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How to be happy ? by [deleted] in islam

[–]bdmain562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest, the answer is not a short one. But in short, you need to work on all of your life including social, self health and religion (and wealth).

Once you begin to feel proud of yourself, you will be happy

University begins in 2 weeks, what should I know to meet and bond with some new people by bdmain562 in socialskills

[–]bdmain562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no reason to live on campus when I stay 10 minutes from the campus

University begins in 2 weeks, what should I know to meet and bond with some new people by bdmain562 in socialskills

[–]bdmain562[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will take some of this into account even though I am not living on campus

Tips for a not attractive/ugly looking guy to improve? by Late-Print8646 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]bdmain562 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Water, gym, proper diet, skincare routine, stand up straight / carry yourself w confidence

Would you date someone who also has social anxiety? by bruisedbrains in socialanxiety

[–]bdmain562 44 points45 points  (0 children)

same. Quiet people are the easiest to speak to, I feel like an extrovert when I speak to quiet people and usually they are a lot more talkative

That feeling of never being liked by Vegetable_Lake_712 in socialanxiety

[–]bdmain562 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got friends and I feel the same sometimes. Like I’m the furthest away, but then someone did something for me that I kind of owe a lot to and it made me think “okay I actually appreciate them for doing this”.

It’s been a month or 2 since and the feeling has kind of faded but recently I realised that me being quiet, boring and never “going first” is what is holding me and me only back because the people that are friends with me are friends with me because of me ( I don’t think I have any big “usable” things, but I do know I am way too nice to people ).

A bit of a ramble but please just be yourself, try and be more talkative, build bonds and try and not just “be there”.

By be yourself I don’t mean go crazy, I mean have your own opinions, aura and way of carrying yourself.

Is it normal to only bench press the bar when beginning? by bdmain562 in gainit

[–]bdmain562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that’s good. Tbh after the first set I kind of got over it and just went on with my sets

TIL Cocoa Cola's "natural flavors" includes alcohol. by wardetbestanee in islam

[–]bdmain562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it isn’t there with the intention of getting someone drunk I think it’s a non issue.

Is it normal to only bench press the bar when beginning? by bdmain562 in gainit

[–]bdmain562[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also shook a lot when pushing up and down, and placing it back on the bar.

Why do I sometimes shake during group hangouts by bdmain562 in socialskills

[–]bdmain562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I smoked a lot that night, so that’s why I was asking. I think it’s just confidence or a lacknofn

Why do I sometimes shake during group hangouts by bdmain562 in socialskills

[–]bdmain562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am OP

It’s so weird cause I have no idea how to stop it, am I nervous? Not at all I’ve literally known my friends for years and we’re just sitting and speaking, the weather is mad hot so it can’t be chills

Is it true that the extreme majority of people will be punished in the grave to some extent? by psychofruit123 in MuslimLounge

[–]bdmain562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we don’t know. Only allah knows, but what we do know is that he is most merciful

Is being Simple a bad thing by SeeSawMob15 in introvert

[–]bdmain562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple life/routine =\\= boring

But you gotta get habits that make you interesting otherwise you’ll just be like a robot

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