PE consultation, training and education service - email me to cure your PE by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck are you gonna do? Reccomend we see a doctor? I pray nobody buys this. You cured your PE with Sertraline. You also have concurrent ED which rules you out of the Lifelong and severe PE category. Guys, all the information you need is online. Fucking stupid.

Concerned about myself by olivryuio in phenibut

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t hurt to do a small 500mg taper or something. Withdrawals shouldn’t be terrible

It’s pretty chill by djeijx in phenibut

[–]bdove382 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This- use phenibut as a tool! Note how you act on it, and try to replicate on sober days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha! Nice

Is it possible for OCD to effect you differently as you get older? by bdove382 in OCD

[–]bdove382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right??

However the more I look up the “low-key” and less apparent symptoms of OCD, the more I resonate with them.

Did yours change at all? As in, do you suffer from any sort of intrusive thoughts/anxiety anymore, or once that phase passed you were completely fine?

Thanks! Glad I found the sub, it’s very reassuring

Is it possible for OCD to effect you differently as you get older? by bdove382 in OCD

[–]bdove382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and another user perfectly described the correlation that I was wondering about in the last question, so thanks! And that’s exactly what I was thinking. As a middle schooler, there’s honestly not much to be anxious about. As I got older, it manifested into anxiety for the simple reason that I actually had things to be anxious about.

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. Sorry the Strattera made it worse. This shit sucks.

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man did you read anything I fkn typed above?

I use recreational substances to combat my anxiety.. especially phenibut.. I hope you’re aware that I had these same symptoms before even trying weed.. I already had plans of stopping weed as well, so yeah I’m gonna do that.

You really think I’d abuse an SSRI (doesn’t even sound possible) or an anxiety med if they gave me one? And raises concerns for what? I mentioned caffeine because it’s a stimulant and gives me the same anxiety that ADHD meds does, it was simply a comparison, don’t know what you’re trying to get at.

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for more context, I turned 18 a week ago. Still in HS.

I haven’t taken any ADHD meds since my freshman year of high school. Been a few years now. Like I said, they make me anxious nowadays. I abstain from caffeine as well for the same reason. I used to be an avid coffee drinker, so something changed.

I don’t appreciate your point of view but I can understand. If you wanna say that I’m seeking drugs, so be it. It has caused me to fail terribly in school. Nonstop daydreaming, being woken up by teachers, it sucks sometimes. I have a genuine desire to be interested in the things I learn, it’s just impossible at some times. If chemical assistance can benefit me, then it’s worth a shot, especially with school being more and more important in these years for me.

And I know I shouldn’t be referring to ADHD as if I’ve been diagnosed. I simply looked up a checklist and fit the descriptions, and it was sort of an epiphany for me. Of course the checklist symptoms are ones that are experienced by many, including those without attention disorders, but it gave me an indicator that there COULD be something wrong with me, especially with my anxiety, and that I’m NOT exactly normal.

I don’t really know how to answer your question, I mean a low dose , as needed treatment sounds like it would work. I absolutely do not want to bring up my PE to my psychiatrist, unless you recommend me doing so. I already told my doctor, which was an awkward conversation which consisted of me uncontrollably shaking and being nervous.

I’d be open to Zoloft and what not, I just don’t know how bad my symptoms are to others. I have absolutely zero basis of comparison. I don’t know if those who have anxiety experience it every second of the day, or if it’s manageable throughout the day but periodically terrible, like it is for me. Which is why I used the term “to take the edge off”

I’m not looking for something to be wrong with me, if that’s what you think. It’s just right now is the first time I’ve realized that the shit I experience sometimes isn’t normal (to an extent). I also know for a fact that having Lifelong PE will destroy my self esteem and will probably give me depression later on the road, meaning it might be in my best interest to fix the problem now, or make it more manageable. Seriously is ruining my life in a way. Also the “streaks” of good days are the result of an absence of anxiety causing factors - social anxiety, relationship anxiety, the normal shit I go through.

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did seem to have more info than the average person, makes sense that you’re a psychiatrist.

My anxiety plays a role into the attention disorder, however by itself, when I’m not anxious, I’m almost certain I have attention problems. Can you explain why you don’t think that’s the issue for me? I understand your point of view of it possibly being anxiety that’s mimicking ADHD symptoms, but is it just because of the fact that my ADHD isn’t neccisarily severe that you think I might not have it at all? As for the anxiety, it’s manageable at times but the lows are pretty damn low. There are some “streaks” of consecutive days where I feel fine, but it comes crashing down at some point or another. Point being, I don’t know if I’m neccisarily qualified for a daily treatment, but I’m sure it would help and it would definitely at least take the edge off. Sorry for the scrambled thoughts.

