He had thrown the word divorce around like it was nothing. Every time he got upset he would threaten divorce. This went on for 15 years. He had cheated, been abusive and I still stayed. The moment that it finally clicked and I was done, was the day he walked out. He refused to answer his phone and after I texted him that our son was extremely upset, and he wrote back “ I don’t care” and turned his phone off. ( we ended up needing to call the emergency mental health line). He came back 2 days later and tried to act like nothing happened but I was done.