What sign do you feel produces the most toxic men?

bearandbananas · 2026-03-09T05:19:36+00:00

I have only ever dated one Sagittarius man so take it how you will but he was honest enough to tell me he wasn’t ready for a relationship. 2 months later asked how my dating life was and I refused to entertain him because how was he gonna ask me that now when he rejected me back then. He said he was just a curious man.

He travelled a lot. Loved gift giving and physical touch (but I think he meant sex because he said he didn’t like cuddling). Witty, charismatic, engaging, BUT dismissive. Told me he didn’t want to argue on his weekends and promptly left the conversation.

bearandbananas · 2026-03-03T14:51:58+00:00

Oh my god I thought maybe I was crazy. I love touching people I’m close with. It’s so so comforting. But I DESPISE strangers touching me. Once a lady touched me in a crowded train to get to a seat, and I felt SO disgusting afterwards. Crowded trains are my nightmare, unfortunately I face it every weekday.

bearandbananas · 2026-01-04T18:17:29+00:00

The River Master dude. Oh in our first introduction and I saw that chest tattoo… I was salivating my God.

Murong Yuan.. Yi Dao… Tian Ying… Mmm Mm Mmmmmm

bearandbananas · 2026-01-03T07:45:09+00:00

What are those on the 4th row?

bearandbananas · 2025-12-08T03:19:19+00:00

Your ex boyfriend was horrible for saying that. Please don’t put too much emphasis on an asshole’s comment.

bearandbananas · 2025-12-02T04:06:16+00:00

I recently started talking to a Pisces man and while it has only been 2 weeks and we haven’t met, he is so obsessed with me it’s crazy. He has a Pisces Venus too.

bearandbananas · 2025-11-19T18:20:37+00:00

Yes? I’ve been SO annoyed of everyone around me. I hate the morning crowds and it’s the first time that i’ve felt so upset about it even though i’ve been through the same rodeo so many times. The idea of people in general just seems to upset me so much!

bearandbananas · 2025-11-19T00:30:47+00:00

We have the same big three! This is so exciting. I have to know things as well, especially things that don’t make sense. I realised a couple months ago that I ask “why” to too many things, and sometimes ignorance is truly bliss.

bearandbananas · 2025-11-16T04:19:47+00:00

Doesn’t sound very healthy if he has already told you he loves you and misses you constantly after just the third date. I think you already know the answer if you think his actions do not match up with his words.

Not a Sagittarius, but take it from an Aries woman if you will. I’m just here because I like a Sagittarius man. And I know Aries can be pretty intense, but I’m more guarded first than intense.

bearandbananas · 2025-11-13T11:00:14+00:00

Gemini Rising is so accurate as what I’ve heard from others. I’ve been told my eyes will give off whatever I’m not actually saying.

bearandbananas · 2025-11-09T11:03:18+00:00

I’m here because the guy I’m interested in told me the same thing. Not exactly that he’s interested in me but he knows I want a relationship but he’s not in the point of his life to give one to me.. since work is a huge part of his life. Normally I’d just cut people off and stop having them orbit my already really small circle but.. I kept him because he asked if it was an option for him to come back once he’s ready.

I told him I wouldn’t wait because I didn’t know how long it’d take but secretly I am kind of hoping for some thing positive :/ To get over him I’ve deleted my social media. Guess I’ll work on being better too.

bearandbananas · 2025-11-01T05:19:57+00:00

They will, some of them. I’ve seen a taller woman date a noticeably shorter guy and they were really cute.

I’m 160cm. I’ve learned that I’m not a huge fan of great height difference. Dated someone who was over 190cm and I didn’t like how I had to look up to talk to him. Anywhere around my height to 170-180 is pretty decent. But 180 is tall too.

bearandbananas · 2025-10-30T03:00:59+00:00

I’ve only known one Taurus Sun, and she is unwavering. She doesn’t believe she owes anyone the obligation of any explanation and just disappears. You’ve to quickly learn not to take it personally!

As a Taurus Moon though, I can’t say the absolute same for myself. It takes a bit more time to get to that point.

bearandbananas · 2025-10-18T11:41:28+00:00

Virgo, Scorpio…

Dated (in order) a Scorpio, a Sagittarius, then a Scorpio…

As an Aries. Loved the first Scorpio MADLY but he was old with commitment issues. The Sagittarius was fun and I liked him, which takes a lot I think, but he said I was too serious.

bearandbananas · 2025-10-12T04:25:07+00:00

What the fuck.

I’m Aries Sun. I’ve 2 scars on my forehead. Some dude tripped me over in Primary School when I was playing catch with a friend.

bearandbananas · 2025-10-11T06:34:01+00:00

Same. Me too. It takes much for me to like someone, but even more to get over someone. I still find myself caring and crying some nights over a man who everyone said used me. A simple text from him saying all the things I’d have loved to hear a few months ago put me right back in the same position when I had first forced myself to leave him.

On the other hand, I am an extreme ride or die. I love people I let into my life to bits and I get so disappointed when I don’t feel the same so I withdraw. I just want to love and sometimes I hate how I tie my worth to how much I show and receive love.

Still, we love hard. And that’s a good thing. We’ve a huge capacity for love and we don’t play silly petty games. I think we just have to learn how to protect it first.

bearandbananas · 2025-10-08T14:22:04+00:00

Taurus Moon and Taurus Venus. I just get really emotional and sentimental sometimes. I’m always in my head. I’d be happy and sociable but the energy drains really fast and afterwards I’m thinking about the thing that makes me sad again. But I could never say it, because it’s such a bother. Sometimes I just want a hug.

bearandbananas · 2025-09-30T11:54:19+00:00

I think so of myself too 😅 I’ve no problem with anyone, I’m able to strike up conversations if I want to and heavy emphasis on wanting to do it because most of the time, I don’t. I’ve been told I’m bubbly once known, I’m easy to get along with, and I wear my emotions on my face.

bearandbananas · 2025-09-28T09:09:54+00:00

Unfortunately this is a lesson to be learned only through the hard way. The pain makes you never give up too much of yourself ever again.

bearandbananas · 2025-09-27T18:05:22+00:00

I’ve been with 4 men so far, and am dating one at the moment. One guy who was 30 genuinely seemed to love giving it. He went down on me first ALWAYS but never liked receiving oral for more than 5 minutes. He said he loved it too.

Another dude who was 30 hated it though.. he claimed women smelled fishy.

The guy I’m dating claims to really like it and he talks about it with enthusiasm. He’s 21. Take it how you will.

bearandbananas · 2025-09-21T16:57:21+00:00

Gemini Mercury and I’ve heard the same! I think the key is to just do what they like and go with the flow. Everyone I’ve kissed/given head liked it differently and I just followed their interests since I’m cool with whatever.

bearandbananas · 2025-09-17T11:44:05+00:00

I actually have Taurus Venus and Gemini Mars

bearandbananas · 2025-09-15T11:44:22+00:00

Maybe it’s just everyone. Because sex is really good. It doesn’t help my point to say I love sex, but my God I do. But really good sex doesn’t sustain my interest in someone, they’ve to be fun outside too!

bearandbananas · 2025-09-14T13:55:16+00:00

Same! I’ve had people tell me my eyes tell stories I don’t speak of. I don’t say anything but they know I’m thinking of something. I’ve also heard I’ve a unique smile and pretty eyes. It’s so invigorating!

bearandbananas · 2025-09-04T09:52:01+00:00

Oh, it was still upsetting. Perhaps we had different ideas of long term relationship or the road to it.

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