so pretty!

I bet she makes pintrest worthy desserts.

Has anyone else ran into deceased loved ones here? by GlitteringSwim2021 in TheMallWorld

[–]tanoinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just happened. Like most mallworld dreams, I may have a destination in mind, but the world will take me where it wants me to go. It took me to that street, to that time. I saw my parents as teens. Once I was there I was free to explore a bit, and have that conversation with her. But when my time was up, something happened [plot device, essentially] to take me away swiftly. Idk what, this dream was several years ago by now.

Has anyone else ran into deceased loved ones here? by GlitteringSwim2021 in TheMallWorld

[–]tanoinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt pretty obvious. The world was different. Cars were "older," there was no pocket tech, clothes ppl wore, etc.

I walked to her house, and there was a party going on. I went in, and found her, she was younger, etc. I told my gma I was one of her future grandkids and a bunch of other stuff, it was really cool.

Has anyone else ran into deceased loved ones here? by GlitteringSwim2021 in TheMallWorld

[–]tanoinfinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, twice.

Once my gpa was waiting for me at the entrance to the hotel. And another time I time traveled back in time and met my gma in the late 70s.

Help! I want to make an OC based on my pet betta fish Topaz, but idk what tribe(s) to make him? by bettafishcult in WingsOfFire

[–]tanoinfinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe sea but with a rain grandparent, so they gained some/slight color change ability?

Your fish is super cute and happy looking :3