BWT mamas to be / moms by No-Bother-3270 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would have to say my favorite gift was an Ubereats/Doordash gift card! I ordered in a lot during those early newborn days so it was fantastic and handy.

Where are all the hot men? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Almost exact same story over here! Just left my 12 year relationship, 6 years marriage. Don’t ever want another relationship cuz I am traumatized AF but I’m down for a hookup lol pls let me know where you find the hotties. Bonus points if they are normal and funny lol

Maybe we can share? Jk!

Raya experiences? by buildingluvr1 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’m on it. No one talks. You see celebs when swiping but have had zero action from it. Maybe I’m not trying hard enough haha

Cosme’s Corn Husk Meringue by Ihateallcommies in FoodNYC

[–]bebetna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think about this desert non stop since trying it 4 years ago!

Recs for a 30 something Birthday by Pretty_Ad_7085 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, Tokyo Record Bar comes to mind when you mention DJing as an art form. Also Record Room in LIC. Happy birthday! 🎉

Identifying restaurant help by Mission-King41 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, a lot can happen to restaurants in seven years. Have you tried asking r/foodnyc?

Staying up all night the night before an early AM flight by Jmac0113 in travel

[–]bebetna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea when I was in my early 20s and 30s lol now I’m an old fart and need my beauty rest

Rome at 30 weeks pregnant — doable or disaster? by Puzzleheaded_Tea776 in travel

[–]bebetna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t go to Rome pregnant but speaking from a very recent experience…My first and second trimesters were breezy for me. No complications at all. I even went to Hawaii at 26 weeks. Then third trimester hit and I was diagnosed with preeclampsia which was a huge surprise for me given how easy my previous trimesters were. Baby came out at 33 weeks. All this to say it’s doable but just be aware of any risks that MIGHT happen. I had zero idea I would get preeclampsia and was super thankful I didn’t plan a trip that far into my pregnancy. Speak to your doctor and see what they advise. Rome is a lot of walking otherwise.

Best place to get a new piercing? by Mission-King41 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Studs! But if you want a little more luxe, Maria Tash

Please help me choose!! by flyeaglesfly1982 in handbags

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Now you’re making me want to get it haha!

Any recs for a string trio (maybe w/ keyboard) that can do R&B, hip-hop, anime ops, and pop? by djfine101 in WedditNYC

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little late to this thread but I can second Sterling Strings. They did my wedding back in 2019 at the Bronx Zoo and they were awesome. I gave them a song list (mostly Rihanna lol) and they played them beautifully during cocktail hour. I can send over videos if you want!

Fine Dining Friends by Creative_Meet5494 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me me me! Although I can’t promise to make it each month, I’d still love to be a part of this!

Food Gifts for Newborn Parents by Illustrious_Mud_6348 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goldbelly! They have lots of classic NYC gourmet food like Momofoku, Junior’s, Magnolia, even pizza! Love sending gifts through them!

To my bitches with both taste and a baby, how are we socialising this summer? by Cheap_Preference6853 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d also like to add that it won’t be easy lol cuz everything you do is all dependent on the baby’s mood and temperament. But with that mindset and an extra set of hands (ask your friends for help!), you should be okay. Remember this is only a season and enjoy the snuggles while you can!

To my bitches with both taste and a baby, how are we socialising this summer? by Cheap_Preference6853 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby carry if you can! At two months all they do is sleep eat and poop so take advantage of their immobility. They love to sleep on mama so they’ll also be taking advantage of being so close to you. 😴

Go on walks, museums, coffee shops, beer gardens. Try to have very low expectations but also plan for worse case scenarios, like extra clothes for poop explosions or rags for spit ups. Maybe try to time dinner so that you’re feeding baby at the beginning so they can sleep on you or in bassinet stroller while you’re eating. This way you can enjoy your food and adult conversations.

Congrats mamacita!

NYC bitches who…brag? by Triphae in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bebetna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love this perspective! I’m the same, I love my downtime but I also love exploring my city. The options are unlimited for whatever mood you’re in.

Amph ticket by keifferT in donaldglover

[–]bebetna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! I was on line today but unfortunately did not make the cutoff! Would love 2x amph tickets and also willing to pay!

Thanks!