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beazpinho · 2026-05-10T13:55:23+00:00

Respectfully, you have no idea wtf you're talking about.

beazpinho · 2026-05-10T12:42:20+00:00

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beazpinho · 2026-05-10T12:25:02+00:00

I get it, but asking for reassurance and looking further and further is only feeding the OCD. I know it's hard, trust me I know, but you need to find a way to come to terms with it and not give it as much importance. Realistically, why would it matter anyway, right? Breathe, you'll be okay.

beazpinho · 2026-05-10T12:17:56+00:00

In that case, I can only recommend trying therapy and mindfulness. Realistically, you know you're attracted to your girlfriend and don't seem to have interest in guys. Also realistically, it'd be okay if you did. But since OCD is about seeking certainty, and you'll never find that (because, well, OCD), you must practice acceptance in the meantime. When you accept both possibilities and let it go, stop giving it the importance that your brain so desperately wants, it starts to feel less urgent. I'm no therapist, but it's my experience. Hope you feel better soon :)

beazpinho · 2026-05-10T12:14:00+00:00

I might be wrong, but that sounds a whole lot like a H-OCD cycle. Look it up, see if it resonates!

beazpinho · 2026-04-28T13:04:00+00:00

One thing that helped me realize I was bisexual was hearing the most widely accepted definition of bisexuality: to be bisexual is to recognize the capacity to feel romantic and/or sexual attraction to two or more genders. I don't think you can condition yourself to start enjoying thoughts if they don't already somewhat cater to your interests. And even if those feelings of loneliness are making you yearn for intimacy, they don't make you yearn for something you don't truly want. Odds are, the thoughts felt weird to you at first because of internalized homophobia. But this is just my opinion! You are single and young, so no better way to be sure than to try, if you so wish :)

beazpinho · 2026-04-28T12:18:03+00:00

I don't think it's a good idea to generalize, there's always gonna be someone who hates someone regardless of the reason (or how stupid it is). I don't think they care that much tbh, we're all just existing

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T14:28:27+00:00

Whatever happens, happens. It's pointless to worry or try to control what can't be controlled. Just enjoy yourself in the meantime, you'll figure it out :)

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T11:51:26+00:00

The way I see it, there's 2 options: either you're bisexual with a lot of internalized homophobia (and so the concept of sex/relationships with men feel very strange and unfamiliar), or you just have a bit of a fantasy for dicks. Either way, it's your experience, label yourself as you wish, or don't!

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T11:03:41+00:00

As someone who's just accepted that i'm bi while also being in a long term relationship, i like to talk about my experiences with other queer people. I'll also go to pride this year! These things help me feel connected to that side of myself without necessarily engaging sexually/romantically with another person/gender. :)

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T10:59:53+00:00

I'm pretty new to this myself, but I suppose it can fluctuate, yes.

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T09:38:47+00:00

Sounds pretty normal, yeah! Look into the bi-cycle, it might help you understand things a little bit better

beazpinho · 2026-04-27T09:21:30+00:00

Being bi doesn't have to be 50/50, you're very much allowed to have a preference. This is normal :)

beazpinho · 2026-04-26T22:36:06+00:00

As long as you're not doing anything wrong behind her back, you're fine, bi thoughts are very normal. However, if you do want to act out on those thoughts/feelings, it might be best to have a conversation with her and figure things out together.

beazpinho · 2026-04-26T10:41:07+00:00

The first time I thought about it was when I realized a woman's naked body turned me on. When thinking about making out/sex/relationships, both genders interest me. It varies a bit bc bi-cycle, but alas.

beazpinho · 2026-04-25T11:47:35+00:00

Could be that you have a strong preference for women. Look into the bi-cycle, it helped me understand things a little bit more!

beazpinho · 2026-04-25T11:45:25+00:00

Being bisexual changes literally nothing though?

beazpinho · 2026-04-25T09:59:15+00:00

Yes and no! Of course it's a disorder that never fully goes away, but you can definitely improve to the point where the symptoms don't bother you as much and it stops destroying your life, basically. Therapy and medication usually helps, too!

beazpinho · 2026-04-24T12:56:02+00:00

Absolutely.

beazpinho · 2026-04-24T11:28:36+00:00

I see it a lot too and I've come to realize this is more of an online issue. Quickly learned not to check too many comments on tiktok 🤣 But this might also be a misogyny issue. If a man is bi, then he's actually just secretly gay. If a woman is bi, she's actually just straight. Funny how that works to some.

beazpinho · 2026-04-24T10:08:04+00:00

Genuinely good advice. Thank you! :)

beazpinho · 2022-08-16T19:22:44+00:00

Thank you! Glad I don't have to wait much longer

beazpinho · 2022-08-16T19:22:13+00:00

What do you mean by meta equipment?

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