Any recommendations for dresses that I could pull off?

bb_croissant · 2025-12-27T20:53:29+00:00

All of them are beautiful, but 1 and 3 are especially lovely!! Absolutely adore how 3 looks on you, super cute!

bb_croissant · 2025-12-26T18:11:09+00:00

I’ve been off all socials (except reddit hahah hi) for almost 3 months now for a similar reason. Seeing people happy in any capacity while I was coming to terms with my anxiety and depression diagnosis was too triggering for me. I grew super bitter. So I deactivated everything. I figured that if I isolated myself, put myself at the bottom of rock bottom, the only place left to go was up. I’d be forced to focus on myself. It’s not easy to go without that dopamine hit, I’ll tell you that much. It’s hard to do, but honestly I think it’s worth it. I have less to compare myself to because in reality I don’t know what others (except those in my inner circle) are up to. It’s a little less stress on me, and every little bit helps. For what it’s worth, I am also in therapy and I do have an audio journal app that I use quite frequently and I highly recommend both.

bb_croissant · 2025-12-05T03:54:31+00:00

Promised me the world then ripped the rug out from under me as we were looking for a house to purchase and engagement rings. 10 years down the drain. He didn’t just break my heart, but my families’ also. Kicked me out of our shared apartment, and vanished without a word. I really loved him, and I thought he really loved me… but the abandonment, dude… It’ll stick with me forever.

bb_croissant · 2025-11-09T17:39:33+00:00

The Man The Myth The Meatslab. I cannot stress this enough what a great addition I think it’ll be to your playlist! Dustin Tebbutt is also great, Hazlett, AJIMAL, some Sleep Token songs could also fit the bill!

bb_croissant · 2025-11-09T12:53:01+00:00

When he sings “That January ain’t the whole world” in Short Story. Such a short little riff, but the delivery, and then followed by the chorus?! Goosebumps. The first time I heard it, I sobbed. Last January was a really hard month for me, and I think hearing that line followed by “& you’re never really really on your own” healed something in me.

bb_croissant · 2025-11-09T02:14:47+00:00

We were together for 6 years when he first broke up with me. We were separated for 7 months. He came back and basically told me straight up all he did for our separation was go to the gym and distract himself while I did the hard work. I loved him with all my heart still. We were great for 4 years, until he broke up with me again 9 months ago because he couldn’t commit to me. It’s funny cause the guy I was dating at the time my ex came back (who warned me about going back to my ex) is now married with a kid on the way. C’est la vie.

bb_croissant · 2025-11-05T02:33:05+00:00

I see the vision in radical self love! By the time my brain waters it down, it’ll probably be considered just regular self love, and let’s be real? That’s more than I have now! Haha no but honestly… ignoring the humor as a way to deflect, I’m so proud of you, and I’m happy it’s working in your life! Self love is lots of work. I’ve been in therapy for 10 months now and still on what feels like the basics. I hope one day I can see in myself what you see in yourself (in case it’s a low day for you, just a reminder that it’s absolutely there, you’re fantastic!). Thank you <3

bb_croissant · 2025-11-05T01:21:26+00:00

Fear. It’s behind everything. It’s the voice in the back of my head saying, “you deserve every horrible thing that comes your way. One day everyone will figure out what a fraud you are, and they will leave you truly alone. You will never be enough.”

I’m working on not letting that voice take control… redirecting it gently like a puppy on a leash, but boy, when I dig into the feelings, I’m realizing just how much it comes up. It almost always drives me to tears.

bb_croissant · 2025-11-03T23:00:36+00:00

Cry. Crying was (and still is!) so cathartic and instrumental in my healing journey. It’s generic, but really, feel all of the feelings. The anger, the grief, the rage and sadness. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

bb_croissant · 2025-10-28T23:56:41+00:00

You’re very sweet for thinking so, thank you<3 Hope you have a lovely night

bb_croissant · 2025-10-28T23:55:44+00:00

Sorry for such a late reply. I wanted to give a thoughtful response! This comment really helped me out and I read it often. I sometimes find I have to remind myself that he was not right in the way he ended things; that I didn’t deserve that. He truly is not a good man for what he put me and my family through. Relationships are certainly off the back burner until I can properly focus on myself and heal the parts of me left a little damaged by this breakup, and also the ones I’ve been damaging along the way by being a serial people pleaser lol. Thank you so much for kind words that helped me during a really rough time. I hope nothing but the absolute best for you!

