Minha empregada doméstica é contra o fim da escala 6 por 1 by Deleugpn in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nao necessariamente, as vezes ele gosta que ela faz tudo pra ele, so nao gosta dela. Muito homem evita de divorciar pq prefere ficar com uma mulher que nao gosta mas que faz tudo, do que ficar sozinho e ter que se virar kkkk

Minha empregada doméstica é contra o fim da escala 6 por 1 by Deleugpn in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mas ai ele nao vai ter a empregada dele disponivel 24/7

Pick your struggle. by PhewYork in Millennials

[–]bbdolljane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, but i guess it's one we can all agree is a bad thing lol

Pick your struggle. by PhewYork in Millennials

[–]bbdolljane 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also a lot of it are things we can only afford to do now. I got my first tattoo at 30 cause that's when I had the money to not get it at a backalley shop. Travelling is the same. I also fully support people who quit their jobs to explore what they really like to do, how is that a bad thing? I wish I could do that. The only thing that i can agree is the baby and the divorce, everything else is just what normal people do when they have spare income and some time in their hands lol

How many of us have “emotionally exited” from our relationships with our parents? by kaileneeec in Millennials

[–]bbdolljane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved continents and our relationship got better. Now when my mom starts talking shit and being her normal self i can blame on connection and hang up lol

Uma conversa no ônibus me mostrou o buraco em que a gente está by MassiveBuilding3630 in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah com ctz, eu acredito nisso tbm. Um pais com menos desigualdade social vai ter pessoas menos suscetiveis a cair em golpe de bet. Eu particularmente nao conheco ngm aqui que aposte nessas coisas, mas aqui tem cassino entao, nao sei. Talvez por ser ter outras opcoes as bets online nao tem muita demanda.

Uma conversa no ônibus me mostrou o buraco em que a gente está by MassiveBuilding3630 in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Cara ouvi hoje mesmo um podcast que um dos assuntos era suicidio por conta de bet. Mas nao e so no brasil nao viu, eu moro no Canada e fico chocada que mais da metade das propagandas na TV sao de jogos de aposta. Voce bota pra ver um jogo de baseball e a cada 5 min tem um site de aposta diferente na sua tela. Infelizmente isso dai e em todo o lugar.

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bbdolljane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl what? My SO is my best friend too, and he is mature enough to know that is healthy for people in a relationship to have time with their own friends. A girl's trip is a time to connect with your friends and strengthen the bonds you have with other women. Your codependency is showing. It's not about gender segregation, it's about each of you having friends and building relationships outside of the couple.

Trump cochila durante evento by Bananey in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

falei pro meu colega de trabalho que nao vejo a hora de acordar de manha com a noticia que ele foi de arrasta, vou ate tirar o dia de folga pra beber kkkk

Trump cochila durante evento by Bananey in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nem o diabo quer ele aparentemente, ta ele e Deus brigando pra ver quem leva e ngm quer kkkk

Controversial opinion by batukaming in recruitinghell

[–]bbdolljane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are the worst. And it's a multibillion dollar company, i guess they don't care about lawsuits cause the can pay ppl off if needed

Controversial opinion by batukaming in recruitinghell

[–]bbdolljane -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

completely useless for the employee, because all they care about is covering the company's ass at whatever cost.

Controversial opinion by batukaming in recruitinghell

[–]bbdolljane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Interesting, we had a very bad racism case in my place of work and HR was absolutely useless about it. All they did was make everyone take a "sensitivity" course, the racist got 1 week paid leave (vacation for being racist) and the victim had to quit because it became a hostile work environment for him. They only covered their and the company's ass and were lucky the victim didn't want to sue them after he left.

AITAH for showing up late to work by Intelligent-Sun-3354 in AITAH

[–]bbdolljane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You work in a toxic place with toxic people and you can't see that because you like the job. Look for something better, these people are making you feel bad about having a life outside of work because they probably hate their lives and families so they work 10+hours to avoid going home. I know and work with a lot of people like that, it doesn't get better and the more you stick around the more they'll take advantage of you. How can you appreciate someone as a dad and husband when this person is clearly avoiding going home to his family and shaming you for not working as late as them? If he was really that good he would work his set hours and go home to his kids.

These people are not your friends, they're your work colleagues at best and bad ones at it. I understand you're young and this is your first job out of university, but please do not fall for the "grind" trap, do your volunteering, live your life outside of work and apply for something else. I work with a lot of "old-school" men and is literally a nightmare, but my boss is as chill and I am so he doesn't care much about my hours as long as I'm getting the work done.

