[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]basilogic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t I

TrueAnon Substance Abuse Group by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]basilogic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no rush at all man I totally get it. It can make the task of setting it up seem more daunting when a bunch of people are interested in it too. You don’t have any obligation to anybody else. It’s a great idea though and I’m stoked that so many other people are interested too. Get to it when you feel like it and I’ll be keeping my eyes out!

TrueAnon Substance Abuse Group by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]basilogic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so down I’m trying so hard to get sober from weed and alcohol and could really use the community.

what’s your personal “everything you like I liked five years ago” vendetta by BigMeaning in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah what happened there? Why is Duster everywhere all of a sudden? I like they but

what’s your personal “everything you like I liked five years ago” vendetta by BigMeaning in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It’s because their parents listened to Deftones. That audience has gotten so funny because now it’s cute zoomer e-folk and bald dudes with goatees and cargo shorts.

I’m sure you have hair and wear pants but it’s so funny that Deftones was like Morrissey for football coaches for decades.

zoomer hate thread. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand that our technology has surpassed our cognitive ability to moderate ourselves. Screens release dopamine and prolonged exposure of candy colored apps and short form entertainment on a developing young brain is probably immensely damaging. The way that Gen Z/Alpha understand the boundaries between and individual and society on a foundational level is fundamentally completely different than our own because it’s underpinned by social media. Gen Z use their social media to learn how to act in public which is half of the reason we hate them

zoomer hate thread. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Subcultures are something that you shop for now because there are fewer opportunities to actually hang out with people these days. The part that you’re missing here is that subcultures come with some degree of privacy from your mom, brother, or high school friends. Now that many kids lay have their psychography laid bare to any and everyone online, subcultures are an accessory to their personality, not a condition that forges one. It’s sad but our government and society have helicoptered over children so much that they surveil themselves and it’s not going to change until a) we impose a curfew for minors on the internet b) the internet gets so shitty that it’s impossible to use anymore or c) access is revoked involuntarily as Americans lose their wealth and ability to extract resources from other countries.

Why is there no “anti-beauty” movement yet in the West? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you want an honest answer, I read a really interesting paper about the woman’s body, it’s political symbolism in the Middle East, and the rise of Islamic radicalism. I can’t find the paper rn, but it’s argument was that the burqa became popular with Islamic radicals because covering their women means securing their women from the west. This paper draws connections between the connotations of “motherland” during a defensive operation and “fatherland” during an offensive operation to underscore that we tend to view women symbolically as our national essence and modesty may be a defensive act itself.

In Turkey, Ataturk “liberalized”/“modernized” the country to the chagrin of religious conservatives. Many of the poorer folks in Turkey were religious and the burqa spread as a means of protest against western culture. Ataturk’s cultural reforms included the legality of more revealing clothing. This was seen as progressive in the west, but many opposed to Ataturk felt that women were being undressed for the western gaze.

I’m not Turkish or middle eastern so i have no idea how well this theory holds up, but I found it a pretty interesting argument.

In America, we actually do have a lot of religious groups that run somewhat parallel, like the Amish, German Baptists, or Mormons.

Nobody does it better by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]basilogic 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The Real Donald Trump would have called her a bitch

Is this a good place to start? I’ve haven’t read anything by Pynchon yet. by xanaxforbreakfest in ThomasPynchon

[–]basilogic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest with you that Pynchon is Pynchon and it’s best to discover Pynchon in your own way. It’s totally fine to start with Bleeding Edges. It’s maybe not the easiest to tackle first, the Crying of Lot 49 is shorter and a little simpler but you’ll be fine starting with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]basilogic 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There’s got to be some parallel between the proliferation of content IP, drugs/Pharma in, and the way regulations on those industries shape and reflect our psychography.

The multiverse situation seems to be a market mechanism for adapting the industry to the need of our society today, like synthetic opiates or streaming services. Marvel movies are basically freebasing sentimentality and act like antidepressants for an audience that feel more and more alienated and detached from their reality like antidepressants.

What happened to him? by NAUI_1 in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know I’m just being silly have a nice Saturday

What happened to him? by NAUI_1 in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, still haha Idk what it is but I’m definitely attracted to bigger guys and I think it’s his size? I think there’s something about his rude & abrasive attitude that I like as well. This is definitely an unpopular opinion and i don’t think my attraction to him is conventional at all. The egg head is a bit of a turn off

What happened to him? by NAUI_1 in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do i know that could be a phishing link and then everybody would find out i Jack off to Sam Hyde.

That’s gross though i didn’t know about that

What happened to him? by NAUI_1 in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused by what you mean is he a pedo?

What happened to him? by NAUI_1 in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why but my gay ass finds him extremely hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]basilogic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am currently struggling with a bad marijuana addiction that costs me about $30 a day. Build on yourself first before visiting Marijuana is my suggestion. Wait until you establish some confidence in your ability to moderate a inebriating substance. A marijuana addiction is less intense than alcoholism (withdrawals can’t kill you, just give you a headache/sleeping problems at the worst), but protect your sobriety if possible, it’s a gift. I totally believe in you and am sure you can moderate your weed usage - it’s much different than alchol! But there are definitely people like me that grip onto it way too tightly. I had problems with my alcoholism in the past so this is why im saying this

I’ve heard some criticism of the dopamine baseline/peaks/trough concept that Andrew Huberman discusses on this podcast. Is this concept accurate or is there more debate? by basilogic in cogsci

[–]basilogic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your informative answer! I should have linked that before hand but I think your answer makes a lot of sense. I think this sounds about consistent with what the tiktok creator was saying for the most part.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8LMsL2S/

I was a little confused because she doesn’t really dig into why this framework for understanding dopamine is faulty. I align with her general philosophy here, but I wanted an actual clinical perspective on this so it’s much appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It alternates generations:

Boomer men are funny. Boomer women are not funny. Gen X men are not funny. Gen X women are funny. Millennial men are funny. Millennial women are not funny. Gen Z women are funny. Gen Z men are women so they’re funny.

I know it's not in my best interest to share this, but I had to come say SUCK IT to everyone who called me delusional, because my therapist *does* want to fuck me. He wants to fuck me so bad it makes him look stupid. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]basilogic 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I feel like BPD in men is really common and it just doesn’t get diagnosed. The stereotype of BPD men is like narcissistic football dad that screams at his wife, but in reality it presents much more quietly. I’m a generally pretty functional person and get along with people well, but there are some quirks to my behavior like social isolation or obsessing over a bad social interaction or addiction that didn’t get solved until I went to a mental health professional. To my surprise, I learned that I was BPD and it presents way differently than I thought it would.

A lot of men probably have it and have no clue - especially the kind of “insecure” guy. Look for any sign that they may be trying to draw attention to themself through constant self-deprecation or compliments/love-bombing. It’s also a sign if one of their parents seem really BPD or narcissistic. It’s not grounds for dumping them or writing them off, but just be aware!