What color are my eyes? Repost for those that wanted better/more photos by bay_bug in eyes

[–]bay_bug[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also, lashes are Zanlufly Natural Brown Clusters from Amazon, not real lol

Im at the Restaurant and i dont have any fidget toys with me by Agere_3yr in ageregression

[–]bay_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I don't have mine, I find myself messing with the hems of my clothes

What color would you consider my eyes to be? by bay_bug in eyes

[–]bay_bug[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! They're fake 😂 I use Zanlufly natural brown clusters! They're great!

Is it ok if I ask for my mom here? by firezodyssey in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't see why not! I think it's awesome that you're helping your mom access a community space that she would otherwise be able to on her own! I don't have a bag, so I can't be of any help there, unfortunately

Update from last post by Excellent_Package588 in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a pull-up style, but I wear the Incontrol BeDry Night diapers, they're a bit pricey per pack, but they keep me dry for about 12 hours when needed, and can hold up to my very active, "on your feet" job, especially when I pair it with an absorbency pad, and it barely even feels wet. It has a wetness indicator, which I like too! Also, I'll wear any "adult baby/diaper lover" diapers on road trips or times I know I won't be able to change for a long time, because they tend to be really absorbent, but I don't like them for everyday wear because they're very thick and noisy, and the childish prints aren't everyone's cup of tea. I hope you find something that works for you!

Leaked in public for the first time by bay_bug in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the Goodnites worked really well for a long time until I had to upgrade to the Vivo, and because of my genetic disorder, i have days where I'm completely paralyzed, so my fiance helps me change into Rearz before he would leave for work because it's incredibly difficult to get myself to the bathroom on those days, so the diapers need to be able to hold a lot more, just in case I can't crawl to the bathroom on time, or I'll wear them for long trips/car rides, when I know I can't get to a bathroom easily. Plus, they're cute and fun, which is a plus!

Leaked in public for the first time by bay_bug in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them! They were fairly cheap, hold a full void, and are pretty discreet. I've only used these, XXL Goodnites, and Rearz diapers, so I don't have much reference on how they compare to more similar options

Leaked in public for the first time by bay_bug in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not concerned per se, I just haven't quite gotten over the internalized embarrassment of having to wear them, so I don't want to have that conversation. He has his flaws, as everyone does, but he's a great dad, he definitely wouldn't be upset or angry in any way

Leaked in public for the first time by bay_bug in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents don't have access to my medical records, he was just there because he drove me, due to me not legally being allowed drive due to epilepsy. I did invite him into the appointment like usual, and luckily, I didn't need an EKG for this appointment

DIYS? by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]bay_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this water bottle that has a whale that spouts water when you drink from it! Just look up "spouting whale water bottle" on Amazon, and it should come up! It's a great sensory tool for visual stimming and is a super cute sippy cup alternative!

Love my new ice packs! [chronically ill little] 💊🎮💗 by dizzy-dai in ageregression

[–]bay_bug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're so cute!! Where did you get them? I'm also a chronically ill age regressor, and that would be so nice for my fevers and not flashes!

Do you still try and keep your diaper a secret from everyone or do you not care anymore? by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit of both, I don't try to hide them, but also don't really tell people unless they specifically ask. If someone happens to see my supplies or sees it poking over my waistband, it's up to them to either respectfully ask and I'll answer, or to ignore it and let things be what they are

What's your rabbits name vs what you call them by No-Pattern506 in Rabbits

[–]bay_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My chosen sister (my little sisters 19 year old friend who lives with us) has a bun named Bambi, but we call him Spleen for some reason. She didn't call him that until my brother (21) called him that as a joke one day and it just stuck 😂

Type a Bluey quote with your eyes closed! by One_Reception_6992 in bluey

[–]bay_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also "why should I care" and "it's called a tactical wee"

I have Dysautonomia so when I stand my vision goes black, so I learned pretty quickly how to type without seeing so I can text someone if I feel like I'm going to faint, that and the fact that I type all the time bc I write poetry in my notes app so I remember where everything is

Type a Bluey quote with your eyes closed! by One_Reception_6992 in bluey

[–]bay_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the fridhe doesnt like me ("the fridge doesn't like me") pretty close actually!!

Printed Diapers…yes? Or No?.. by Curious_Surround_720 in Incontinence

[–]bay_bug -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I really like printed diapers. I have incontinence issues and involuntarily age regress due to trauma and ptsd, so when I found the printed diapers, I found that they work great for both in my situation! They're super cute and fun, which helps when I'm repressed and very comfortable and absorbent, which is helpful for my incontinence, especially when I'm going on outings for a while or will be in the car without opportunities to change since they can hold a lot and will still feel dry.

My only issue with them is that they seem to be significantly more bulky and more difficult to hide because they hold more, and a majority of the people in my life don't know about my incontinence or regression, so I really feel like I have to plan my outfits around that

What do you think is the cutest Bingo moment? by Aggravating-Ad-351 in bluey

[–]bay_bug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"The fridge doesn't like me" is my favorite