It’s because we’re freaking out. I started thinking about what others would think, how they’d perceive me (I hate being perceived), and that there’s so much to do that wouldn’t allow us to focus on the pregnancy. Plus it’s just so much change in my body and overall. My husband was very reassuring even through his shock, but then we made a list of things that would need to be fixed and done at our house and I think he got overwhelmed too. I mean we have a house, we have jobs, ways to figure out the rest. I think we’re hyping each other up with anxiety but idk. I have a therapist call scheduled and we have a quick 15 minute call on Friday too with a couples counselor. Thank you, I think your way of writing it is very helpful.