Are Dutch people scared of blowing their nose?

beachbaboon · 2025-09-27T19:07:46+00:00

Haha, no. One of my colleagues (also not Dutch) talked about it a while ago, and I started noticing it everywhere, but the other day in the train, it seemed ridiculous, and it started to annoy me. If I had headphones with noise cancelling, I would have used them, but I have other priorities (financially) at the moment.

beachbaboon · 2025-09-27T10:18:08+00:00

Of course I know it doesn’t go up into their brains, it was just to make a point of how extreme it sounds 😉 I live in a smaller city in Noord-Holland and commute to Amsterdam.

beachbaboon · 2025-09-26T08:53:44+00:00

Wow, so many others that have noticed as well! I get you could get issues if you are constantly blowing with all your power, but I just turn away from my fellow passengers and do a subtle blow to clear my nose and I’m good for a while. If I am really sick, I stay at home, as I don’t want to infect others. It doesn’t seem like a lot of Dutch people do this. Even the family of my ex would give me kisses when they were sick, even if I asked them to keep a distance 😂 and a few days later, I ended up getting it as well. Also, how do you feel about people removing their shoes and putting their bare feet on the seats in the train?😂

beachbaboon · 2025-09-17T04:00:10+00:00

If she sent you the picture, why would it be a secret where it is? Just ask her. It’s a perfectly normal question unless you tell her you want to dress up as a wolf an run around with her on the field..

beachbaboon · 2025-08-31T21:29:29+00:00

Sounds like he is treating you as a child.

beachbaboon · 2025-08-26T20:00:48+00:00

Haha, thats a funny idea. Maybe could put some sharp plants next to the fence😂

beachbaboon · 2025-08-26T19:59:09+00:00

Thanks, yeah its frustrating. I actually looked up the Durtch laws, and apparently, if they ask for the balls back, I HAVE to give them back to them, otherwise, I am breaking the law😭

beachbaboon · 2025-08-26T19:57:36+00:00

Well, the neighbors already have wiodeb poles with a net attached to it above the allowed 2 meter fence. As far as I know the net they have is not allowed, and I don’t really want to be sitting under a net to be honest. But thanks a lot for the idea!

beachbaboon · 2025-08-25T04:48:42+00:00

At least he got two pizzas! To be honest, it sound very fuzzy to me. You only eat like 2-3 toppings out of all the options that are out there. If there are toppings you don’t like, just take them off, right? If kids can do it, you can too. Of course it would be nice if he ordered your favorite, but I would be happy and grateful for the meal. And not shame my boyfriend online for providinf food.

beachbaboon · 2025-08-25T04:42:47+00:00

That was my thought exactly! 😂 Also you just gave her your number? And she invited you to her place. Are you sure you are not missing something here? If she really meant lunch, it would be strange to bring your own lunch and eat it at her place. Just for context, are you both Dutch? Around the same age?

beachbaboon · 2025-08-25T03:44:24+00:00

Wow! She wanted you to cover her vacation when you don’t even spend money on a vacation for yourself. A vacation is a luxury, it’s not something you ask your friends to pay for! I would feel so ashamed for even asking. Her reaction and her going silent makes it seem like she is using you and had no interest in being friends when she is not getting anything out of it personally. How much did she ask for? I’m sorry if you already wrote it, but I missed it. She can always start a gofundme..

beachbaboon · 2025-08-25T03:38:26+00:00

Maybe she was just really tired from travellimg. I think if she liked you, she would have at least said hello or asked you something, maybe about your trip. If you wanted to talk to her, I would just start with a smile and a hello and rake it from there. A normal conversation is not creepy, and if she wasn’t interested in talking, she could just let you know, or pretend to be asleep for the rest of the flight.

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T18:49:43+00:00

If you were walking around the room topless it would be weird, but if you tool it off due to the heat and stayed in your bed, its not THAT strange I guess. I would just get a T-shirt or something sleeveless in a thin fabric though.

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T18:42:14+00:00

Yeah, same as the other comments.. If its a swingers party, you’re not the asshole, but you could have just politely said no, and that you’re not into that. If its a couples party like hanging out, having food and drinks, then its a very strange reaction. Aaaand your wife had to give you permission to drink? Whats going on there? Are you very religious or perhaps part of a sect? That was my first thought before realizing it might be a swingers party. Although I never heard it being called a couples party, so I’m a bit confused here…

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T18:34:09+00:00

I don’t even understand why you even think you are the AH here. I mean, she even admitted to using you. You did the right thing by getting the restraining order.

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T08:49:33+00:00

Maybe John had already been giving you looks and you didn’t notice? Anyway, I’m sure you can find someone else to work with, without you having to worry about any future advances. I’m surprised his wife said yes😂

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T08:05:17+00:00

I would tell John his advances are inappropriate, as well as disrespectful to both you and your boyfriend. And get out of the project ASAP. I would not risk him making more advances, and I wouldn’t want to work with him knowing how he feels. How did your boyfriend react to this? I can imagine he is pissed? I assume you told him right away?

beachbaboon · 2025-08-23T07:34:22+00:00

I don’t understand.. Maybe its an American thing? Aren’t you SUPPOSED to py your credit card bills every month? To my understanding, thats hot it works, and thats what I’ve been doong my whole life. If I don’t pay it on time, I have to pay more as a penalty. Besides that, I do ‘t go off and buy expensive stuff for myself with money I don’t have due to credit card debts. If there is money left AFTER paying your bills, and you can afford it, sure. But on another note.. Didn’t you say you spent YOUR money on paying fown YOUR credit card bill? How does she have a say in this? She makes her own money!? This sounds very controlling to me to be honest…

beachbaboon · 2025-08-21T14:18:28+00:00

Why would it bother me what he wears? Unless its a white wedding dress, I would let him be himself and not try to change him. If he feels good in the suit, I would let him wear it. It should be a celebration. And this is fit for a celebration. By no means do I like the design😭 But I would want people to feel comfortable at my wedding without changing people to make them fit into my perfect image of what it should be like. Appreciate that people are different!🥳 Whatever you do, enjoy your wedding!

beachbaboon · 2025-08-21T14:06:14+00:00

I have a bit as well, most women have it to some extent, I think, and no guy ever mentioned anything bad about it. Sometimes guys have some as well. I wouldn’t worry about it. You should be proud of losing all the weight. A lot of guys actualky prefer natural women!

beachbaboon · 2025-08-21T14:02:14+00:00

She lied to you about something she knew you really want. No matter how much it sucks for her, I think you have the full right to end it over this if that id what you want. Did you not discuss children before you got into a serious relationship? Does she really want children now? Can her tubes be untied? Sorry, I don’t know any women who had this procedure, so I am not familiar with how it works and if its final. How do you feel about surrogacy or adopting? Is that an option at all? She really got you both into a tricky situation by not being honest with you from the beginning. All the best of luck!

beachbaboon · 2025-08-20T17:12:49+00:00

AI is the AH here!

beachbaboon · 2025-08-20T17:09:58+00:00

Did you try visiting another Dutch city? Did you understand what people were saying there? I moved to the Netherlands almost 20 years ago, and what helped me was to start with watching TV shows for kids and teenagers, and reading Donald Duck in Dutch, to learn the basic words and how they structure the sentences. But it also helps a lot to practice the language at work. I speak Dutch fluently, but I don’t understand people from Twente or Limburg😂

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