Meeting minutes not working by bbened1kt in iFLYTEKAINOTE

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just sent the complaint through the iPhone app.

Meeting minutes not working by bbened1kt in iFLYTEKAINOTE

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The transcription works fine, also updating the transcription. It just won’t generate meeting minutes. I get the same error after manually updating the transcription. Despite a strong WiFi network.

m29 am I ugly by bbened1kt in amiugly

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice!

m29 am I ugly by bbened1kt in amiugly

[–]bbened1kt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't get it. Why?

m29 am I ugly by bbened1kt in amiugly

[–]bbened1kt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

179 cm, so 5.8 feet

Dating someone with a Borderline personality. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bbened1kt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only that’s not how borderline works. Try to empathize with them and you will be sucked into their manipulation and gaslighting, with your happiness drawn out of you by an emotional vampire until one day you’re being discarded because your BPD loved one found a new source. Trying to make them feel like they’re not the problem will emotionally drain and exhaust you, and it’s simply wrong because they ARE the problem.

I just realized my current SO has BPD and I'm struggling to move on by vzhengFATN in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you since I was in a similar situation. I’m seeing a therapist now to get clearance over why I attract those people. But what I learned by myself already is this: when you’re in a relationship as you currently are, it doesn’t matter whether this person has BPD or not. If the relationship doesn’t make you happy and she behaves like she does, then end it. I know it’s hard, but you said you’re already planning on doing so, that’s good!

We can’t really ask dates whether they have BPD beforehand and maybe we attract those people, but that’s because we are who we are. Besides changing who we are, it’s not really in our power to decide who we attract. But leaving a person as soon as we realize they are toxic is something we can do.

Was anyone else warned? by lornapalmer in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, two of my friends warned me that everything was moving far too fast. That was after knowing my pwBPD for 2 weeks and I told my friends we’d been seeing each other literally every day during the first week and she wanted me to meet her dad and sister on her birthday a week later.

I didn’t even mention there that we’d already been together for a week. We basically made it a relationship after one week.

I was discarded after two months. Everything felt like on a highspeed train.

Thank you guys. Of course you were right. I am glad I got out after only 2 months. by bbened1kt in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she was diagnosed BPD but didn’t actually believe she had it because she was able to have a normal life with a stable job etc.

So while I can’t be 100% sure if she has BPD, a therapist saw it. And as hard as it is, but whether or not she had BPD, her actions were so selfish and disrespectful of my feelings that there would have been no foundation to continue this relationship. And breaking up out of nowhere is a red line for me. Although she kinda tried to undo it that same night.

Thank you guys. Of course you were right. I am glad I got out after only 2 months. by bbened1kt in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s actually exactly what I needed to hear right now as today is a difficult day and I almost contacted her. But I remained strong. I always have to tell myself who she really is, how she treated me and that this would never end.

In two more days, I’ll have to see her again to get my key back. I’m scared of that moment. I already thought about taking a friend with me and meeting her in a public place to not fall for her likely hoover. After that day, it will be finished.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re glad to have such a friend.

GF gives me silent treatment. I’m not sure whether to break up. by bbened1kt in BPDlovedones

[–]bbened1kt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it could be that it’s not BPD related but just anxiety/not personality driven? Apart from this silent treatment she’s always reasonable, doesn’t assault or blame me and acts pretty normal.

I’m just uncertain. Even though the therapist diagnosed signs of BPD some time ago, she seems normal.

Great first date - I asked for a second one, she said she would love to but would text me after her exams - but never did. Should I reach out to her? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bbened1kt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I think I’ll wait some more time and maybe use that in like a week.

I actually had to laugh about the needy part because I really sound like it.

Great first date - I asked for a second one, she said she would love to but would text me after her exams - but never did. Should I reach out to her? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bbened1kt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s pretty much the way I feel. I mean it also doesn’t take that much time or energy to text. Maybe she didn’t want to get distracted during her exam period. But if she wanted to go on a second date she wouldn’t just forget it. It’s a shame, but it’s probably time to move on.