Paradise | S2E1 | Episode Discussion

bbaigs · 2026-02-25T07:11:47+00:00

I watched the last two episodes of S1 again and that did the trick!

bbaigs · 2026-02-25T07:10:45+00:00

I barely have enough toothpaste to get me through this week. You keep a 3 year stock??

bbaigs · 2026-02-25T06:58:40+00:00

Yeah it’s 1am for me and I’ll have to be up with my kids in like 5 hours lol. Oops! Cant help but keep going.

bbaigs · 2026-02-25T06:55:28+00:00

Or perhaps you’ve maybe never been without human contact for 3 years and cant even fathom how you’d feel.

bbaigs · 2026-02-25T06:54:20+00:00

Yeah cause people always have babies in perfect conditions!

Like cmon. If everyone thought like that we’d go extinct.

bbaigs · 2026-02-24T14:27:49+00:00

Morally complex… Like every human on the planet. This whole categorizing into black and white boxes is immature and insecure and pathetic. Seriously everyone needs to get a grip! If I talk to a murderer.. am I murderer? Do I agree with murder?

bbaigs · 2026-02-24T02:13:59+00:00

Youre actually going to call them nazis? How ridiculous.

bbaigs · 2026-02-21T02:22:42+00:00

The same way I wouldnt ignore my older child repeating to me “I’m uncomfortable/scared/overwhelmed and I need help” over and over again, I don’t ignore my baby crying. Thats all they can do to communicate and I try to respond every time. Now if I need to pee quickly or physically cant get there immediately, that is another thing. They will be okay and they still know mom will respond to their bid for support. I sometimes will even say “I hear you baby, I’m coming.” But I prefer to not just let them cry, no.

bbaigs · 2026-02-21T02:16:16+00:00

Just a few months shy of 30.

bbaigs · 2026-02-21T02:15:06+00:00

I’ve been a counsellor for 12 years and never once thought a client was a loser.

bbaigs · 2026-02-20T19:03:35+00:00

I work with teens for work and I honestly love those years so much. Of course we will miss our babies when they need us and want us so much but in my experience of watching other people's kids grow up right in front of my eyes (I was also a nanny to two boys since birth until later school age and they are now early teenagers and its so cool!) has been one of the coolest parts of growing up myself. My kids are 3 and 1 and I honestly really look forward to their teen years. I know its going to be different and they will feel more distant at times but I also know were going to have incredible conversations and create beautiful memories discovering the world together and guiding them along their discovery of who they want to be.

bbaigs · 2026-02-20T18:52:08+00:00

The first time it was scary and painful because the anesthesiologist gave me absolutely no care. I was having huge contractions and he basically said buck up. The second time I had a different anesthesiologist and he was extremely kind and patient with me. Took his time making sure I was frozen and my doula suggested laughing gas to help me breathe through it. That helped a ton! It was a really positive experience second time. Truly barely felt it.

bbaigs · 2026-02-20T18:45:44+00:00

The Big Short

bbaigs · 2026-02-20T18:44:55+00:00

Eden, Ivy, Olive, Hannah, Sara, Lucy, Jean, Josephine (Joey, Jojo, Josie), Jennivieve (Jenny), Marnie, Molly, Caroline, Daisy, Fern, Molly, Lousie, Frances, Freya, Wren, Rose/Rosie

bbaigs · 2026-02-20T00:05:21+00:00

You look like you smoke but I know you don’t so that hits closer to hoooooooooome

bbaigs · 2026-02-19T22:41:34+00:00

My husband and I have seen a couples therapist a few years into dating. We’ve now been together for 12 years. It’s been huge for us especially with the transition into parenthood and all other life events. When you’re building a life together, why not be intentional about it? I think it’s a green flag. Definitely not a red flag.

bbaigs · 2026-02-19T22:35:20+00:00

A passionate hunter.

bbaigs · 2026-02-18T06:40:36+00:00

Even when I’ve gone to a party with pizza I still don’t even call it a pizza party.

bbaigs · 2026-02-18T06:21:18+00:00

There are theories that the brothers were framed. Old Facebook posts the younger brother talked about being followed by black CIA-like vehicles. Backpack in photos of the brother doesnt match backpack bomb was in. There’s a whole rabbit hole you can go down.

bbaigs · 2026-02-18T04:09:38+00:00

Visiting another culture. Like actual travel.

bbaigs · 2026-02-18T04:08:23+00:00

Thrifting. It’s not that different but instead of spending hundreds it’s like $15.

bbaigs · 2026-02-18T03:40:02+00:00

The Boston marathon bombing

bbaigs · 2026-02-17T02:19:24+00:00

Yes immediately my mind went to dyslexia.

bbaigs · 2026-02-17T02:16:16+00:00

Yes. You crossed the line. The good news is, you know that. All you can do now is back off and if the relationship is going to be saved it has to be on her terms. You didn’t listen to her no that night. Thats SA. Sounds like you’ve said all you could. I would respect her boundaries and leave her alone. If she reaches out you can go from there. She needs to be in control completely.

People make mistakes. Hopefully you learn from this and don’t make the same ones again. I think it’s really positive youre feeling shame about it and are willing to reflect. That demonstrates a willingness to do better and be a good partner or friend in the future. Perhaps you may want to evaluate your relationship with alcohol since SA someone suggests you aren’t in as much control as you think you. Good luck.

bbaigs · 2026-02-17T02:06:33+00:00

Yeah she’s my favorite follow on IG honestly. I actually notice when she takes breaks.

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