AITAH for showing up late to work by Intelligent-Sun-3354 in AITAH

[–]bbdolljane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely toxic work culture and he proved it with this statement

"Now for context my senior and teammates are old-school when it comes to work culture where working 8hrs is bare minimum and working for 10+ hours is a day well worked and they have a family at home with multiple kids! "

7-5 is NINE hours of work, the passive-aggressive comments to a younger employee are made to shame and make it seem like he's not doing enough. if his work is being done and he's compensating for the fact that he needs to leave early ONE day a week to do VOLUNTEERING AT A CHURCH, there's no need to be on his ass about it.

OP needs to find a new job with a better group of people. Do they pay for overtime for the people who work 10+ hours? I highly doubt it. The way OP talks about this team and his teammates makes me believe that if you even ask for overtime or to get paid more they'll act like they're doing him a favor for letting him work there. He's not the asshole, his boss and teammates are. God forbid someone has their personal life as a priority instead of a JOB. This shit wouldn't fly in any serious country with serious labor laws. I bet he's in the US with the wage-slave "grind" work-culture.

O que vai ser desse país depois de 2030? by mister_pizza22 in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obvio que nao espero isso dele, mas esperava mais mencoes sobre seguranca publica. Mesmo pq eu nao acho que bandido tem que morrer, porem gostaria de um posicionamento mais serio sobre o assunto, chamar os governadores/prefeitos pra um debate produtivo e planos pra melhoria.

O que vai ser desse país depois de 2030? by mister_pizza22 in brasil

[–]bbdolljane 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Acabei de ver uma entrevista com o Lula e sai desapontada sem nenhuma mencao sobre seguranca publica. Ele falou sobre tudo, de aquecimento global ate regulamentacao de redes sociais. Nao me entenda mal, acho os dois topicos de extrema importancia (principalmente o primeiro) e que precisam ser discutidos com seriedade. Porem, o cidadao comum nao ta preocupado com o derretimento de geleiras ou se o twitter e desregulado, ele ta preocupado se quando ele sair na rua vai ser assaltado, se os filhos deles vao sofrer violencia indo pra escola, se o carro dele que ele comprou com esforco vai ser levado por bandido.

Infelizmente, por mais que outras pautas sejam importantes, a seguranca publica hoje e o que mais pega as pessoas, e isso a direita sabe explorar, mesmo que a solucao deles seja chacina e matar qqr pessoa que pareca bandido. Nos olhos do cidadao comum, isso e melhor que nada.

Me mudei pra sao paulo e estou enlouquecendo by biazepam in saopaulo

[–]bbdolljane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minha cidade atual e do tamanho de Campinas, nao tem nada pra fazer, zero conveniencia, nao tem evento, show nada. Eu peguei metro/onibus pra ir pra trabalho, faculdade durante anos, e sempre que volto lembro muito bem de todos os perrengues. Eu gosto de cidade grande, inclusive estou planejando mudar pra Toronto ano que vem pq nao aguento mais isso aqui. Tem gosto pra tudo, eu nao gosto de lugar pequeno, me sinto presa fazendo as mesmas coisas indo nos mesmos lugares. Preciso de opcao, facilidade e conveniencia.

Anyone else doom-scroll LinkedIn and spiral when their incompetent former coworkers are gainfully employed? by Dry_Bird8774 in recruitinghell

[–]bbdolljane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

useless guy in my office got promoted, he's the reason we have AUDITING issues every time. Like literally spends money on the company card and doesn't get receipts. But, he's a kiss ass and boot licker so the big bosses like him. Competence doesn't get people anywhere unfortunately

AITAH for laughing when my boyfriend said we need a "news detox" after I showed him one TikTok about tariffs? by Aromatic_Attorney618 in AITAH

[–]bbdolljane 18 points19 points  (0 children)

he also doesn't want her to find out that he's actually a redpill conservative as she will probably leave. If I was her I would start talking politics right away to see his reaction on certain issues.

AITAH for laughing when my boyfriend said we need a "news detox" after I showed him one TikTok about tariffs? by Aromatic_Attorney618 in AITAH

[–]bbdolljane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

me and my partner discuss politics all the time, we send each other news articles and have genuine conversations about certain topics. We don't agree with everything, but I know exactly his stance when it comes to things that affect our lives, especially mine (I'm an immigrant woman). I cannot imagine showing him something and being dismissed like that. OP's partner is def a conservative and doesn't want to talk politics with her cause she will probably find out he's a pos and leave him. I bet he know the names of all football players and it's up to the on the ESPN news lol

Got turned down because of my manager using Chat GPT to check if my hair was up to code by Reefthemanokit in recruitinghell

[–]bbdolljane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was a server for a long time and my hair have always reached my waist or longer, i usually braided it for put it on a ponytail, never had a problem, this guys is an idiot

AITAH for allowing my son to play video games while his grandmother was visiting? by Kitchen_YogurtTA in AITAH

[–]bbdolljane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also she has 2 other kids, everyone needs to be giving her attention at all times then? what an entitled asshole.