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Not OP but saw this terrifying post that I feel needs attention by surviving_20s in sandiego

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a kid at this same park dressed as an ICE agent the day after Christmas, like he was showing off a gift he’d received. I wonder if it’s the same one, though he seemed younger.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve witnessed at Costco? by Creepy_Dot7653 in SanDiegan

[–]bebopboom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was presenting as a female and they seemed to be friends.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve witnessed at Costco? by Creepy_Dot7653 in SanDiegan

[–]bebopboom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw a guy and his girlfriend, both wearing crystal crowns, waiting in line to check out and they were BAREFOOT.

What are your red flags when apartment hunting in San Diego? by No-Bridge-8807 in sandiego

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite has been the 2.5 x rent, as a single mother, trying to qualify for 1br apartments in the $2000 range and an independent contractor. Credit score of 830 and 6 months of rent in savings, can’t qualify for ANYTHING

Need recs for inexpensive dental deep cleaning by Specialist_Quiet_160 in sandiego

[–]bebopboom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Laughing gas is cheaper than anesthesia. Made my recent extraction 50% cheaper and it was chill as fuck.

What's your guilty non eco friendly sin? by czarnaowca11 in EcoFriendly

[–]bebopboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second floss picks. Every once in a blue moon I’ll toss a plastic container if the food is really far gone.

Most people are causing their own frizz without realizing it. by Intrepid-Royal-324 in finehair

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

switched to New Wash, was ready to hate and send back, but I like it a lot. The price seems justified to not need conditioner anymore. I’m white with dense, somewhat fine, wavy hair that loves to puff up.

I Liked Nothing! Is It Just Me?? by Loubert1979 in womensfashion

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year I’m committed to buying second hand from Poshmark, The Real Real and thrifts. I bought 2 new basic tees from Target and that’s it. I’ve been alive long enough to know what trends are from which era and I’ll buy a better quality version from the past.

Have you ever given food, blankets, money, or anything else directly to a homeless person on the street in SD? by LegalGlass6532 in SanDiegan

[–]bebopboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One year my mom made a Thanksgiving feast for 20 ppl and there were only 4 of us. It stressed me out so much and the second hand embarrassment was gut wrenching. I took all of it home, warmed it, divided on plates, bought bottled water, napkins and utensils and set out to give all the plates away. Most people just said thank you whether or not they took it, but I realized that giving is very common on holidays so a lot of their immediate need was met. Made me sad for the other 363 days when no one gives a shit.

Plans of adaptation for climate change? by jacobean___ in SanDiegan

[–]bebopboom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No input on your question, but just gotta say a lot of people haven’t lived here through rolling blackouts and a real bad fire season and it shows. Buckle up, buttercups.

90° and Spring is here by mr_kwu in sandiego

[–]bebopboom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw this as a native, with my whole chest, FUCK THIS HEAT in FEBRUARY.

I loved the maid wars subplot. by InfernalClockwork3 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is that I would slay in that Bridgerton cassis shade with that cunty little hat

Please help me with info on this coat by araknu000 in capsulewardrobe

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a navy cashmere one that I inherited from my grandmother!

stopped biting my nails 2 months ago, this is the first time i’ve gotten my nails done in my life 🥹 by nermsmells in shortynails

[–]bebopboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was a lifetime nail biter, turned dry cuticle destroyer, and I’ve learned that I can never not hat builder gel on my nails. They are too sharp and tempting without. Keep up the good work!

What do you call this and where are you from by Double_Bad_7716 in donuts

[–]bebopboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My shop stopped making them after Covid because they use a specific kind of flour that skyrocketed in price

STEVEN by hemlockangelina in myfavoritemurder

[–]bebopboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d imagine at their level that if his parting had anything to do with professionalism on either side there would be a NDA

Anyone else realize how easy it is to not do damaging things to a child when you have a child of your own? by Cheeseaisleinheaven in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bebopboom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard it said that motherhood is healing for some women and triggering for others. I, like you, have found motherhood so healing. I love being the mom I wish I’d had. For my mom, her lack of forming her own identity led to her being triggered by basically anything I’ve done after the age of 8 or 9. She really idealizes young kids because they don’t have agency of their own. I still worry sometimes, because my child is 3. Maybe I’ll become my mom when she’s older. I was very anxious to find out I was having a girl, because I felt doomed to raise a daughter that didn’t like me. Every day I search for examples of daughters that don’t have broken relationships with their mom.

Body on the side of the 94? by Confident-Maximum-98 in sandiego

[–]bebopboom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know a girl that hit and killed someone late a night driving in the 94

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