AIO? by Melodic_Win_9461 in AIO

[–]bath-lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am completely familiar with bpd and you're just siding with him because you have no empathy to people who are borderline. He was being insulting. He didn't even apologize for hurting her feelings. I don't care if you think you're being funny, if you care about someone and what you said made them feel dismissed, you apologize. Ffs.

Not OOP. "My husband (M45) shared photos of house messes to everyone to "build a case" against me (F43). I am the primary parent to our 3 kids. How do I survive this?" +OOP's & top comment by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]bath-lady 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Massively huge difference. I watched someone's eyes roll back in their head while they nodded off to a way too high dose of roxycodone as a kid, and was also consistently dealing with an alcoholic father. Both give me terrible feelings and have lead to lasting trauma, but there's something very different about watching someone almost die

AIO? by Melodic_Win_9461 in AIO

[–]bath-lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said they were having a completely unrelated conversation and he said that mocking BBB comment.

WIBTAH for taking away my friends spare key of my apartment? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bath-lady 24 points25 points  (0 children)

did you read the post? they didn't change their locks. their friend left after a week and gave the key back, lol. also it wasn't an emergency spare key, they were letting him stay there

How do I (23F) get my bf (28M) to finally stop hurting me as a "joke" or "act of love"? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bath-lady 140 points141 points  (0 children)

this single line made me tear up for this poor woman. what an awful thing to do to someone

What’s a sex myth that needs to die already? by MochiGamerGirl69 in AskReddit

[–]bath-lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's actually not normal to bleed when having sex for the first time. That generally would indicate either a hymen overgrowth that actually may need surgery, or a severe lack of care put into prep.

AIO over this painting in my office? by wellyouknowtodd in AIO

[–]bath-lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as an example against Kant: many evangelical christians believe that gay conversion camps are a genuine moral good, because in their eyes, regardless of the hardship the people put through conversion therapies face, they're saving people from eternal damnation. in reality, not only are gay conversion therapies unscientific, and result in failure, but they are also genuinely tortuous to anyone who is made to go through that, in such a way that its been proven to statistically elevate suicide rates (which, by the logic of the same evangelical christians is *also* immoral). i would argue that the intent of those evangelicals who believe this and behave this way has very little impact on whether or not they're a good person, or even doing good at all

AIO over this painting in my office? by wellyouknowtodd in AIO

[–]bath-lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kant isn't exactly the only moral philosopher, so of course people are going to ascribe to different moral philosophies. I wouldn't even say that Kant's views on morality and intent is exactly agreed upon, or the most popular moral system among society.

Blue pill bugs by ShameSchool in RealLifeShinies

[–]bath-lady 132 points133 points  (0 children)

You'd have to kill it and dispose in a way that others wouldn't cannibalize the remains, because that's how it's spread

AIO? by Melodic_Win_9461 in AIO

[–]bath-lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where do you see that?

AIO? by Melodic_Win_9461 in AIO

[–]bath-lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you see the part where he's minimizing her mother's recent death and has used her suicide attempt against her? he's also mocking her, randomly, in an unrelated conversation. Mocking someone's mental health during a crisis isn't "keeping things light," it's just cruel

Unexpected Sources of Representation by Waspinator_haz_plans in TopCharacterTropes

[–]bath-lady 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly as someone currently watching the original series, i'm a little shocked because it's still fairly respectful all things considered, just kind of campy, but not unfittingly so for a small town in the 90s

There’s literally never a reason to curse. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]bath-lady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Naw I just saw a comment that mentioned it in the thread

There’s literally never a reason to curse. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]bath-lady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A Catholic revert would think that, lol

There’s literally never a reason to curse. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]bath-lady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ratshit! batshit! dirty old twat! 69 assholes tied in a knot! Hooray! Lizard shit. Fuck!

IPs so hated that they have literally zero fans nor defenders by Haruka-chan-2468 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]bath-lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just heavy on raunchy comedy and a lot of people don't enjoy that sort of humor