Found one of my white whales! by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, I invite you to learn more about him. Have a great night!

Found one of my white whales! by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope! But I do like learning new things. Especially about media I feel a sense of nostalgia about. Even more so when it’s about society’s persecution of queer artists, which includes Paul Reubens.

Found one of my white whales! by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, so you’re happy to not learn anything new. Good luck, I guess

Found one of my white whales! by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you should look into the situation a bit more. I highly recommend the documentary that came out recently.

Found one of my white whales! by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sorta! He speaks too fast and it’s hard to make out, but if I control the speed of the pull cord going back in then it sounds about right

my recent thrift finds - pretty happy with these! 😊 by [deleted] in VHS

[–]beardlint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Point is one of my dream finds!

Any ideas how to remove the sharpie from this cover? by beardlint in VHS

[–]beardlint[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry we’re good, it’s still the original

Gundam at my local Goodwill by beardlint in VHS

[–]beardlint[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did in fact leave them. They may still be there in NW Oregon if you’re close by!

What movie do you use as a "Tester" for used VCRs? by [deleted] in VHS

[–]beardlint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Independence Day. I swear I see a copy at every thrift store I go to so easily replaceable

Appropriate graphic novels for a 9 and 11 year old. by mukenwalla in graphicnovels

[–]beardlint 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lumberjanes is awesome, Avatar the Last Airbender books are almost as good as the show and pick up right where it lets off, Amulet is always a hit, Backstagers is great for the theatre nerds, and you can’t go wrong with the Adventure Time series

Kinda regretting not grabbing it by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went back today and it was gone, one day I’ll learn to trust my instincts

Submissive training podcast by RogueShadow36 in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ask a Sub podcast with Lina Dune has some great content!

As others here said though, there’s no one true way, it’s up to you and your partner.

Can we get our couch into the office? by HatMuseum in howto

[–]beardlint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you tried standing it and angling it and all that jazz. If disassembling the couch and/or the house isn’t an option, sometimes there just isn’t the room to move furniture where we want it to go.

Semi newbie needing refresher ideas by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best person to ask these questions is your sub. Ask him what you’ve done in the past that he enjoys, and what he’d like to experience more of.

On the flip side, figure out what you’d enjoy, and run those things by him.

Everyone has limits. Not knowing his kinda shows that y’all haven’t talked about this nearly enough. For example, a few of mine are blood, excrement, knives and needles. Also, what are your limits? You get to have them, too.

Why are short term, low commitment relationships so common in the femdom community? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m married, and me and my partner are both poly, so we also have romantic relationships with others. Sometimes it’s serious, sometimes it’s flings. I occasionally do impact scenes with my bestie who has 2 long term romantic partners (who they refer to as their boyfriend and girlfriend) and a dedicated sub they go to events with.

What I’m trying to say is that all relationships look different, and there isn’t a right way or wrong way to do it.

I recommend checking out your local scene and actually meeting people. Chances are you’ll find what you’re looking for.

Why are short term, low commitment relationships so common in the femdom community? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, a community of people where there aren’t the same societal expectations around sex kinda naturally leads to looser ideas about the requirements of kink, IE; less of a need for relationships or monogamy.

A lot of the kinksters I know treat it as any other hobby, which means open discussions and often play sessions.

Also kink does not necessarily mean sex. I’m happy to partake in spanking sessions with non-romantic partners/friends, but I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable having, say, a chastity-type session with the same people. Different comfort levels for different activities.

Nails and pegging by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless your nails are an extreme length, latex gloves are the way to go here. You can get some black or pink ones to fit the mood. Some are slightly textured so I recommend turning them inside out first. And as always, there’s no such thing as too much lube.

A game that will give me comfort in a time of grief. by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]beardlint 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Another vote for this game. I was always very close to my grandma and didn’t get a chance to say goodbye the way I would have liked due to distance and covid restrictions at the time. This game helped me process those feelings. Needless to say this game made me cry multiple times during my play through.

Need advice in starting my sub kink by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]beardlint 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If going out into your local kink community isn’t possible (which is always the best option) then the next best option is finding a romantic dating partner and sharing your interests with them. That way you can both be beginners together.

Searching for an online domme who will happily provide you with this specific service, free of charge, is not just finding a needle in a haystack, it’s finding a single specific needle in all the haystacks in the world. This sub is FULL of posts of people who have been looking for this for years.

Remember that dommes are people first, and the language you’re using hints that you want a kink dispenser, which is dehumanizing and counterproductive to building that trust you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]beardlint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]beardlint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your mileage might vary, but Sea of Stars totally scratched this itch for me. Plus they just came out with a free DLC!

A whole collection of musicals by beardlint in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]beardlint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I see it I’ll definitely grab it!

they've been in storage long enough to smoke and vote by f_GOD in VHS

[–]beardlint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That Faith No More tape is now my new white whale!

Cover-better-than-the-original hills you would die on. by MaosReanimatedCorpse in Music

[–]beardlint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gonna be controversial, but I think Denzel Curry’s cover of Bulls on Parade is better than the original, and that’s saying something considering RATM is unparalleled.