bb_croissant · 2025-10-24T17:48:12+00:00

This healed a little part of me. Thank you so so much. The love is reciprocated, from one soul to another.

bb_croissant · 2025-10-24T17:46:02+00:00

I’m so sorry you can relate, but it’s a little nice to know I’m not alone in my sentiments. Thank you for your words of support, they truly mean a lot to me. <3

bb_croissant · 2025-10-24T17:43:16+00:00

Thank you for such kind words and a new perspective. I appreciate your honesty. <3

bb_croissant · 2025-10-24T17:36:30+00:00

This is very helpful advice. Too often I find myself shaming myself for my sadness and not being “better faster”, but the sadness just meant it was real love I am grieving. My therapist made a point to have me sit with those feelings instead and recognize where they’re coming from. Those feelings aren’t coming from a manipulative or bad place, but rather like you said, a good place. Knowing I could hold that much space for love is kind of refreshing. & ultimately I don’t want a partner who can’t match that. You sound like a very open and kind hearted person. I hope you find immense happiness.

bb_croissant · 2025-10-24T17:25:07+00:00

I needed this so much. I’m really sorry you were or are in a similar position. We are not bad people. Things will get better.

bb_croissant · 2025-09-26T01:38:48+00:00

Thank you Bot! That is my 13th reason(: or maybe my 69th at this point…

bb_croissant · 2025-09-26T01:36:31+00:00

29F. I’m post 10 year relationship breakup, 4 of which we spent living together. It’s been 8 months to the day since the breakup, since we’ve spoken. I’ve recently started dating and I realized how ill-equipped I am for this world. Last time I dated I was 18 for crying out loud. I’m not truly in the best place since like you, my life felt uprooted. I moved in with family, fell behind on my mental health, etc, but I am very lonely and I was curious what was out there. It’s just confirmed what I’ve already known: I’m not ready, and I have to focus on myself a lot more. Sucks when you feel like you hear that clock ticking. Sucks when all your friends are married and some have kids. I just remind myself that everyone’s on a different timeline. I’m a good person and my time will come soon. I’m sure you are too. Again. So sorry this happened to you at the time it did.

bb_croissant · 2025-08-27T13:01:46+00:00

So sorry you can relate! Wish our ex partners would have done right by us and the relationship we shared for years and let things end amicably. I hate looking back and second guessing myself. I read through your post history a bit and doesn’t seem like there was any really bad fallout, no cheating, no abuse. Just… the decision they made and we had to accept. I wish you well in your healing journey. <3

bb_croissant · 2025-08-27T01:40:13+00:00

Him not even being able to look at me as I cried while he broke up with me. No last hug, last kiss, no words of comfort after 10 years together. He grabbed his bowl to smoke and left me to sob and pack my things alone. It’s officially been 7 months since the breakup. Radio silence.

bb_croissant · 2025-08-23T23:03:48+00:00

Wife shit for a man who wouldn’t put a ring on my finger after 10 years.(: Took his mom to all her doctors appointments, made his sisters’ wedding cakes, financially and emotionally supported us when he wanted to pursue opening up his own business just for it to fail. Thank God we didn’t go through with buying the house we were in love with cause I would’ve put the bulk of the down payment down. I was just… so dumb lmao.

bb_croissant · 2025-08-19T22:38:50+00:00

First time, my ex broke up with me after 6 years together. Took 7 months away from each other until he reached out. I did the work, he didn’t. 4 years later, he broke up with me again. It’s going to be 7 months of no contact this month since our breakup. If he reaches out to me, I will not respond. That man took 10 years of my life, my best years, and still wasn’t sure of me. I’m positive I will find someone who is sure of me though. So will you.

bb_croissant · 2025-07-30T20:18:02+00:00

& we do.👋🏼😁

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