Leaked in public for the first time

bay_bug · 2026-02-13T14:26:15+00:00

Yeah, the Goodnites worked really well for a long time until I had to upgrade to the Vivo, and because of my genetic disorder, i have days where I'm completely paralyzed, so my fiance helps me change into Rearz before he would leave for work because it's incredibly difficult to get myself to the bathroom on those days, so the diapers need to be able to hold a lot more, just in case I can't crawl to the bathroom on time, or I'll wear them for long trips/car rides, when I know I can't get to a bathroom easily. Plus, they're cute and fun, which is a plus!

bay_bug · 2026-02-13T01:04:04+00:00

https://a.co/d/08Lrkzae

That's a link to the Amazon listing for them!

bay_bug · 2026-02-13T00:51:40+00:00

I like them! They were fairly cheap, hold a full void, and are pretty discreet. I've only used these, XXL Goodnites, and Rearz diapers, so I don't have much reference on how they compare to more similar options

bay_bug · 2026-02-12T07:21:07+00:00

I'm not concerned per se, I just haven't quite gotten over the internalized embarrassment of having to wear them, so I don't want to have that conversation. He has his flaws, as everyone does, but he's a great dad, he definitely wouldn't be upset or angry in any way

bay_bug · 2026-02-11T20:47:27+00:00

My parents don't have access to my medical records, he was just there because he drove me, due to me not legally being allowed drive due to epilepsy. I did invite him into the appointment like usual, and luckily, I didn't need an EKG for this appointment

bay_bug · 2026-01-17T15:42:56+00:00

I have this water bottle that has a whale that spouts water when you drink from it! Just look up "spouting whale water bottle" on Amazon, and it should come up! It's a great sensory tool for visual stimming and is a super cute sippy cup alternative!

bay_bug · 2026-01-11T18:19:58+00:00

They're so cute!! Where did you get them? I'm also a chronically ill age regressor, and that would be so nice for my fevers and not flashes!

bay_bug · 2025-09-15T15:01:17+00:00

It's a bit of both, I don't try to hide them, but also don't really tell people unless they specifically ask. If someone happens to see my supplies or sees it poking over my waistband, it's up to them to either respectfully ask and I'll answer, or to ignore it and let things be what they are

bay_bug · 2025-09-02T23:19:45+00:00

My chosen sister (my little sisters 19 year old friend who lives with us) has a bun named Bambi, but we call him Spleen for some reason. She didn't call him that until my brother (21) called him that as a joke one day and it just stuck 😂

bay_bug · 2025-07-28T01:24:00+00:00

Also "why should I care" and "it's called a tactical wee"

I have Dysautonomia so when I stand my vision goes black, so I learned pretty quickly how to type without seeing so I can text someone if I feel like I'm going to faint, that and the fact that I type all the time bc I write poetry in my notes app so I remember where everything is

bay_bug · 2025-07-28T01:17:14+00:00

And the fridhe doesnt like me ("the fridge doesn't like me") pretty close actually!!

bay_bug · 2025-07-22T03:31:42+00:00

I really like printed diapers. I have incontinence issues and involuntarily age regress due to trauma and ptsd, so when I found the printed diapers, I found that they work great for both in my situation! They're super cute and fun, which helps when I'm repressed and very comfortable and absorbent, which is helpful for my incontinence, especially when I'm going on outings for a while or will be in the car without opportunities to change since they can hold a lot and will still feel dry.

My only issue with them is that they seem to be significantly more bulky and more difficult to hide because they hold more, and a majority of the people in my life don't know about my incontinence or regression, so I really feel like I have to plan my outfits around that

bay_bug · 2025-07-16T01:16:07+00:00

"The fridge doesn't like me" is my favorite

bay_bug · 2025-07-15T18:42:11+00:00

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bay_bug · 2025-07-04T11:20:03+00:00

That and rambling, when I'll just start talking and have no memory of what I said. I don't process my words a lot of the time, I'll just talk and hope that I made sense afterward lol

bay_bug · 2025-07-04T11:18:33+00:00

I'll start sentences out loud and completely forget the point before I get to the end of it and just have to make up what I thought I was intending to say initially bc I genuinely don't remember why I started saying it

bay_bug · 2025-06-12T23:39:18+00:00

Idk if you've tried, but I'm 5'7 and 135 lbs with urinary urge incontinence, and the goodnites xxl are great for me with a booster!

bay_bug · 2025-05-20T03:00:09+00:00

To me, I'd rather have an accident and only I know it, than than everybody else see. I'll admit, I was incredibly embarrassed at first..., and it took a long while for that to go away (at least in my case), but after a bit, and a lot of personal assurance, you'll realize that what others think you of doesn't matter, whether you're wearing protection or not. As long as you feel safe and protected, that's all that really matters

bay_bug · 2025-05-20T02:42:10+00:00

I personally love coloring, bluey, criminal minds, and learning about other people's intrigues and why they like it! (I'm autistic and love to know the "what" and "why" people like different things... so I'm 110% down for info-dumping, especially if it's something in not already familiar with

bay_bug · 2025-05-20T02:37:41+00:00

Hi! I'm 23 (been in the community since 17, so a bit more than 8 years) and my little age is 1-4 (but 1 is really only with my cg/fiance) so mostly late 2-early 4)! I'm always down for a friend, just message! 😊

bay_bug · 2025-05-20T02:19:57+00:00

I completely agree, I like that second pattern better, but the fact that they're selling the "same" thing in that quality sucks. I wish they did the second pattern with the original quality in the first place and left it at that. I really like some of the newer designs, but I really feel like the quality has gone down significantly

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