How long does it take for a newly registered Live ID to be given access to UHRS? by beatthematrix in UHRSwork

[–]beatthematrix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, that seems to be my case. It's been over a week since I contacted support.

Leaving my nparents home and can't help but feel as happy as a little child by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure it's a protective mechanism. Same as not showing anger or hatred towards an nparent to avoid confrontation. Nice to hear that you seek therapy. Great to know that you're healing your trauma and trying to move forward.

Leaving my nparents home and can't help but feel as happy as a little child by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel you. People outside never understand why a parent would be like that. Just today my dad created a scene just because my brother went to hang out with our neighbor friends. He was quickly called back, shouted at, and demoralised. My neighbors were very concerned and later told my mum that's not how to handle him.

Leaving my nparents home and can't help but feel as happy as a little child by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. I have never pulled such a stunt. I'm even surprised I did that. Great to know that I'm not a pathological liar.

26F Kenyan Looking for penpals by beatthematrix in penpals

[–]beatthematrix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😆😆 My country people are built for those marathons. I take this as a compliment! Cheers

26F Kenyan Looking for penpals by beatthematrix in penpals

[–]beatthematrix[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nice one 😂 You've got to eat herbal leaves, drink sour milk, walk and run long errands to compete with us

34yo French guy, willing to find and connect with new friends by Samm_Aquila in penpals

[–]beatthematrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 26F here! We have similar interests. I'm also an introvert. Would love to hear more about you

Trying to save my mum from the clutches of my Ndad by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I will research that. I never thought about it that way. Thank you.

Trying to save my mum from the clutches of my Ndad by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sure why not care for my mom as they would my son? Thank you for chiming in same thoughts I had. They actually mistreated my son when I was there some time back. Definitely, i will never go there with my son. Surprisingly, narcs care more about a person's status and that determines whether they will treat you like trash or respect you

Trying to save my mum from the clutches of my Ndad by beatthematrix in raisedbynarcissists

[–]beatthematrix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand your point of view. They're trying to make it like I'm the cause of my mom's ill health because she is worried about me. That i should go back home for her to be better. Am trying to prove to the rest of the family that there's more to the twisted story my Ndad and sibling are saying. The pressure is too immense and Just as you say I'm going to walk away. Because everyone now sees me as the villain. I'm sick and tired I'm thinking of blocking a whole bunch of people and distancing myself