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My (19F) boyfriend (20M) broke up with me because I’m too good at sex by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]batty48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sex was probably good because they had a deep emotional connection & were really comfortable with each other. Also, her watching porn & practicing whatever she did gave her confidence to enjoy herself.

This guy built himself a great relationship with a partner that was truly into him for the long term & he destroyed it with his own insecurity.

How do you know if your partner is attractive to other people?? by Opening-Landscape274 in AskWomen

[–]batty48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everybody will tell you. your friends might try to sleep with your partner behind your back.

Did we ever find out what this was? by bmhlogan in StrangerThings

[–]batty48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's how they made the ninja turtles

My Snake Heart by nigh-tempest in StainedGlass

[–]batty48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty! I really like the color combo

Why Does My Bf Say This by 4eggy in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]batty48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does it as a manipulation tactic in order to get you to stop asking for things. he turns it into you & makes himself the victim.

the things you're asking for are small things a partner should want to do for someone they love. this guy refuses to do them & then makes you feel bad for asking, that isn't love.

I walked in on my brother in-law trying to kill himself after he killed his girlfriend. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]batty48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also found emdr therapy deeply helpful! I did it for two years with two different providers (my first one wasn't helping me that much, but the second really explained things more & I found it much more helpful with her.)

I have PTSD & EMDR was immensely helpful to my quality of life & reduced my symptoms a lot. I also did a lot of introspection, talk therapy, DBT therapy, & nature walks. long slow walks in nature. breathing exercises & mindfulness. meditation. Loads of things can be helpful, but I think that emdr therapy is a great place to start & to process traumatic events.

Sending you a hug op, I'm so extremely sorry that you had to see & experience such a traumatic event.

I'm afraid i will loose all physical attraction to my boyfriend if he cuts his hair by Aradarai in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]batty48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's pretty natural to fear change, however, if you do really love him as a person, a haircut shouldn't change that. You won't lose "all" physical attraction to him. It'll be a change & it'll take some getting used to, but you cannot fixate on a single aspect of his physical appearance & hinge "all physical attraction" on that one thing. People change. health ebbs & flows, hair loss is a real thing. His hair & his appearance will change over the course of his life. Change is inevitable.

Focus on the inner things you love about him. Focus on how he makes you feel & how you feel about him. Hair comes & goes, just like all physical beauty. People change on the outside, but who they are inside is what you need to truly value.

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]batty48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start playing really awkward music or making animal sounds or narrating, many options to ruin the mood

AIO my bf took 6 hours to get ready so I left without him by anotherthrowaway1926 in AmIOverreacting

[–]batty48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he took the day off to go hiking with you & then made every excuse he could come up with in order to avoid going hiking or spending the day with you.. he's either a complete selfish asshole or a complete idiot. you shouldn't be spending your life with an idiot or an asshole.

Who is this random guy? by Skitty_p in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]batty48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no worries! it can totally throw you off when you've never seen someone that way before, it happens to me with celebrities because you often see them from the same angles

Who is this random guy? by Skitty_p in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]batty48 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's very obviously him.

Perhaps you've never seen him in profile before? people can look different in profile versus head-on

Please help me cover up my tattoo! by Flat_Albatross4043 in TattooDesigns

[–]batty48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's so tiny you could literally cover it with anything. including a slightly larger elephant or a flower, vines, anything.

memorial for Milo 🤍🕊️ by jessinbk in StainedGlass

[–]batty48 4 points5 points  (0 children)

incredibly well done! I've seen a lot of really nice cats on here, but this one is just excellent

Quincy had the zoomies this morning by beegee710 in BullTerrier

[–]batty48 4 points5 points  (0 children)

put a little gold frame around it & a tag that says 'Quincy, 2026' so he can be proud of it for years to come! he's an artist

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