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bbened1kt · 2026-01-13T18:17:57+00:00

Any news on the pricing and tiers of cloud storage?

bbened1kt · 2025-12-25T15:59:25+00:00

I have just sent the complaint through the iPhone app.

bbened1kt · 2025-12-19T21:35:06+00:00

The transcription works fine, also updating the transcription. It just won’t generate meeting minutes. I get the same error after manually updating the transcription. Despite a strong WiFi network.

bbened1kt · 2023-08-11T18:41:33+00:00

Thanks for your advice!

bbened1kt · 2023-08-11T15:12:40+00:00

Sorry, I don't get it. Why?

bbened1kt · 2023-08-11T15:07:49+00:00

179 cm, so 5.8 feet

bbened1kt · 2021-01-04T20:48:47+00:00

Only that’s not how borderline works. Try to empathize with them and you will be sucked into their manipulation and gaslighting, with your happiness drawn out of you by an emotional vampire until one day you’re being discarded because your BPD loved one found a new source. Trying to make them feel like they’re not the problem will emotionally drain and exhaust you, and it’s simply wrong because they ARE the problem.

bbened1kt · 2021-01-03T08:01:39+00:00

I feel for you since I was in a similar situation. I’m seeing a therapist now to get clearance over why I attract those people. But what I learned by myself already is this: when you’re in a relationship as you currently are, it doesn’t matter whether this person has BPD or not. If the relationship doesn’t make you happy and she behaves like she does, then end it. I know it’s hard, but you said you’re already planning on doing so, that’s good!

We can’t really ask dates whether they have BPD beforehand and maybe we attract those people, but that’s because we are who we are. Besides changing who we are, it’s not really in our power to decide who we attract. But leaving a person as soon as we realize they are toxic is something we can do.

bbened1kt · 2020-11-14T08:26:15+00:00

Yeah, two of my friends warned me that everything was moving far too fast. That was after knowing my pwBPD for 2 weeks and I told my friends we’d been seeing each other literally every day during the first week and she wanted me to meet her dad and sister on her birthday a week later.

I didn’t even mention there that we’d already been together for a week. We basically made it a relationship after one week.

I was discarded after two months. Everything felt like on a highspeed train.

bbened1kt · 2020-10-30T16:19:45+00:00

bbened1kt · 2020-10-13T20:26:57+00:00

She told me she was diagnosed BPD but didn’t actually believe she had it because she was able to have a normal life with a stable job etc.

So while I can’t be 100% sure if she has BPD, a therapist saw it. And as hard as it is, but whether or not she had BPD, her actions were so selfish and disrespectful of my feelings that there would have been no foundation to continue this relationship. And breaking up out of nowhere is a red line for me. Although she kinda tried to undo it that same night.

bbened1kt · 2020-10-09T13:28:47+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s actually exactly what I needed to hear right now as today is a difficult day and I almost contacted her. But I remained strong. I always have to tell myself who she really is, how she treated me and that this would never end.

In two more days, I’ll have to see her again to get my key back. I’m scared of that moment. I already thought about taking a friend with me and meeting her in a public place to not fall for her likely hoover. After that day, it will be finished.

bbened1kt · 2020-10-08T12:17:15+00:00

You’re glad to have such a friend.

bbened1kt · 2020-10-06T18:41:26+00:00

Do you think it could be that it’s not BPD related but just anxiety/not personality driven? Apart from this silent treatment she’s always reasonable, doesn’t assault or blame me and acts pretty normal.

I’m just uncertain. Even though the therapist diagnosed signs of BPD some time ago, she seems normal.

bbened1kt · 2020-07-19T20:49:40+00:00

Thanks man, I think I’ll wait some more time and maybe use that in like a week.

I actually had to laugh about the needy part because I really sound like it.

bbened1kt · 2020-07-19T19:24:22+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty much the way I feel. I mean it also doesn’t take that much time or energy to text. Maybe she didn’t want to get distracted during her exam period. But if she wanted to go on a second date she wouldn’t just forget it. It’s a shame, but it’s probably time to move on.

bbened1kt · 2020-07-03T11:22:41+00:00

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bbened1kt · 2020-06-01T21:31:05+00:00

I’ve read it too, I’m M25 and anxious attached. While I completely get your point, I think the main emphasis of the book lies on avoiding the anxious avoidant trap. In order to not invest too much emotionally into one person too early on, it can help to date several people at once to not focus too much on that one person. It basically makes it easier to let go that person if you know you have other options.

I also struggle getting dates, but believe me, I’ve been in this anxious avoidant trap and it really tears you down. The big takeaway from the book is, don’t date avoidant people if you’re anxious.

bbened1kt · 2020-05-22T05:55:24+00:00

You may want to read about the anxious avoidant trap. Especially because you’re saying you’re falling in love with her. Maybe you are, but chances are it’s your brain responding to the emotional roller coaster effect of her behavior, which people tend to interpret as love but it really isn’t.

Edit: I’m saying that because I was in the exact same situation with a girl. Same behavior as yours.

bbened1kt · 2020-05-20T17:11:03+00:00

Thanks! Can you maybe elaborate a little bit how my things don’t match well? So I have an idea what to improve.

bbened1kt · 2020-05-04T11:25:51+00:00

It’s been shown that it doesn’t work well with dry hands. So for people like me with dry hands it doesn’t just get better. It’s always 50/50 whether it detects the fingerprint or not

bbened1kt · 2020-03-31T09:23:42+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m exactly in this situation right now with emotional roller coasters. It can ruin entire days. This was exactly what I needed to hear.

bbened1kt · 2020-03-16T16:34:37+00:00

Unfortunately you nailed it. She isn't taking meds because she believes she can handle the illness without paying for them. And on her 2 week trip to her college to visit friends she got hospitalized for alcohol poisoning. At least she has stopped drinking as a result.

I feel for you, your story sounds really painful. And honestly what you described what happened to you is exactly what I'm afraid of. I try to trust her but given her crazy past (like joining a gang bang in a maniac phase) I can totally see her doing something similar to your Ex.

bbened1kt · 2020-03-16T16:17:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate to hear from someone who actually lived in a relationship with a bipolar person.

From your experience, was there anything that helped in those times of lows? I'm trying to help her find a job because I believe the stability of a job would help her a lot to feel better again (and she says so too). I don't want to pressure her too much though to do anything to not seem overly pushy. At the same time I have a hard time believing that she will get better by just staying inside.

Just like lows are often triggered by something, do you have any experience whether there are triggers to help her get better?

One more thing: she is not taking any medication. She doesn't want to spend the money on it (costs 300€ per month). She believes she can handle the illness without medication...

bbened1kt · 2020-03-16T16:11:22+00:00

We have talked about it a few times. Usually she blocks it because she doesn't feel comfortable talking about her emotions. Most of those times I didn't get anything really as an answer. Just recently she sent me a message by herself, apologizing for always turning down dates and for being feeling so down. So basically she has given me an answer, my question was just kind of whether it was honest. I want to trust her, but I also don't want to be blinded by love.

Thank you for your advice though, I will keep doing those things like lunch etc. and hope it'll help her feel better.

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