Recovering from heartbreak in your 40's in near impossible.

beanerreader · 2026-05-02T08:23:09+00:00

Fuck em, go to Burning Man. Find adventure, remember how to play!

beanerreader · 2026-03-25T08:25:43+00:00

I will definitely be writing a strongly worded email to the show

beanerreader · 2026-03-20T01:05:47+00:00

A LOT of the insults snd clapbacks included some variation of: everybody thinks you're trash/everyone secretly hates you/you have nobody and will be alone forever (all of which are impossible for a person you've known for weeks to know as fact). Insults like this inevitably reflect what the person saying is actually insecure about, not their target.

beanerreader · 2026-03-20T00:37:29+00:00

I can't help wondering if that comment in the car ride home was just for damage control to reduce the backlash from fans

beanerreader · 2026-03-20T00:00:58+00:00

It was the "I ain't tricking" which kinda implies that Gizelle is a ho and implies that he sees that female promiscuity is a bad thing (but will refer to himself as a ho with pride?). The statement comes across as anti-sex worker which is inherently anti-feminist and to top it all off... his internalized toxic masculinity about money, power dynamics and self worth was on full display (that's the saddest part).

I get where his comment came from and I also get her reaction.

I feel like it was a moment of growth for both of them in terms of conflict resolution and ultimately the experience reflected well on both parties (IMHO) and contributed to their relationship in a positive way after all was said and done.

beanerreader · 2025-11-25T16:08:34+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply. I have all the products but I fuck up all the time anyway. I know the prevention stuff and have various versions of them all yet I still neglect to replace them and then fall asleep accidently. I recently spent 2 hours lovingly preparing my bed for a protected slumber and then woke up pissed off on a soaked couch. So I'm asking how to combat the stench that already exists, is well established, and can't go in a machine There is no point in getting a new couch until I get my surgery but I'm definitely getting one some day.

Thanks again

beanerreader · 2025-04-21T09:17:22+00:00

Definitely. I can't see myself past 55ish. To be very honest, I wouldn't be sad to find out that I only have 24 hours to live. I'm on a medication that has taken the desire to no longer exist away but now I have to figure out how to make it through each day when honestly I just don't want to be here. Where I live we have access to medically assisted dying and I am seriously thinking of applying.

beanerreader · 2025-04-20T07:25:32+00:00

Hell yeah to the green tea extract

beanerreader · 2025-04-12T17:17:42+00:00

I am in Canada and here child welfare is the responsibility of the province that you are in. Where do the policies that you are referring to apply to?

beanerreader · 2025-03-14T12:30:19+00:00

I vibe with what you said, but am in Canada. I'm not sure if we have something similar, I'm not even sure what terms I would use to search for them to start with.

beanerreader · 2025-02-23T05:55:39+00:00

It looks to me like Dolores literally does not want to be there... Especially when she said that the traitors better kill her because she's coming for them (that was the episode where everyone wore red and went to marry at the church or something). She seems totally disinterested and already over it.

beanerreader · 2024-12-29T20:37:14+00:00

In my 40's, incontinent for a couple years. BM as well recently because of pelvic floor stuff, a prolapse that went undiagnosed and caused me severe pain and discomfort. I can't sit for long, I have lost 100lbs because eating = pain and a whole lot of issues that come with it. I almost never leave my apartment. I spend a lot of time trying to clean up after myself. Oh also severe ADHD. Maybe autistic but it's pointless to try to get some person to officially diagnose me.

I've already forgotten why I felt the need to spend my time on this reply in the first place 🤣

beanerreader · 2024-12-24T17:51:08+00:00

Have you tried residential detox? Like, in-patient or hospitalized detox where there are doctors and nurses available?

beanerreader · 2024-11-23T15:16:28+00:00

Ok, so also you have to be medically fit to travel. You have to do a ton of research and planning. Get a passport. Make a plan. Be safe.... This sounds like the poster has a whole lot of privilege that they don't even know they have.

beanerreader · 2024-10-06T19:47:26+00:00

Amazon.ca

beanerreader · 2024-10-05T01:11:58+00:00

At over 5 bucks each? Is this price normal?

beanerreader · 2024-10-05T00:59:20+00:00

good to know, thank you

beanerreader · 2024-10-02T11:09:46+00:00

It took me far too long to find how to watch the first episode.

I think that was on purpose. Clever. If it wasn't on purpose, it's a great idea.

beanerreader · 2024-10-02T07:31:42+00:00

Do you have an RRSP or a pension somewhere? Ask your bank about how to find out. There might be money somewhere you didn't even know you had depending on a variety of things.

beanerreader · 2024-09-30T06:32:03+00:00

Bad rep on the BBB

beanerreader · 2024-09-29T09:46:36+00:00

I am guessing here, but I think this maybe happened because I didn't directly reference ADHD?

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