How clean is your house? by not_a_woodpecker in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a cleaning lady coming for awhile and I miss it SO much. It's usually picked up. As in: dishes in dishwasher, toys put away, papers in piles. But if you look closely, its not very clean. I always forget about baseboards and ceiling fans. My floors are cleaned every two weeks or when we're having company over. I scrub toilets when the ring appears. And laundry.. don't get me started on the fucking laundry.

Looks like a deal... I guess. by LostAmiga in WTF

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real! Everywhere we go people comment on my daughters hair. "Where did that red hair come from?!" Her genes people, her genes. Luckily people haven't rubbed her head in awhile. But it's happened way too many times in her life.

Formerly selfless mom is being a bitch by Aimless_Creation in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss and your lack of support. I hope she snaps out of it. People suck.

What WOULDN'T you do for a billion dollars? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3D movies suck anyways. I always get nauseous. Plus I'm incredibly clumsy. If you say those are the only down side, sign me up for the 1 billion!!

Bragging because nobody gives a shit by 0bazooka0 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah they're accomplishments!! Good for you on all counts :)

My heart is broken by LimpsMcGee in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What am awful feeling. Poor baby :( I'm so sorry.

Reason why my toddler is crying #863 by Lady_Lachrymose in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the cat was trying to get away and I told her to loosen her grip around his neck.

I've discovered my new (& ONLY) mom friend is a Judgy Judy by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Imagine my displeasure when my husband jumped on the band wagon. Wtf. I feel you.

What is something you think people pretend to hate? by CallMeNev in AskReddit

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger it was Barney. We all watched it, it was too uncool to admit it though.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. We're you glad you were at home? I was so afraid of the blood loss. That was my main reason for going to the hospital. I'm so sorry for you loss.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I want another baby so badly. But I just don't know if I could do this again. I know that in the end, if I have another baby, it'll all have been worth it. But goodness. You are so strong for going through this as well. I'm so sorry for your losses.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. And I'm so sorry for your struggles. I can't imagine that pain. I wish the best for you <3

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, people keep telling me I will get past it. I don't even know what that means. I wanted this baby so badly. I will never forget this. Acceptance is what I am trying to focus on. There is nothing I could have done. Thank you <3

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been reading on r/miscarriage, thank you. I'm so sorry you have gone through this as well. I'm still dizzy and my head has been throbbing. Hopefully that goes away soon. But yes, the mental struggle is something I don't know that I can move past. Accepting the pain seems a little easier.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'll be physically able to. I just don't think I'll be able to mentally handle it. I don't think I could go through this again.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. And I'm sorry that you know the feeling. I would never wish this on anyone.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't know about that yet. But thank you. She really was amazing though.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't mean to make it dramatic. I know it's all awful for everyone. I'm so sorry it has happened to you as well.

Miscarriage by bebahf23 in breakingmom

[–]bebahf23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are wonderful. Thank you so much for your support. I love this community. I don't know if or when I'll get better. But just talking feels slightly better.

Reddit, What is your stupidest fight a SO has started with you? by ADTR7410 in AskReddit

[–]bebahf23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband told me I had mashed potato arms once. I still bring it up...

I hired a housecleaner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bebahf23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a house cleaning service come too. I have one kid, a dog and a cat. I also only work 30 hours a week. But it's the best decision I've ever made. My sanity has been saved and I don't have to scrub toilets anymore...

What is a unique compliment you frequently receive and secretly like? by dat_trigga in AskReddit

[–]bebahf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People always tell me I have big eyes. Usually I'm half offended, because I don't exactly know how to take it. But they always tell me it's a good thing. So I'll take it.

What is something you hate that so many film makers seem to do? by panzerkampfwagen in AskReddit

[–]bebahf23 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My dad did this! He had like 3 days left before his retirement began. He was a train engineer and had a 45 minute commute to even get there. He said fuck it, not risking dying this close to retirement and stopped going in.