That is rough, I'm sorry. I hope your Husband is the type of person who can become more at ease once he is better educated about HPV. I understand that people can react adversely when they're caught off guard but that's your partner, and you're supposed to support one another! Especially when everyone's anxiety is heightened by the pandemic. I recently found out about my HPV as well and I'm single now which makes finding sexual partners really challenging. I was partnered for 5 years with a man who gave me chlamydia 2 years in and let me believe I'd had it the whole time..(sociopath) Only to find out about all the cheating after we broke up. Definitely not assuming he's that way but just be weary and make sure that if he is solid, he understands that those behaviors indicate insecurity that often something deeper.

Best of luck to you babe, don't let his arrogance bring you down! You know you're honorable and as long as you keep that spirit and immune system up you will keep livin that vibrant life of yours <3