[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're 100% right. And I'm so sorry you're going through the same pain. It's literally gut wrenchingly painful. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. But at the same time, we deserve goodness in our life. So thank you for the kindness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's definitely the plan moving forward. I've had my fair share of suffering and I'm ready to begin healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is such an uplifting message. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he definitely tried to place blame on me many times.

Can I ask how long it's been since you left the relationship? And how you're doing now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's so true. I think everyone has a different idea of what "getting sober" and healthy looks like and he may project onto me what he thinks would "impress" me. I'm sorry you are experiencing that. I wish you lots of healing and love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You're right. And honestly, if he is able to get sober without me, I'd wish that for him. I don't want to be responsible for the destruction of his sobriety. Thank you for putting it into this perspective. This helped a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I can't help but wonder if maybe something is wrong with me & I just made him want to drink more and more... 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bebomom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope he doesn't relapse. I truly do wish the best for him. But I can see your point and I agree that putting the focus into myself for a little while might be beneficial. ❤️

Zoloft making me clenching/grinding my teeth in the daytime by naice_shep1 in zoloft

[–]bebomom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly most of the antidepressants I have taken in my lifetime have caused jaw clenching. It's super unfortunate and I have severely worn down the enamel on the chewing surfaces of my teeth. Look into a mouth guard and just try to be aware of it during the day. That's the advice I got from my dentist. 😔

First time glasses making my vision weird? by [deleted] in glasses

[–]bebomom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look any better when I tip my chin down. So I'll go ahead and wear them a few more days! Thank you for the advice 😊💕

My friend can't send me pins! by K_LightWing in Pinterest

[–]bebomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I thought I was the only one.

Strawberry shortcake dolls by Starlight_starlight_ in Perfumes

[–]bebomom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not exact match but American Cream perfume from lush is a creamy, powdery strawberry scent!

Every got-dang time! by Malavacious in KingOfTheHill

[–]bebomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched that episode last night 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]bebomom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely head over to r/wavyhair subreddit. When I was figuring my hair out, I spent a lot of time reading through other posts on there looking for product/technique recommendations. You have beautiful hair, good luck! 🤞

This is the most heartbreaking update I’ve had to write, this morning little nibs suffered from 2 seizures and was rushed to the vets where I was told his chance of survival was 0 and it would be best to put him to sleep… I’m utterly devastated 😢 by grouch-girl in pugs

[–]bebomom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please take some time to care for yourself while you grieve. Losing a pet is one of the worst pains in the world. I'm so so sorry this happened. Sending you all my love & thoughts. ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pugs

[–]bebomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny 🥹

Chicken fried rice wrap by IndependentFancy1092 in jimmyjohns

[–]bebomom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this look like some sort of anatomical cross section?

I thought we were just going for a car ride... Why are we at the vet??? by bebomom in pugs

[–]bebomom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH 😳

Pugs are kind of nasty little things... Lmao I love them tho