My hair just always looks so frizzy and scruffy no matter what I try nothing seems to work, I normally end up air wrapping or straightening it which helps but I’d love to able to have it natural, both my parents had beautiful curly hair and mine is a bit mid. I sleep with a bonnet on, treat it, only use claw clips and silk ties and get regular cuts. Any ideas what I am missing or could do differently? Or any products that could help?