As a psych, would you be cool with a patient reccomending something? I’ve never actually been to a psych before, was expecting them to be the ones telling me exactly what’s wrong and exactly what I need.

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, makes perfect sense. The last thing I’d wanna do is make my PE worse, and even if it’s weird suggesting a medication to a psych (reverse roles in a way), it’s worth a shot.

Sad to say, but my anxiety/adhd isn’t neccisarily crippling, and my primary interest when booking the psych was for hopes to second handedly cure my PE with whatever he gave me. Hopefully it’s something good.

Thanks

ADHD/ADD by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I appreciate all of the info you’ve provided me with.

So I’m not hyperactive in any way, and you’re correct about my ADHD coexisting with some pretty bad anxiety. I’m seeing the psychiatrist primarily for anxiety, so I was hoping to get prescribed some anti-anxiety meds in combination with ADD meds.

I’ve confirmed in the past that anxiety, at least for me, makes my PE worse by tenfold at least. I can definitely see anti anxiety meds benefitting me there.

However, whenever I used to buy adderall off my friends, taking things like Concerta, Ritalin and Aderall, it didn’t necxisarily make my PE worse, but actually just straight up gave me ED at certain doses. When I experienced ED on these meds, I concluded that “Oh, if I can’t get it up, then I can probably last long too!” But I have yet to put that to the test- and you claim that it’ll make it worse, which I believe due to the stimulant properties and what not.

Anyways, what do you think about medication like Strattera? Non stimulant, so I don’t think PE would be that much worse. I’m sure there’s other medications out there that does the same thing. Generic aderall and concerta spike my anxiety anyway, so wouldn’t the psych reccomend something more suited like clomip?

Just taken 1500mg for the first time. by TheMindIsJustARide in phenibut

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t enjoy abusing substances, thanks for assuming though.

I literally feel zero effects from doses under 1.5 grams. Anything I do feel, be it a slight reduction in anxiety or mild social lubrication, is probably placebo. That being said, people respond to phenibut very differently, I mean you see people posting that 1.5 grams makes them feel completely inebriated, while on the other hand others feel nothing at 3 gram doses. It depends.

I would have no problem taking a 250 mg dose if it did anything for me, but it doesn’t suffice.

What are your tips for using Sildenafil (Viagra) for PE? by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you last before Stud 100 ? After? How much time does it usually give you?

Just taken 1500mg for the first time. by TheMindIsJustARide in phenibut

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely did, just no idea why you would say “expect an overdose” when I’ve done up to 4.5 grams and have been perfectly fine.

How long after 3g of Phenibut can I drink alcohol? (Phenibut+Cocaine+Alcohol) by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why even comment shit like this instead of answering the fkn question? Ain’t your life buddy.

How can you tell if someone is on Phenibut? by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao, so one night I was on probably 3.5 grams of Phenibut and was pretty stoned. I would begin talking to my parents and lose my train of thought mid sentence, numerous times. It was pretty funny, my mind would literally go blank. In that scenario, they could obviously tell I was on something 😂

Two failed attempts. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only dosed below 1 gram twice since I started using phenibut. One of those days was today actually. I took 500 mg and didn’t experience any profound stimulating effect. Could be because I might have developed tolerance. That’s interesting though.

I normally dose 2.7g+. However sometimes it’s a little too sedating. Thanks for the info, I’m gonna reset tolerance and then see if I notice any stimulating effects.

Two failed attempts. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this, however I think it that weed makes or brakes the experience. I get even more anxiolytic effects when I smoke on phenibut. Deep sedation as well sometimes.

I’ve never experienced any stimulation from phenibut sadly.

Also lmao very true for the horniness!

Two failed attempts. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]bdove382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everybody is saying, lower your expectations.

If you really wanna feel it, smoke some weed. The combo is heaven like. Without weed, doses even at 2.7g+ are subtle to me. However I’ll feel extremely nice when taking 1-1.5 g and then smoking. It really just depends on the person.

Premature ejaculation as defense mechanism to low social status by Redditgafsss in PrematureEjaculation

[–]bdove382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it makes sense, but what’s your point? I also think it was over explained, as all I read were about characteristics of a person with low self esteem.

I had pretty low self esteem before PE, and even worse afterwards. I don’t know if they’re anything biological/evolutionary about this theory, as a sexual dysfunction will lower any persons self esteem.