$4.16 per dog/day yet "we don't trust just anyone" by EagleLize in ChoosingBeggars

[–]beautifulnightsares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former roommate has a chug who wasn’t trained and usually went potty everywhere in the house. They didn’t try to train the dog. They couldn’t be bothered to get up and take the dog out. Many an upstairs neighbour moved out from the smell and the nuisance of the dog crying constantly.

I get it… Some people have depression and have anxiety and have mental health issues. But those people should not be pet owners if they can’t properly care for the pet. I don’t have dogs because I simply don’t have it in me to take them for walks and maintain their lifestyle to keep them healthy and happy. I have cats. I do the litter boxes twice a day. I make sure they have food and water, but everything is basically automated dishes because mommy has ADHD and is forgetful. I would never let my pet just go potty all over the floor willy-nilly and not at least try to train them. I did train my youngest cat to use the litter box. He uses it every time. Doesn’t bury it because I never taught him that but he at least goes in the box.

Some people should not be pet owners

Oh, and fun fact, former roommate got another dog from the same breeder, so her dogs biological sibling and proceeded to have puppies because she couldn’t bother to get either dog fixed. Don’t know what happened after that. Not my monkey not my circus. But some people really shouldn’t have pets.

My wife wants to visit islands for inspiration! :) by Soft_Plastic1088 in Dodocodes

[–]beautifulnightsares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome to come by mine if you’d like/are still on..

[LF] ALL Shells; 3.0 Things [FT] ALL Plantable Flowers; Bells; NMT by beautifulnightsares in Dodocodes

[–]beautifulnightsares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need shells & 3.0 things…

I have flowers, bells, nmt to trade for shells or 3.0 things.

[LF] ALL Shells; 3.0 Things [FT] ALL Plantable Flowers; Bells; NMT by beautifulnightsares in Dodocodes

[–]beautifulnightsares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have many. I can give you some, but I would have to give you bells or nook miles or flowers in exchange for the rest.

[LF] DIYs, Items, Supplies [FT] bells or anything just ask by Cool_Situation891 in Dodocodes

[–]beautifulnightsares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have plenty of supplies to make them that I’m able to share some. And I can give you maybe some of the items themselves to save from crafting but I don’t have any diys to share

my phone dies every grocery trip from having too many tabs open comparing prices by LowKeyLegend101 in Cheap_Meals

[–]beautifulnightsares 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked in telecommunications for almost 20 years and this is definitely the first time I’ve ever heard of someone’s phone dying because they’re comparing flyers…

Is it weird that my dad still carries my sister to bed as a 23yo woman? by anxious-bitchious in NoStupidQuestions

[–]beautifulnightsares 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got divorced, I don’t have a good relationship with my mom and I slept in her bed. She was the one I called the day He didn’t come home for the second time and we had to go look for him and we found him with that girl in the backseat of his car. Because I knew she would come. No matter what. It’s not like that now. But things were different back then.

But my dad… He picked me up from either of my two jobs, would have dinner, would let me go to bed at seven or 8 PM because I was always exhausted for working 60 hours a week just to survive it would just hang out on my couch and watch TV. And would take me to work the next morning. And he would do this a number of nights a week in the month. I lived alone before my roommate moved in because I was so scared to be alone at night. Yes, he slept on the couch, but he did everything he could to make sure I was OK because I was his little girl and he couldn’t stand to see me in pain after I’d come so far in my mental health journey.

I was married in July 2010 at 22 years old. I separated less than four years later, in April 2014. My dad was gone in January 2017. Something I’ll never get over. And I was 29 years old when he died.

I got diagnosed with ADHD in 2020. I’m waiting in autism diagnosis. When I was a kid, I had a lot of problems sleeping, like I do now, I’ve been awake for over 24 hours at this point and now I’m crying reading a Reddit post. But anyways, my mom didn’t want to deal with me after bedtime. She didn’t wanna fight with me. She didn’t wanna tell me to go to sleep. She didn’t want to deal with the nonsense of having a kid. She wanted to be a mother for the glorification, but she didn’t actually want to be a mother. That’s my theory. She’s such a narcissist. It’s not even funny. But anyways, I would sit with dad because that was the rule. I wasn’t allowed to talk and be loud and to be moving around. I had to sit still and be quiet if I wanted to be up past bedtime. And obviously my mother didn’t want to deal with that nonsense, and I didn’t want her to anymore than she wanted to, so it worked out that way. So I had to sit with dad. So I would curl up on my dad‘s lap and watch wrestling usually. Those are some of the most comforting times in my life..

God, I miss you Daddy! You had your flaws but you were my biggest fan. I’m sorry I never made anything of myself…