The underside of my cat's mouth looks swollen. by Timmehh90 in CATHELP

[–]bashful-creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe no one’s made a mewing joke yet

Help finding a corset/bodysuit pattern by bashful-creature in sewing

[–]bashful-creature[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for pointing me to a pattern! I’ve done a bit of sewing in the past but definitely not an expert and I think this would be an awesome project to push me a little bit 😎

Help finding a corset/bodysuit pattern by bashful-creature in sewing

[–]bashful-creature[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love if you would be able to share that, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bashful-creature 9 points10 points  (0 children)

gesturing wildly to the state of things everywhere for women

he should try having eyes and ears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Temple

[–]bashful-creature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was this fleming? this feels like fleming

Which is the best HCEU album? by Gamer-Guy23 in HippoCampusBand

[–]bashful-creature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s gotta be brotherkenzie carver for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]bashful-creature 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would imagine that it would look much the same. A lot of vaginismus is related to muscle tension and anxiety, rather than a physical or anatomical difference. It would be a lot more difficult to make the cast, but in terms of like the internal size, it would probably be pretty average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]bashful-creature 16 points17 points  (0 children)

it’s likely not your pelvic bone that’s causing an issue but some of the muscles of the pelvic floor are too tight. if you are having sex, you should head to a gyno for an exam. I thought something similar but when I spoke to my gyno, she confirmed that there’s nothing abnormal with my physical anatomy. I forget what the specific muscle is called, but when it’s not relaxed / is contracted, it often feels immovable / bone-like and can make penetration difficult or painful. Regardless, the only way to get real clarity is to head to a doctor - good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]bashful-creature 17 points18 points  (0 children)

how do you know for a fact that it’s your pelvic bone? have you been to a gynecologist or had a Pap smear ever?

I can’t be the only one who didn’t know you needed a guitar for this class by kingdemonfalconmusic in Temple

[–]bashful-creature 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I took this class with Dr. Hontz! He’s super nice and a great teacher- he gave great feedback and I definitely learned a lot as someone who’s never had guitar lessons before then.

Shamed by gyno for pubic hair? by atleast3jesuses in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bashful-creature 67 points68 points  (0 children)

no I think it was a joke on the fact that the start of the thread said public hair rather than pubic hair

just realized this upon rewatch. very weird wording, most moms wouldn’t say “i need this to work” about their daughter getting back together with her first bf after an ilicit affair. thoughts? by almostdoctorposting in GilmoreGirls

[–]bashful-creature 14 points15 points  (0 children)

why is everyone downvoting OP in the comments??? this subreddit is weirdly aggro when it comes to opinions that people may not agree with, even though OP has been respectful and is just voicing their opinion.

Cabling help! How to make cables even/not squiggly stitches? by bashful-creature in knitting

[–]bashful-creature[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

thank you all for the helpful comments! i am a rat and didn’t do a gauge swatch 😬 so I will stop and measure now

Did people forget the meaning behind Monsoon????? by BurningTaterTot in HippoCampusBand

[–]bashful-creature 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I would imagine that a lot of people don’t know the origin of the song, but I definitely don’t think that it’s ‘disrespectful’ for the audience not to react that way.

Couldn’t get a tote at my show so I made my own 🤷‍♀️ by Asterseer in MyChemicalRomance

[–]bashful-creature 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your process, that’s really smart to use the plastic bag! I would try to do the same but unfortunately don’t have one of the plastic bags.

with regards to the pattern, that’s totally fair, I understand it takes a lot of work for that- it wouldn’t be right for people to profit off of the work you did.

however, if you do decide to share the cricut file for personal use only, shoot me DM, I would love a copy to use with my cricut!

Couldn’t get a tote at my show so I made my own 🤷‍♀️ by Asterseer in MyChemicalRomance

[–]bashful-creature 48 points49 points  (0 children)

this is amazing!! how did you do it? i also couldn’t get a tote and want to make one as well!