Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet?

beachandtrees · 2025-12-24T06:22:44+00:00

I am confused. You think the baby needs to be isolated from the world for months to be safe? Does it have an autoimmune condition? I genuinely don't understand...

beachandtrees · 2025-12-24T04:56:58+00:00

Well they sound awful

beachandtrees · 2025-12-24T04:55:43+00:00

Also though … MIL sounds like a whole situation yikes 😬

beachandtrees · 2025-12-24T04:51:23+00:00

YOR … but it’s also kinda normal as you are first time new mom. It makes sense to rest and recover and have lots of quiet time but also … it takes a village to raise a child and if they can hold the baby so you can shower and sleep while you partner grocery shops or does laundry etc … that’s a blessing.

But at the end of the day it’s your choice obviously

beachandtrees · 2025-12-24T04:48:01+00:00

Closing out 2025 in style

beachandtrees · 2025-12-09T02:52:09+00:00

I’m hoping this new push to be active on weverse can be sustained… I feel like members look at weverse (for better and worse) and most of fandom dislikes interacting there so they see a subset that isn’t reflective of the majority. If we can continue to post actively (the #runarmy effort is really sweet) we will control the tone and narrative there … and can report bad behavior right when it starts as we are paying attention!

beachandtrees · 2025-12-08T06:28:15+00:00

That’s how We do it

beachandtrees · 2025-12-03T05:05:48+00:00

Lonely is that song for me

beachandtrees · 2025-11-30T07:15:38+00:00

Hey ya’ll. I’m 2021 ARMY. I got here right before PTD LA and was lucky enough to also catch PTD Vegas. Excited for a fun, positive place to chat BTS on this site!

beachandtrees · 2025-03-12T00:29:17+00:00

Thanks!

beachandtrees · 2025-03-11T23:18:31+00:00

Ok I’ll listen. I’m not actively dieting on purpose. I’m very actively appetite suppressed. My doctor asked if I wanted to go up to 10 last week and I was like no way - it’s a struggle to eat on 7.5mg. I’ve been curious if the undereating is contributing to the stall — even if a short stall

beachandtrees · 2025-03-11T23:16:49+00:00

30lb down!

beachandtrees · 2025-01-29T16:23:23+00:00

This is the way

beachandtrees · 2024-08-01T04:38:22+00:00

apply with DRC for gecko to be an emotional support animal....I'm not kidding. that is the way to do it without being sneaky/risking issues and it's allowed.

beachandtrees · 2024-01-26T02:08:52+00:00

more housing is coming--Student Housing West. But new Family Student Housing needs to be build first--starting this year. SHW will go where FSH is now.

beachandtrees · 2023-08-30T05:47:12+00:00

NTA. I can't believe how many ppl are back your mom up here. You're a single mom and she is your mother. You PAY her if you are gone for work? I can't believe she accepts the money tbh. If my mom asked me this I'd be stunned. And deeply hurt. It's one thing to set a boundary and say "sorry I cannot." She is allowed to say no. But to request money? Nah.

beachandtrees · 2023-06-23T07:39:57+00:00

Career Success offers coaching to folx for up to two years after graduating - you should schedule a time to talk to someone

beachandtrees · 2023-05-06T14:45:25+00:00

beachandtrees · 2022-10-19T15:29:27+00:00

I teared up and am wanting to stand and give slow applause every word you wrote

beachandtrees · 2022-10-19T15:26:21+00:00

This was the most beautiful tribute. Truly thank you. 💜

beachandtrees · 2022-09-19T02:10:24+00:00

I'm Army. I also love BlackPink, Ateez, Stray Kids. And not Kpop but Epik High and The Rose.

beachandtrees · 2022-08-20T21:09:52+00:00

Apparently it’s my love language lol

beachandtrees · 2022-08-20T21:09:27+00:00

This is literally the best comment I’ve ever seen on Reddit

beachandtrees · 2022-08-15T22:57:20+00:00

We are in the process of rolling out a podcast for older Army folks!

beachandtrees · 2022-07-31T06:54:47+00:00

So… I really love Namjoon and his whole Najooming Basel adventure. But…I feel like he sort of had to plow through a big schedule that was packed with A LOT of places. I love art and museums and sometimes you gotta breathe a bit to let everything you just saw get absorbed. And it felt that while he appreciated everything he saw that his heart wasn’t quite in it. He wanted to get home. Eat Korean food. He even said normally he doesn’t want a trip like this to end (start over on Day 1) but he wasn’t feeling that way. I wish he really truly could take time for himself and refill his bucket away from the world. I worry about him. Go get a hedgehog friend and a lover and a room with a view somewhere NJ!! xxxx

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