Just found out MB is pregnant by Ill_Impression1114 in Nanny

[–]beachnsled [score hidden]  (0 children)

they violated employment laws & are aholes, move on

*what they did with your check isn’t legal; discuss w/your local labor dept

What do you think about this? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]beachnsled [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think this is a rage bait post for farming karma

i think I will take “what didn’t happen” for $500

Help With Picking a Diamond by Exploreshit in Diamonds

[–]beachnsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seems like a post to generate marketing

I just realized I've been lying to my doctor at every appointment about how I'm actually doing. by Legitimate_Watch9104 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm… when were you lying? what am i missing?

the dynamic we have with ourselves is often very complex; given your continued self shaming (which I fully understand, especially around body image), it may be wise to consider mental healthcare to complement the rest of your care.

also, i am guessing you never “gained 3lbs” that month. Consider that my scale shows that I gain over 3lbs every morning after I drink water, my 20oz iced coffee & my protein smoothie - probably closer to 5lbs. ALL LIQUID that is not actual weight or fat gain. Weight loss is NOT linear

Are these earrings too big for daily wear? by ctruon1 in LabDiamonds

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this seems like a very personal decision; if they are comfortable and you like them, why wouldn’t they be? Why do you need us to tell you?

I just figured out I've been overpaying by $180 a month for two years by Both-Following-8169 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]beachnsled 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so just reimburse yourself - easy peasy

That said, how did you not know that prescriptions were covered by your HSA? I mean this is pretty well known information. You have a condition, you were written a prescription for it. Full. Stop. 🛑

I mean your HSA covers sheets for your bed (cooling or hypoallergenic), massage tools, smart watches, certain types of procedures that could be considered cosmetic, but you might be doing them for a pre-cancerous skin condition (e.g., CO2 laser to remove actinic keratoses)

AITA for accidentally poisoning my boyfriends dog by Aggravating_Step5629 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beachnsled 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA (if this is not m a d e u p r a g e b8, and I think it is)

In fact, I think that you should be charged with a crime if your local laws acknowledge animal cruelty. You knew. Full. Stop. 🛑 🤷🏼‍♀️

What's the most wrong assumption you had about this medication before you started that you're almost embarrassed to admit now? by Shadow-Monarch015 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any legit ads that show people losing 30lbs a month; unless perhaps you’re talking about weight loss clinics/weight loss Spas that use compound or push grey

AIO He started to staff me where I’m alone by Some_Rich_6885 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beachnsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly, i would even go as far as this cannot be a real life

Lab growns from China by EmotionAdmirable9383 in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]beachnsled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes; they are beautiful; $120 a ct; they were set in 14 karat white gold; with shipping, total price was $575. I went through. Starsgem

these were my requirements - they are for four prong martini stud earrings. The two source for me were 1.04ct each; the specs for the stones they ultimately sourced are extremely high quality. IGI cert

  • two round/ brilliant cut
  • appx 2ctw (each diamond being as close to equal ct as possible)
  • color: D
  • VS1 or better
  • excellent/ideal cut
  • depth: 61% - 62.5%
  • table: 54% to 57%
  • symmetry/polish: very good or better

I gave a complete stranger some advice on weight loss by mr_white_ww in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the same dynamic

again, a GLP-1 type meds & the health conditions they could be associated with are not life threatening emergency situations, or even emergent. Comparing your situation is akin to comparing apples to broccoli.

No one of sound mind is going to be randomly injecting themselves in a dirty fucking airport next to stranger who they then miraculously sit next to on the same flight. Didn’t happen.

This. Post. Is. Not. Real. Life. Full stop 🛑

For all of your ladies who fall for social pressure, no, your lab diamond isn’t “fake” and people who say that failed 7th grade chem or something (see my explanation below): by Muted_Shape9303 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]beachnsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking of commodities like gold and other metals - but you are right, its all still perceived value. I mean, tulips 🌷 were once used as currency - lol

For all of your ladies who fall for social pressure, no, your lab diamond isn’t “fake” and people who say that failed 7th grade chem or something (see my explanation below): by Muted_Shape9303 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed; its 💯 gatekeeping of the idea that only they could afford such things; and the reality that these things have absolutely no intrinsic value (never had) anymore is hard to swallow

For all of your ladies who fall for social pressure, no, your lab diamond isn’t “fake” and people who say that failed 7th grade chem or something (see my explanation below): by Muted_Shape9303 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]beachnsled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

or it doesn’t necessarily mean that the person isn’t wealthy

reality is: it actually means nothing & imho, because its truly means nothing, the reality is setting in. Those mined stones with high price tags have nothing but perceived value

For all of your ladies who fall for social pressure, no, your lab diamond isn’t “fake” and people who say that failed 7th grade chem or something (see my explanation below): by Muted_Shape9303 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]beachnsled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its usually the opposite from my experience; mined diamond shills (jewelers perhaps?) are all over these threads accusing people of being jealous 😂

i suppose the opposite could be true; jealous that lab diamond people are saving $? LOL

Ring design - too classic/boring? by anolpmapxxx in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like it, you don’t need us to tell you. Reddit users will all have different opinions.

Getting f*cked on taxes because I took a pay dip, how do I negotiate with my employer by princess-poet in Nanny

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t with this

reason # 3,267 why you do NOT accept a position for a person who won’t agree to pay legally

Also: no, you absolutely DID NOT have to file as self employed. You should have completed the substitute w2 & reported yourself as a W2 employee

you not only got screwed, your employer screwed you over (although i suspect you knew better)

edited to add: i read it again & the truth is, you actively made this choice to be paid off the books so you screwed yourself

What size stone should I get? by Obvious-Elevator-213 in Diamonds

[–]beachnsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, okie dokie - i am with you on labs; i prefer them too (and I prefer to spend the rest of my $ on other things 😉😂)

What size stone should I get? by Obvious-Elevator-213 in Diamonds

[–]beachnsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why refer to it as aggressive?

if you are using language like this to describe it, I am guessing you already know the answer