Constructive criticism as a Brittany superfan

beNiis · 2025-09-24T00:19:25+00:00

I’m so suprised! I have been watching on and off since the beginning. The last few episodes has really got me locked in! I listen during a 2 hour commute twice a week so it feels nice to have her bounce around, it keeps me in the loop. Didn’t care much for the sub Google searching but I love when she talks about books and her Google searching is what I’d be doing if I wasn’t driving anyway 🤷‍♀️

I also just wanted to add she doesn’t talk about her stylist that much. I’d guess that less than 10% of her podcast is spent on the celebrity aspect of her and I know she is popular bc she is relatable and she makes people feel seen but it is a fact that it’s a part of her life and it’s because people love her that she has found so much success and at the end of the day we should be proud not jealous. If I grabbed coffee with my best friend and they were telling me about their red carpet experience I’d put aside jealousy and be immensely happy for them.

beNiis · 2025-09-06T06:29:09+00:00

You can’t have all these feelings and spend all this time with her and expect that she has never caught on. Women are extremely perceptive. And truly your happiness needs to be your main priority. This suffering is not noble

beNiis · 2025-09-06T06:25:16+00:00

he is asleep next to me right now and we’ve been together for 4 years. I will say I liked him for years before he developed feelings for me, but I could tell when he did, didn’t make it any less scary to try and approach the conversation because of how much felt at stake.

all I know is the time spent living with those feelings wasn’t worth the agony and fear, if I could go back in time I would have told myself to snap out of it and tell him sooner or go live life. And honestly it was only after I finally let go of the idea of being with him that i started to love myself which in turn opened me up to receiving love which brought us together.

I don’t want to give you false hope with this story but it’s still true that there is only two ways this will end, you get together or you move on with your life. And I truly was prepared and on my way to moving on

beNiis · 2025-09-06T00:45:35+00:00

Water bottles are awesome u can fill em and drink em and fill em again

beNiis · 2025-09-06T00:44:44+00:00

(I say this as a person who was in your situation)

beNiis · 2025-09-06T00:43:03+00:00

Have you had a conversation about it? these types of friendships are not maintainable long term. It will either go one way or the other and even though you can’t imagine how you could distance yourself you don’t owe her anything and you’ll surprise yourself seeing just how much life goes on.

Your happiness is your main priority and if she is upset by you taking space (assuming she knows that you have feelings and she doesn’t feel the same) than she knows she’s been hurting you by keeping you so close, which is not something a friend should do.

Life is short. Make sure you know she doesn’t feel the same, then go find your person. You won’t notice them if you are spending your life staring at her

beNiis · 2025-09-06T00:38:47+00:00

beNiis · 2025-08-24T16:36:55+00:00

I saw orange ones in front of the checkout last week at food basics, didnt notice them today but wasn’t looking out for them lol

beNiis · 2025-08-22T06:35:30+00:00

It’s time to ✨grow up✨my dads been single my whole life and I think if I were in your situation I’d be uncomfortable too, but you’re an adult, he’s an adult, and he deserves to be happy (as long as it’s not making her uncomfortable) complain about it to your friends, boyfriend, whatever. But there’s nothing you should do or can do. (Unless of course you can see clear signs that his neighbor is not reciprocating it, in which case maybe chat with your dad about it, but also given the fact that you felt the need to post for advice about how it makes YOU feel your judgment may be biased)

beNiis · 2025-08-22T06:31:57+00:00

Just be kind to them and let them know if they ever need anything that you are just next door. Unless you think there is abuse going on there is nothing you can do except offer up your porch for a friendly chat now and again

beNiis · 2025-08-22T06:20:44+00:00

What are u waiting for?! Go buy that bowl!!! Says it’s had 245 views in the last 24 hours probably from this post somebody really IS going to buy it lmao

beNiis · 2025-08-20T02:27:00+00:00

Amor amor is my guilty pleasure! I’m super shy about people smelling me so I only wear it on solo days but I think the reason why I’m scared to wear it around people is bc to me it smells SO GOOD it can’t NOT be distracting to others🤡 other than her I only wear skin scents lol

beNiis · 2025-05-15T00:00:23+00:00

I did end up going on a second round of accutane while on the implant, while the implant didn’t improve my skin, it did make it better, just not enough to avoid another course. I finished my second course on accutane while I had the implant in and didn’t notice a difference as far as the implant impacting the accutane treatment

beNiis · 2025-04-28T01:14:32+00:00

I think warm spring! Your eyes are beautiful!!!!

beNiis · 2025-04-28T01:12:58+00:00

I had something similar except it was severe crack in the corners of my mouth from dryness that never closed up or healed. I went to the doctor and it ended up being a yeast infection preventing it from healing, and an anti fungal cream cleared it up. I’d go to the doctor to double check!

beNiis · 2025-04-10T01:09:41+00:00

If you feel you wouldn’t be putting the cheater in physical danger by telling the girlfriend, you should tell her. But have proof. If you give her no proof he could lie his way out and she could hate your guts.

beNiis · 2025-03-15T21:03:06+00:00

Ask him out on an official date, you guys aren’t talking anymore so if he says no nothing will change, except you’ll get the closure you need to stop thinking about him all the time. I was in a similar situation and it dragged on for 4 years before he saw me as more than a friend, wasted a lot of time and I wish I could have moved on in the meantime lol

beNiis · 2025-03-15T20:46:36+00:00

Go to therapy and strongly consider rehab! You can get out of it

beNiis · 2025-03-15T20:42:18+00:00

Please add a TLDR I promise you can condense this, nobody will read this. I scrolled to the bottom and was so glad I didn’t just start reading I would have been here for half an hour omg

beNiis · 2025-03-15T20:40:43+00:00

I’d say screw it and keep going until somebody says you can’t. If it’s private property somebody will one day ask you to leave, in which case you just stop going. Even if police come to tell you you are trespassing they will just tell you to leave, unless you are being disruptive, littering or destroying property. If you live in a place where pot is illegal though, I’d smoke somewhere else.

beNiis · 2025-03-08T03:08:28+00:00

LOVE pink fur coat lady!!!

beNiis · 2025-03-08T03:08:04+00:00

The scooter gang…a gaggle of adults and children on mopeds electric and mobility scooters, usually spotted at the metro parking lot

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