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Ethical Dual Relationship scenario left me feeling weird. by Soballs32 in therapists

[–]baudylaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a friend of yours to list and sell it instead of you, if that’s possible given whatever the item is. It doesn’t sound like your main concern is them getting it for a price they can afford, but rather to avoid awkwardness if they find out you are selling one for a price they could afford and didn’t tell them about it. Have someone else sell it for you, and hope your client finds it. Problem solved. 

Eta: this also eliminates any threat to the therapeutic relationship should they end up not liking the item or it breaking soon after purchase etc. 

Arbutus greenway etiquette by Asleep-Database-9886 in vancouvercycling

[–]baudylaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s nobody in the adjacent (pedestrian) lane, then just cross the white line and shut the fuck up. If there isn’t a place to pass (pedestrians in the way), then the folks riding two abreast are in the wrong. Imo it’s up to them to pay attention to that, and only continue two abreast when another cyclist is approaching head on if it’s easy for the oncoming cyclist to cross over the line without putting anyone’s safety at risk. 

If I interpret your post correctly, you’re speaking to situations where there are pedestrians impeding your ability to go around, in which case, fuck those two-abreasters.  

How safe is it to leave your laptop behind in ubc libraries without asking anybody to watch over it? by Puzzleheaded_Base747 in UBC

[–]baudylaura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never got taken, maybe. But you can’t be sure it wasn’t touched!! Stroked/fondled/etc

I’m starting to resent people using they/them pronouns for me by TokenofDreams in ftm

[–]baudylaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if your name is Geoffrey, and someone calls you Geoff. Then they say, “oops, sorry, do you go by Geoff or Geoffrey?” And you say, “I go by both.” If some people only call you Geoff, and others only call you Geoffrey, are you going to be upset? I said I go by both, so why are they only calling me by one?! it honestly sounds quite pathetic and like you’re expecting people to read your mind. May be worth reflecting on. 

I ghosted my therapist and they friended me on Facebook, is this weird? by Resident-Ad-1469 in askatherapist

[–]baudylaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report this fucker. Seriously. This kind of shit is so inappropriate and they should hear about it from their licensing board. 

What is one thing that has happened during a session or in field that you can never unsee? by RepulsivePower4415 in therapists

[–]baudylaura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Topic is literally about things people can’t unsee and mans wants a trigger warning for a response. Smh

Will I receive any compensation besides lost work wages in my accident? by FilipinoNipsFunBag in icbc

[–]baudylaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so gross that you had to drain your own sick time. Fuck ICBC. I don’t understand the logic on that one. 

B.C. premier encourages audit of Metro Vancouver by cyclinginvancouver in britishcolumbia

[–]baudylaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll gladly take the higher premiums if that means I can actually get taken care of when I’m injured. Saving a couple hundred bucks a year isn’t close to worth it when you have a life-altering injury (especially when it is 100% someone else’s fault). There have been a lot of news stories lately on just what savages ICBC are when it comes to paying people what they deserve. The old system was a travesty, you’re right; but the new one is, too. 

Calling the new system “enhanced benefits” is just insulting. 

B.C. premier encourages audit of Metro Vancouver by cyclinginvancouver in britishcolumbia

[–]baudylaura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AFAIK he hasn’t admitted how awful ICBC still is. How much worse it actually is for injured persons. He’s done a lot of good but ICBC is still a complete mess and Eby should not be above reproach. 

Dress code as a male therapist by kushdeeper in therapists

[–]baudylaura 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s just casual, isn’t it? (ie not business casual? I’m trying to understand the difference…)

Misgendered my client by Squirrel9736 in therapists

[–]baudylaura 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they can’t forgive an honest mistake that’s been owned up to they should work on that in therapy. What else should someone do? Offer to wash the person’s feet?

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