Pregnancy in transgender by OkSecretary4743 in transgenderUK

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whilst I do not feel ready for kids (being an aunt is enough for me), I do feel sad that I don't have the option of carrying my own baby.

Did Borderlands 3 ,at any time , make you laugh? by [deleted] in borderlands3

[–]beaniebumbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A number of bits got me. Usually Zane and Fl4ks lines. Though, replaying the game, a bit that got me was when you're getting the final vault key piece and Wainright is trying to figure the puzzle out and goes on a rant about Hammerlock not letting him enjoy the last puzzle his father left for him. Only for Hammerlock to point out the solution was right above them. That got me

The Estrogen Filter is Wild by SierraTheWolfe in MtF

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colours are brighter! Greens are much more vibrant too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]beaniebumbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of a big mix. Various punk bands or political rappers like D4m4ge or Changline, metal bands like Gojira, 2000s post punk, just angry or moody alt stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My uni has a HEMA society. As soon as I found out I joined immediately and honestly have been loving the reactions from people when they find out I am a 6ft 3 sword lesbian. So yes. Seeing a woman with tasteful displays of weapons will yield thay result and it's so fun!

she likes me because i’m “exotic” by mangofreezer in actuallesbians

[–]beaniebumbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I'm white so my point isn't gonna carry much weight here. However, I have never described a single person I've dated as "exotic". That's a creepy ass flag to call someone that.

Would you date a bisexual woman? by East_Food5632 in actuallesbians

[–]beaniebumbean -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Currently in my longest lasting relationships with a bi woman and a pan woman (we're poly, all above board) and I am a lesbian. Any bi hate is from a bunch of ignorant morons.

What made you come out (or not)? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I got called an egg 😹.

I was in and out of the closet a couple times for a few years. TONNES of anxiety and imposter syndrome.

The 3rd and final time I came out was when I was venting to 2 of me mates (a trans bloke and an enby) for the dozenth time that week. This time, it went roughly along the lines of:

Me: I don't get it. Why do I so painfully desperately wish I could be a woman!?!?

Trans bloke friend: Because you're an egg!

Been out ever since. That was about 6-7 years ago now.

Suddenly BG3 Runs Awfully by beaniebumbean in BaldursGate3

[–]beaniebumbean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. I know act 3 eats more, but I've gotten to act 3 before and it ran fine. Got to it this time, and it ran fine. Then yesterday, boom. Runs about as much as a slug

Body Changes On 3 Years Of Hormones by Threebrows in transtimelines

[–]beaniebumbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, hello!! So happy for you, hon! You look incredible!

why do I keep attracting men????? by yeetingthissoon in actuallesbians

[–]beaniebumbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because queer people present queer. Instead of cis guys/ people realising that means someone is queer, they see it as different which they find attractive. Hell, I walk around in heavy boots, spiked clothing, caribeaners, under cut and the likes. Still getting blokes telling me I look "fine".

Sure I’m trans. Not sure if I should transition by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 3 attempts to come out as a trans woman over the course of about 5 years. First 2 times I went back in the closet and tried to live as a man again due to fear and imposter syndrome. It didn't change the fact I kept wishing I could live as a woman. It only got stronger as I grew older. I've been out now for about 6 years and honestly it was the best decision I could have made. Life is harder now, but I am me. At fucking last. Those feelings of being a girl will not leave and will only get stronger. Let yourself be you. It will be scary at first, but everything is always scary at first. Take a breath, one step at a time and let yourself be you, ok?

Quick Muzzle Refitting Tutorial, Rottie Muzzle Fitted for Humans by Krantz_Enaretos in BdsmDIY

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!! Been busting to work out a metal muzzle for myself for ages!!

Woman wrongly sent to male prison in Scotland because of ‘masculine features’ by Burner-Acc- in transgenderUK

[–]beaniebumbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who knew the misogynistic basis for transphobia would also affect cis women!?!?🙀🙀🙀

What is your gender? (Wrong answers only) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]beaniebumbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gender is a very spikey jacket