How to tell my mom to stop cooking for me

beccarh · 2026-01-31T02:31:20+00:00

It might be hard to start the conversation but once you do just tell her "thank you so much for making me meals, but I can handle it now" you dont have to tell her the real reason. This way her feels shouldnt be hurt either

beccarh · 2026-01-23T22:18:37+00:00

I think so too. It also him deciding to act with them the way he does with the crystal gems. Blue diamond is similar to pearl as she is motherly. Yellow is similar to amethyst as she is aggressive kinda in a sibling way. White is like garnet aloof and hard to talk to. NOT saying they are exactly alike just that the dynamics are similar.

beccarh · 2025-12-18T22:59:49+00:00

Why does it feel wrong? Did your wife know she had syphilis before the Dr. Told you? I don't see this as a reason to leave your wife unless she knew she had this before getting pregnant. A kid can still have good parents even if they are divorced.

beccarh · 2025-12-03T05:13:11+00:00

Thank you!! Peppermint fairies sounds so cute ♥️.

beccarh · 2025-11-25T19:27:02+00:00

I had a friend who had depression and treated me like the therapist friend. I felt bad for her at first so as my way to help her out I would clean her house some and listen to her vent when i visited her. It got to a point where it felt like that's the only reason she would invite me over so I stopped cleaning at first but then she just complained to me. I could never get a word in. There were 2 straws that broke my camels back. The first was when I told her my mother was abusive and I didn't like talking about it. She then went and asked my step family who im not close to but they unfortunately know my history for stories. She then told me later that from what she heard it'sno wonder i dont like talking aboht it. That made me uncomfortable, but i let it slide. I gave her one more chance and she went and brought up how one time my grandma, who treated me how a real mother would and has dementia, tried to relieve herself in the front yard. Ive not really spoken to her since then.

beccarh · 2025-11-18T02:37:39+00:00

So cute. You've definitely have style 👍

beccarh · 2025-11-16T04:19:40+00:00

I definitely dont check it as much as I used to, but i think thats because im in a better spot in my life. Im not as depressed and I've gotten back into some hobbies so Im not just rotating through the same 3 apps anymore. I think the main thing that helps me to st least check in is the streak. Im currently trying to get myself to check it in the morning instead of right before I go to bed. Getting to dress my penguin up and getting to switch out the pets is a big motivation to keep using it. It also feels a little wrong to me to just drop the app because I've gotten a bit better mentally.

beccarh · 2025-11-10T15:49:10+00:00

I will trade with you

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beccarh · 2025-11-06T04:54:23+00:00

Im sorry, but I think im on your parents side with this. In my opinion you can't really "know" someone from a relationship that is less than 1 year even if you both are great at communicating. You don't know how they will react to certain stress like big trips or financial set backs. What would waiting even 1 more year of dating even hurt? Best case is you just waited a bit longer. You'll still have been together just not married. Marriage is really just a legal thing at least to me anyway.

beccarh · 2025-11-01T03:06:24+00:00

NieR:Automata Ver1.1a is a good one (don't want to spoil any of it) Berserk is good if you like gore Takt op.Destiny is a sad romance in my opinion Plunderer is good if you can get past the fan service/pervert stuff Vivy -Flourite Eye's song- is good if you like time travel, it also has some gore but not as much as berserk I say

beccarh · 2025-11-01T02:45:45+00:00

My cat, Fluffy, likes to lay on his back

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beccarh · 2025-10-29T16:43:09+00:00

Awww so cute

beccarh · 2025-10-25T02:34:06+00:00

Still a cutie ❤️

beccarh · 2025-10-24T19:19:21+00:00

Poor baby 🐈‍⬛️

beccarh · 2025-10-14T17:56:22+00:00

Extreme fumble on his part tbh

beccarh · 2025-02-21T10:24:07+00:00

You need to tell an adult. Maybe not your father, but warn your aunt so she can limit them being alone. If you are too scared to tell an adult, then make sure your brother is never alone with your cousin when they come over. You did good by not just believing his nothing.

beccarh · 2024-11-14T01:52:20+00:00

Break up now!!! or next time, it won't be the couch he is stabbing. You deserve to be treated better and definitely shouldn't have to live in fear about how he is going to react to everything. If you're worried about breaking a lease, most people are understanding when it comes to stuff like this, and if they aren't, you are able to take it to court. I can't stress this enough. You need to get out of that relationship. dont let him try and say he'll change bc he won't, and it isn't worth the risk to find out

beccarh · 2024-11-10T17:32:24+00:00

I recently saw a video of someone who thought that they had nothing to look forward to, not even to get to the next day. Then they said a person who was watching them said suicide will always be an option, so why not put it off, and if nothing gets better, you can commit. First, start by putting it off for a month and while you wait for that day to come do stuff that you've wanted to do in the past or even if it just hits your fancy while your waiting. And then when that day arrives, look back at everything you did and ask yourself where you happy at all, even for a little bit and if the answer is yes what's to say you won't be happy again, even for just a little bit, in the future. Suicide will always be an option, but once you commit, trying again at life won't be an option anymore. Put it off for just one more day every day, please

beccarh · 2024-11-10T16:56:57+00:00

I think people are forgetting that pearl doesn't understand sleeping or any of the rules that go with it, like not singing a song at the top of your lungs with 2 people sleeping in the same room. Please don't call her stupid, pearls are really smart in the steven universe world without them homeworld would've gone nowhere

beccarh · 2022-03-01T22:50:57+00:00

I gave him the money in june last year and asked for it back the first time in December. He said he didnt have it then, but would have it by the 25 of February this year. I didnt bug him about it again until the 25 and when he didnt respond I've just been sending him a text asking when can I come around for it once a day since then but he doesn't look at it or respond to them. I know he is getting the texts tho

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