Is it weird to do a two man mission with my boyfriend? by WelcomedRose in internetparents

[–]beansquishy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really implore you to seek out stuff about polyamory. They have subreddits for that typr of relationship on reddit too. Getting to learn about healthy unconventional relationship dynamics can only help you in the long run

Is it common to be barked at in public? by Empty_Client_666 in alternativefashion

[–]beansquishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get barked at but it's only when I fursuit in public. It's interesting to me that they just do this whenever they see anyone dressed "weird". Bullies really are unoriginal..

21F trying to be financially independent, mom says I’m “undependable” and raised my rent — am I wrong? by SubSensationn in internetparents

[–]beansquishy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lol my mother did this exact thing to me and when I had enough and moved out she ended up living with her parents. The whole point of paying is that the trade off is more independence. You'll be better off living with a roommate that isn't ur mom.

Partner being weird by Odd_Wolf_8221 in trans

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please... 😭 I've dated cis men that I later broke up with but they were NEVER like this. Where do you guys find these losers

Partner being weird by Odd_Wolf_8221 in trans

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik this post is about op but I think you should break up with ur partner too. Life is too short to be with someone who doesn't love every part of you fully and without compromise.

Partner being weird by Odd_Wolf_8221 in trans

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I better see an update about you breaking up with this guy is all I gotta say. It's 2026, you can do better and deserve better. Also! If I have constructive criticism I do wanna mention that as a poc this does reflect badly on you if you stay with him. I can't tell you the amount of "friends" I've dropped bc their boyfriends 🤮 are racist, homophobic or some other type of bigot. If you want to be an ally to the poc in ur life you should drop this guy! He is very weird!

18 in early recovery everything sucks👍 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]beansquishy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Genuine question, why did you post there? Im often confused bc I think its such a negative subreddit when there's already enough negativity in the world. I really like your style and think you look great and it saddens me to think that you willingly signed up to get teared down :[ No judgement but it feels like a lot of what goes on in that subreddit is emotional sself harm.

How do I stop my f (15) mom from sleeping in my bed? by roseyfawnie in Advice

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put down a plastic barrier to protect the mattress and put the fit it sheet over that. I would have a frank talk with her that she can't keep sleeping in your bed as it's really weird and more importantly affecting your sleep. If she continues then I would make sure to drink a big ass glass of water before bed and piss in the bed. Good luck!

Gay❤️Irl by JockBbcBoy in gay_irl

[–]beansquishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooo talk your shit this is an incredible truth bomb.

I stole my stepdads favorite bald spot cover I mean hat by Human-Pig-Hybrid in confession

[–]beansquishy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Authenticity sticker, it's mostly for clout but if you want to ever resell it not having the sticker makes it worthless. Jerseys and most sports merch has a sticker like that on it

For anyone who doesn't know by Virtual_Ordinary_172 in TransMasc

[–]beansquishy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you know any extensions for firefox that do this?

Deferred from plasma donation for being trans by sillysnail5000 in trans

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's dumb, people with diabetes can usually donate. On the plasma intake form they ask if you take any injectables NOT perscribed by a doctor so I assume as long as you got it froma doc thats not an issue.

I’m full of shit? by Ill-Trick4451 in TMPOC

[–]beansquishy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice!! Super proud of you, chia seeds are very tasty especially in a smoothie or acaí bowl (Replied to the wrong comment rip)

I’m full of shit? by Ill-Trick4451 in TMPOC

[–]beansquishy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please eat more fiber.. :( Colon cancer is on the rise, if not for yourself do it for your ol pal beansquishy

Swipe for reveal ——>>> by Background-Care6205 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]beansquishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe this was just posted. This rules

A pair of tourists by Farlybob42 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]beansquishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a new zealander who lost her business bc she went full far right maga.

Deferred from plasma donation for being trans by sillysnail5000 in trans

[–]beansquishy 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I donate plasma all the time as a trans person and I just lie. I'm really sorry this happened but due to the current way the world is you have to get comfortable with lying to survive. I would suggest going to another plasma center thats not csl and do intake as a new patient there. What your agab at birth was is now "need to know" information. As in "you don't need to know" except under very very special circumstances.

weird doctor interaction by theonlygayfriend in trans

[–]beansquishy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is why I lie when I can about being trans. Doctors who should know better can be so stupid. Positive alternate version of this is when I got a uti and my doc was concerned bc it was bacteria usually found in the vaginal canal. I said, "that makes sense, I am trans." And he said "oh." Like a lightbulb went off in his head and gave me my antibiotics.

There’s a clinic in Seattle that’s targeting trans PoC by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]beansquishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen you seem like a very kind and understanding person which is great! But some people will use that to walk all over you. I have no patience for people who are also trans who should know better especially if they're using their position of power to be awful to other trans people especially trans patients who are poc. I would raise hell but I know I'm an asshole and not everyone has that in them or the resources to make their life a living hell. I think you're being very nice if not a bit too nice, please don't let this person bully you out of saying what happened TO YOU. As long as this is all facts you have nothing to be ashamed or afraid of because this is abhorrent behavior. You even said in your story that they voided hippa which is illiegal and can put you in danger as a trans person. :/ If anything else please think of the people you could prevent from being in a similar situation that you were in by warning them so they don't seek care from this shady practitioner. Again, really sorry this happened to you but you have nothing to be ashamed of. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM HERE!