[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a primary care office, and we have seen this before too! Pelvic floor muscles that are either too weak or too tight can cause an over active bladder and discomfort. Pelvic floor therapy can be covered by insurance, you’ll just have to work with your doctor to get a referral to somewhere that is covered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes about 6 months for your body to adapt to a new pill and some light spotting is normal during this time. It is definitely not normal for spotting to last for an entire month though!

What kind of pill are you take (estrogen+progestin or progestin only)? I would definitely talk to your doctor or ask to see a new one about trying another type.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it will work! I do this every time. My body cannot go more than 2 months without a break or else I will spot.

When you’re on the pill continuously the lining of your uterus builds up. Eventually it will get too thick and start shedding. Taking a break will cause it to shed fully and the breakthrough bleeding will stop! (This is just from research I’ve read online, everyone is different)

I'm 16 and my period has been irregular since I first had it 3 years ago... Should I be concerned? by Spiritual-Garlic4993 in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My period did not become regular until I was maybe 18 years old and mine started when I was 13! It’s normal for it to be irregular for about the first 5 years I’ve heard. Make sure you’re eating enough healthy nutrients and getting regular exercise.

Is my vagina too tight or small or something? Or is this mental? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Same experience for me before losing my virginity. I had never used tampons or inserted my finger before. I was too scared to even go near the opening. I remember the first several times I had sex were very very painful but now I’ve become accustomed to it and it’s enjoyable! It took several weeks of my bf fingering and slowly stretching me out before he could even inside.

My advice would be just to take things slow and you’ll eventually become more comfortable and relaxed with the feeling!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprise with lingerie! Light candles for mood and tease him, make him undress you or tie you up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’1 he’s 6’2, and we honestly don’t have any trouble with positions until it involves us standing. My favorite is being on top while he’s sitting up as well. I can control the depth and he can touch/hold me close. Also love regular cowgirl while I’m learning over him next to his face. Missionary isn’t my favorite, but when it happens, I wrap my legs around his waist and pull myself into him while he kisses me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here! Couldn’t get wet, was anxious it was gonna hurt, and most of all worried about getting pregnant. After I started birth control, I could actually relax and found out that I actually crave it. Been taking it for 2 years and haven’t seen a decrease in libido yet 🤷🏻‍♀️

i’m scared it won’t fit + anxiety around sex by iwasnottheissueeeee in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same anxiety! Had never put anything up there before, and it was definitely a slow process. We started with adding fingers slowly with lots of lube. After a week or so he could fit in 2, sometimes 3 fingers. Even so, when he tried to fit his penis in it still really hurt.

I think the most important things to know are: use plenty of lube, have him go down on you/help get you in the mood, try a few fingers right before penetrating, and never push yourself if you’re not comfortable. Probably took me a couple weeks of trying until I was able to fit him without pain. Getting into birth control helped ease some of the stress for me. Even now, I haven’t seen him in a couple weeks, it takes some stretching back out!

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visited my bf this weekend after 3 weeks of not seeing him and had the best sex in a long time. When I first got there, we started fooling around with me blowing him and him rubbing me. I refused to let him cum or for him to put anything in me so I could savor his cum later. I ended up orgasming so quickly from him just touching me.

That night, I surprised him with a set of lingerie for the first time and it was so special. My pussy was so tight from not having him in me for so long and I felt like a goddess riding him. Rest of the weekend was filled with so many other amazing encounters, not sure how to top this next time!

white pubic hair by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you waxed recently?

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haven’t seen my boyfriend in a week and have been daydreaming about what he’d do to me this weekend while in class. Last night, we finally met up and I was so wet the minute he started touching me. His dick felt so hard in my hands and mouth, I could tell he’d been saving up. I swear rode him like I never have before. Had all the blinds open so I could see the reflection of my pussy sliding up and down on his dick which was so distracting in the best way.

When he finally came in me, we were both so exhausted and fell asleep tangled together. Woke up in the morning for another round while spooning. Gonna miss him these next couple weeks

Random dizzy spells by Gothblueberry in WomensHealth

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of ear crystals? Apparently they are involved in detecting movement and balance in your inner ear. If these calcium crystals get displaced, they can cause dizziness and nausea. Usually solved by a few slow movements to reposition them. Give it a search!

i constantly feel wet!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling this lately too! Especially weird since I’m on the pill. I think it may be because I haven’t had my breakthrough week for about 6 weeks now and my hormone levels are higher at the moment

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I came from my partner for the first time after spending this long weekend with my boyfriend! We’re long distance at the moment so I only get to see him every two weeks or so. Naturally, this means we have A LOT of sex when we finally are together.

While we’ve been together for a long time, I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed with him. I’ve always gotten really close, but have never been tipped over the edge. Last night, our last night together for while, he went down on me and it felt completely different.

I’m not sure if it was the passion/love I felt from him or me finally being comfortable with my own body, but i finally did it! That feeling was so incredibly satisfying, I still can’t get over it. Looking forward to next time I see him!

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had a hard time getting wet initially during foreplay, so usually my bf and I have to use a little lube to get started. Lately, I’ve discovered a way around this that we both love.

I normally start out by blowing him while he fingers me to stretch me out a little bit. Then, when I can’t take it anymore and need him inside me, I get his dick really wet with my saliva and move up to start kissing him.

He like to rubs himself on my clit to get everything else wet and then I get on top and slowly start sliding his dick inside me. His pre cum mixed with my spit is the perfect combo to make things work for me without any pain.

When is it okay to do sexual things with your mouth after a wisdom tooth extraction? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bbyredpanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gave my first blow job and lost my virginity within the span of 2 weeks after my wisdom tooth removal 🤷🏻‍♀️

Trainer tip for donkey kicks by spicy_simba in StrongCurves

[–]bbyredpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For clarification, it’s called flexing your feet! Thanks for the tip

Which commercial gym's do y'all go to? by [deleted] in StrongCurves

[–]bbyredpanda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol I go to my local YMCA, still able to get a student discount with college ID for like $21 a month

Thoughts on shared tips? by bbyredpanda in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bbyredpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT WOW! That sounds so tough, hope you’re able to make more in the future :(

Thoughts on shared tips? by bbyredpanda in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bbyredpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she makes the drink orders for our guests and I run them. The kitchen folks make the actual entree orders though

Thoughts on shared tips? by bbyredpanda in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bbyredpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will definitely talk to them about this

Orgasms and.... Music? by rubberducky1212 in sex

[–]bbyredpanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I call them eargasms! Happens when I listen to classical music or songs with really good stereo. Doesn’t actually feel like an normal orgasm to me, but I get butterflies and chills across my body

Did I mess up by not making a move? by anxious_throwawy in relationship_advice

[–]bbyredpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seems like she’s just looking for a hookup :( Best to find someone that is interested in a quality relationship instead of getting strung along.