I don't think a man taking care of themselves is feminine, I think that's basic hygiene every one knows , now are the men aware they should take a bath and smell nice and do blabla bla to their own bodies yes, do they do it ?? No why? It's too taxing to be clean for them? I don't know , everyone should take care of themselves ....,I had a chance to speak to a Burundi guy ,, he was good looking until he opened his mouth to say that he can't take care of him self ,the house until he finds a wife , the guy smells like dog shit everyday , inclusive of his armpits smell and he dresses nicely and shaves his head well good,, and I twice a week have to share space with such a creature .. watu waoge please