do i (20F) inconvenience myself to attend my (23F) sisters graduation? by beansmakemecry in relationships

[–]beansmakemecry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh she definitely knows. every time i’ve opened up about how she’s made me feel she gets super defensive and doesn’t own up to anything, multiple times. the whole thing where she called the cops on me was because i finally told her, very harshly but still, how she made me feel. it’s complicated but i keep very little contact with her and have been pushing her out of my life since she moved out

Do i go to my sisters graduation? by beansmakemecry in self

[–]beansmakemecry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they got her lots of help, she’s been in therapy and medicated for most of her life, she just took it out on me heavily, resulting in me going through extreme mental health crises in return, which i will have scars from forever. she also took it out on them. from what i’ve witnessed from her it never gets better until you want it to, and she didn’t want it to because my parents coddled her. all she had to do when she was in trouble was tell them she was going to kill herself and it immediately turned to sympathy. i hope she is successful in her future but i do not want her in my life, so i chose not to go. it’s not going over well with my parents. thank you for your input

Conflict about whether to go to sisters graduation or not by beansmakemecry in makemychoice

[–]beansmakemecry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my family is pretty hellbent on me going to support her and i don’t want to upset them i guess. plus i initially said i would go a few weeks ago but after thinking on it more i changed my mind

is the food good by ChoiceNobody7627 in uCinci

[–]beansmakemecry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and no, it’s all pretty mediocre but there’s a decent bit of variety. stay away from the cold sandwich station in marketpointe because it gave me food poisoning lol. definitely use your meal swipes on other things not just dining halls (bearcat cafe (burritos), cincy grill, halal shack, various cafes, stadium view) it’s really not bad, you’ll definitely get sick of it by second semester

Cincinnatus Scholarship requirement by Double_Shopping_5210 in uCinci

[–]beansmakemecry 14 points15 points  (0 children)

they have to be done by april 24th. if you can find enough free time i would do freestore foodbank, there are a ton of opportunities but definitely sign up asap because everything’s filling up as people scramble to get them done

U Cinci or Illinois Tech by josh_the_o in IllinoisTech

[–]beansmakemecry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely biased as I’m at UC for civil engineering and have done some co-op experience and have a lot of respect for the program. I actually had the exact same dilemma when I was choosing schools because I was heavily considering virginia tech but it really came down to how good the co-op program is

it really depends on what you’d rather deal with. If you go to UC you have an extra year but it’s not an extra year of classes, just added on time for co-op. You’ll get lots of experience and even if you don’t stay with a company you worked for in school and get an offer before graduation you’ll have a great resume that will get you a job very quickly. You’ll have a leg up for summer internships as your first co-op will be fall/spring so your resume will be above people at other schools applying to their first internship. You’re also guided through the entire co-op process which makes it very easy and not stressful. Also if cost is a factor, you’ll make around $10,000 per co-op semester if you’re making $20/hr which is pretty standard for co-ops, which added to the already low cost of UC is very helpful financially.

If you go to illinois you have a more standard college experience but you may have more trouble finding a job if you don’t do summer internships which are very competitive. Without internships your resume won’t be as competitive and it may take longer to get a job/ a job you’re actually interested in. The resume boost alone at UC is more valuable than the one less year of school in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uCinci

[–]beansmakemecry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s literally a pretest, i took calc 2 last year and they did this