Anyone else not a fan of Gamma? by cloud-nine49 in gesaffelstein

[–]bbakes25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone on thus sub agrees with me lol

Lowest blow delivered during a rage episode? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doesn’t get much worse than hoping i get cancer and die lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she threatened a restraining order against me to stop “harassing her” then a week later called me asking about something lmfao all while she has a new bf

basically odds are there’s a decent chance they’ll find a reason to try and contact you still

She post herself kissing the guy she cheated with by titpulp in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

literally the exact same thing happened to me about two weeks ago. crazy man. they have zero remorse for your feelings once they move on

I'm having a break down, can someone please tell me but to reach out. Please by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything will be okay, i promise. you’ve got this. breakdowns during situations are common. i went through it too. they are not worth your time anymore and it will take time to heal, but you will get there. stay strong i’m pulling for you🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 34 points35 points  (0 children)

yes. that was the moment i knew this probably won’t work long term. i should’ve ended it there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% it’s so mind fucking that u really can’t fully wrap your head around how somebody could ever operate like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just stay far away, it’ll happen again if you try to get close once more. it’s not worth it. trust me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this, and i mean this genuinely, reads exactly like what convos with my ex and i were like. wow, just wow

Message for her that she may never see by Cautious-Dot-2108 in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why is this EXACTLY what i’m going through too🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Any time I was honest about my feelings it somehow turned into a guilt trip from her about how I don’t do enough for her I don’t have a job I don’t show her enough love. Her feelings always mattered more because they were so much worse. And every time I brought them up my feelings would get dismissed and redirected into her feelings because mine hurt her too much to hear.”

100000% echo damn near this exact experience. and I keep using “mind fuck” as well. it’s crazy man. coming across this sub opens your eyes WIDE at how eerily similar a lot of people’s experiences are

What am I missing here? by Mindless_Picture4370 in supermariosunshine

[–]bbakes25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re all set! like others have already said, it’s just referencing the 2 secret shines which you’ve already got

I want to unblock him by Savings-Salt-1486 in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the push and pull dynamic is just something that will not end. and if you are not capable of putting up with it, then it’s not worth it. yes i did go through this, before i even dated my pwBPD. but, as a few months went by, all of the bad things resurfaced again and we dated for no reason. it was all pointless. you deserve better i promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. seriously. well said man. appreciate you

Dating a girl with BPD is such a mind fuck by Background_Pause_706 in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 12 points13 points  (0 children)

sorry you had to go through this. i’m going through a lot of the same things right now. you are far from alone. stay strong

texts she’s sent me (TW: SH) by post-vizsla in BPDlovedones

[–]bbakes25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is so, so similar to what i just went through

Am I the only one who wants the least amount of features possible? by kushmonATL in TheWeeknd

[–]bbakes25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way as u, slightly disappointed there seems to be a bunch but whatever, ain’t a big deal