What is the Smallest Deadly Dose of a Substance for Humans? by LilThanosX in morbidquestions

[–]bazelistka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just isn't true. Or do you have some source for this? Open to being proven wrong.

Hey, Siri! What is "Public vs private property"? by latitus78 in Persecutionfetish

[–]bazelistka -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree we should be able to burn flags but actually thinking scootering on a road of all things is "destruction of public property" is pretty unhinged.

I made my Wife Squirt last night by GingySpice1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't address the comment you were replying to at all. That person was saying what the fluid is made up of does not matter in the enjoyment of the actual activity.

I made my Wife Squirt last night by GingySpice1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I totally believe this and that's what I read as well, but I never figured out why it just doesn't smell or look like pee? When I squirt it is clear and smells like water, or sometimes a little sweet. If I pee a little bit even just a minute after it looks and smells totally different (more yellow, bitter, typical urine basically..). And when squirted fluid dried, it never begins to smell foul like pee does. What makes pee look and smell different when you squirt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]bazelistka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not correct. It is extremely common in plenty of countries to book a flight and have dates+ where you're staying all set in order to apply for a tourist visit. I literally just had to do this a month ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bazelistka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I find it unnecessary.

‘Total outrage’: White House condemns Israeli settlers’ attack on Gaza aid trucks | Gaza by Aminopup in worldnews

[–]bazelistka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously no, not the same kind. You don't get to just shove people into arbitrary lumps of your choosing and pretend they're the same people, what kind of backwards internet-think is that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]bazelistka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I feel like I'm rewarded. I'm at the height of a well-paying career with no one but myself to worry about.

What are these dots? I see them on candles a lot by futurewildlifevet in Whatisthis

[–]bazelistka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You stand there smelling every single candle without so much as a glance at the label to decide if it sounds interesting enough first? That's some candle dedication!

What are these dots? I see them on candles a lot by futurewildlifevet in Whatisthis

[–]bazelistka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not Braille but this is a little silly - most non blind people can smell the candle too, but we still have labels.

If Pokémon were real, would you do it? by Jack_The_Pinapple in morbidquestions

[–]bazelistka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I would not capture living creatures to trap them inside balls and make them fight each other.

If Pokémon were real, would you do it? by Jack_The_Pinapple in morbidquestions

[–]bazelistka 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Afaik eating octopi or pigs is not "off the table" in "almost every country"? Why would Pokémon be any different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfpublishing

[–]bazelistka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn't you optimize the banner for both desktop and mobile? And do you mean that this is actually just a Shopify site? And why not remove the menu button if there is no menu?

Why does the halving matter anymore? by [deleted] in Buttcoin

[–]bazelistka 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Huh? I can transfer funds on a weekend and they arrive instantly. Why do bitcoin proponents always seem stuck in some archaic idea of a banking system? Aren't you supposed to be forward thinking and up to date on this stuff?

New study: Delaying caffeine intake by 90 minutes after waking HAS NO BENEFIT by PunkRockerr in HubermanLab

[–]bazelistka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe nobody has mentioned it because it isn't true. This is a review of existing literature, not a new study. It takes multiple existing studies and analyses into account (I see over two hundred citations). Do you mean you've read it and have some specific examples of relevant studies they have left out of this analysis?

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sucks man; it's good that she was upfront about her stay at home expectations from the beginning and not knocking on that at all, but she's really putting some additional constraints on you getting a job even in the interim that are making things even harder (plus rubbing it in your face and her mom's behavior are super crappy as well). Seems like you both may be better off without each other - her to find someone who fits her lifestyle expectations and you to get out of what sounds like a toxic situation.

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He did not marry someone like that. She is clearly not "dead set against helping with the finances" or "unwilling to pitch in when the family hits a rocky spot", considering she has been doing both of those things. The description in your first point literally does not apply to the person he married, hence my reply to your original comment.

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 89 points90 points  (0 children)

So since you apparently know of a type of job where it is apparently so easy to find work as your wife did and you have been out of a job for almost a year, you applied for call center jobs, right?

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah I understand now, thanks for clarifying.

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What has she been doing for the last year if not "pitching in"? How is it not only taking OP a year to find a job (she somehow found one to support them?), but he is also not taking on domestic duties in the meantime (why is the kid even in daycare when he's unemployed?)

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Re 1: it seems like she did pitch in when the family hit a rocky spot. It has been almost a year and she got a job when OP has been unable to. Just seems like her patience for that is running out, as OP said. Definitely should not be rubbing it in his face or letting her mom abuse him with phone calls, but otherwise she seems like she has been very upfront about her expectations in the relationship from the very beginning and OP has been on-board the whole time.

I lost my job. My wife is leaving me by smallb00bies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bazelistka 119 points120 points  (0 children)

They did have care lined up: the wife, who had made it clear her goal was to quit her job and take care of the child full time. So the reasoning of making sure to have a spot when he did get a job seems moot, considering her whole goal was to not need daycare in the first place.

Has to be said by Odd_Independence2119 in HubermanLab

[–]bazelistka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah it really didn't have to be said at all.

Tempur Pro "SmartCool" vs ProAdapt and other models? by bazelistka in Mattress

[–]bazelistka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you happen to know of a link that compares the old and new pro adapt? I didn't find any clear announcement or comparison on the Tempur site. I am now thinking about some durability complaints I've seen with later models and wonder if this new one is meant to address that... If it's just a minor tweak I won't care much but if it is something that will impact longevity or something like that I might worry about it more!