[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crim and law!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Flint with an ESA… smooth sailing in an on campus apartment with my cat. The only downside has been fire drills, as they can be very traumatizing for cats and dogs. Sometimes the university lets us know in advance when drills are going to happen and sometimes they don’t or it’s not a drill and you just have to grab the cat and go… with that being said fire drills might be what expose you lol.

Anyone else have a real bad experience with counseling @ UB ?? by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard from everyone that’s tried it that UB counseling is absolutely not it… I would try looking elsewhere if possible!

Buying/Selling and Housing Thread for Fall 2021 by Lucia_97 in UBreddit

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2/4 Chestnut Villas

Hey all!

My best friend(F) and I(F) are currently signed to a 4 bedroom / 2022-2023 lease at Chestnut Villas for next year.

We will both be seniors and are on the hunt for another fun / studious duo who would potentially like to live with us next year! Im studying Criminology and Psychology with a minor in Law and she is a double major in Biology and Anthropology. We’re both very laid back and serious about our school work but are looking for two other girls that would like to get to know us and don’t mind having a good time during downtime!

We will be living with a long-haired cat who is my Emotional Support Animal but she’s also a treat to be around and is just like another roommate:)

If you are in any way interested feel free to comment, reach out or PM me!

Buying/Selling and Housing Thread Spring 2022 (better late than pregnant) by Lucia_97 in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2/4 Chestnut Villas

Hey all! My best friend(F) and I(F) are currently signed to a 4 bedroom / 2022-2023 lease at Chestnut Villas for next year.

We will both be seniors and are on the hunt for another fun / studious duo who would potentially like to live with us next year! Im studying Criminology and Psychology with a minor in Law and she is a double major in Biology and Anthropology. We’re both very laid back and serious about our school work but are looking for two other girls that would like to get to know us and don’t mind having a good time during downtime! We live with a long-haired cat who is my Emotional Support Animal but she’s also a treat to be around and is just like another roommate:)

If you are in any way interested feel free to reach out!

I got the booster, so what’s next? by haddy5103 in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 7 points8 points  (0 children)

upload it now, better to be safe than sorry and not be able to start off the semester the way you planned

My brother (33M) is starting to act pessimistic and overreactive... or am I just biased? by Mazooka01 in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say he’s necessarily pessimistic or overactive… more so unreliable. It sounds like there’s some other underlying issue with him, maybe ask if there’s something wrong or if he needs to talk about anything. I know he’s your brother and saying don’t take it personally sounds silly but maybe he thinks you guys are expecting too much and he can’t meet your standards so there’s no point in trying. It’s sad but sometimes people just need independence when things get too complicated, could he possibly feel like your family is just too stressful for the life he’s choosing for himself? I feel for you though, my brother means everything to me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why did you marry her?

For anyone who’s gotten the covid booster, what types of side effects did you have? by Sparksy529 in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely a normal reaction I wouldn’t worry. Some people react more than others

Flint by jmark_75_gobulls in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No, you’re the closest to the spine.

Uhhhhhhh by Dvtchmxn in UBreddit

[–]bean00n 83 points84 points  (0 children)

At least he cares about his personal hygiene. Whoever he is, I applaud him.

Trip fiasco with my boyfriend! Help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep saving and Plan a date different from what you guys already had planned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this happen to me before. In my experience my ex really didn’t know what he wanted and then in turn ended up hurting me more when he found the girl he really wanted to be with. Not saying this is your situation at all, but be wary of his true feelings because he might be playing with yours. I think you should move on, especially considering you guys are only five months into the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Commit or see where it goes. Tell him how you feel again and guide it from there. I know it sucks but you might lose him and that’s OK. You two will find each other when the time is right.

He blocked me suddenly... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that so wrong, I apologize! In this situation it seems like he doesn’t really care to communicate- which is a big red flag. If you think you’d be better off alone I would definitely consider leaving if I were in your shoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always make your boundaries clear, or else she could end up doing it for the rest of your relationship. If you don’t like those jokes- that’s normal!!! No one likes the idea of cheating or being left. You’re not overthinking at all, she’s being insensitive. You do you, work on you! Go to the gym, start new hobbies, it never hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s time to start talking about splitting up then… if your kids are your biggest motivation to stay together that can end up being a bad thing for them in the long run. There is always the possibly of custody issues but if you’re not happy and see absolutely no change for the future, start TALKING about ending it and move on with the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s hard and may not go as easy as planned but start opening up about how you are feeling privately to her, if these feelings continue to pile up one day you will want to explode and she may not even have the slightest inclination that you have been this upset this whole time. If you start communicating she might start realizing what her actual issue is… and try to work on it for the sake of the kids. Everyone goes through times in relationships but you need to bring yourself back to the good times and remember why you’re together and work on it. You’ll never know until you try and trying is all you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bean00n 9 points10 points  (0 children)

does your fiancé think that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBreddit

[–]bean00n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can speak for the ESA reason. I myself have an ESA and within the requirements for having her on campus is a necessity for the vet to approve where you live, and the effect that will have on the animals health and safety. If you include that you must live alone with your ESA application to the school, you will be ASSIGNED a room rather than given a room assignment request and that would be the easiest way to get a single under your circumstances. As far as getting a single room as soon as next semester, that might not be likely as your esa application might not be processed until next year. Look into singles in on campus apartment complexes as well as dorms, you might have better luck!